Am confused, i need serious help

Date: 27-08-2010 10:06 pm (13 years ago) | Author: chinny chuks
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- at 27-08-2010 10:06 PM (13 years ago)
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I met a guy recently and i like him so much but i have a problem with him, he has a girlfriend, who loves him and he loves her 2 according to what he is telling me now, he is telling me to stay with him that he loves me and wishes to settle down with me, his problem with his girl friend is that her parents said she cannot marry an igbo man, so she should cut the relationship with him but they still call and text each other everyday. And when ever i confront this guy he maintains he knows what he is doing, that i should not be scared, but am really really scared.

Posted: at 27-08-2010 10:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- Kennee at 27-08-2010 10:34 PM (13 years ago)
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lt's kinda Risky sha

He might just be tryin 2 use yu

My advice is, if yu like him and wanno have somethin with him, just do it for fun... Don't give yur All for Som1 dat has another

Posted: at 27-08-2010 10:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- omorewa at 27-08-2010 11:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 27-08-2010 10:34 PM
lt's kinda Risky sha

He might just be tryin 2 use yu

My advice is, if yu like him and wanno have somethin with him, just do it for fun... Don't give yur All for Som1 dat has another


that is what i was thinking....... he is cheating on his gilfriend with you and you are accepting it just because he said he will marry you and he is sleeping with both of you...........THINK GIRLFRIEND HE IS A USER Wink HE MIGHT DO THE SAME TO YOU OOO Lips Sealed

Posted: at 27-08-2010 11:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 28-08-2010 01:05 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: hazle on 27-08-2010 10:06 PM
I met a guy recently and i like him so much but i have a problem with him, he has a girlfriend, who loves him and he loves her 2 according to what he is telling me now, he is telling me to stay with him that he loves me and wishes to settle down with me, his problem with his girl friend is that her parents said she cannot marry an igbo man, so she should cut the relationship with him but they still call and text each other everyday. And when ever i confront this guy he maintains he knows what he is doing, that i should not be scared, but am really really scared.

He wants to know which one tastes better.
Posted: at 28-08-2010 01:05 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- godwinleo at 28-08-2010 04:08 AM (13 years ago)
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you better ran away from him okay
Posted: at 28-08-2010 04:08 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 28-08-2010 07:19 AM (13 years ago)
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What is that guy doing there?  Huh?
Two girls in the same time, and acting like that's something normal?  Undecided
Imagine that he'll dump his girlfriend and be with u!What happens next?
Can you guarantee that you'll remain his only one?
I'm sorry if I'll sound too harsh, but I really doubt it!
That guy is playing with both of you!

Posted: at 28-08-2010 07:19 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 28-08-2010 09:13 AM (13 years ago)
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And when u datin him, he will tell his next (cuz beliv me there will b a next)

tht u cant marry him for this or tht...

Hmmm many guys outside who dont get gal, so go look for one there...

How wud u feel if a gal com take ur guy??
Posted: at 28-08-2010 09:13 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- youngk at 28-08-2010 11:14 AM (13 years ago)
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@poster,careful oooo...don't trust him that much.
Posted: at 28-08-2010 11:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 28-08-2010 01:19 PM (13 years ago)
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They said it all

Posted: at 28-08-2010 01:19 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Michro at 28-08-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Close ur eyes
Make a wish
Do not be stupid to please someone
And you will not regret ever taking an action
Run for ur dear life

Posted: at 28-08-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 28-08-2010 02:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: hazle on 27-08-2010 10:06 PM
I met a guy recently and i like him so much but i have a problem with him, he has a girlfriend, who loves him and he loves her 2 according to what he is telling me now, he is telling me to stay with him that he loves me and wishes to settle down with me, his problem with his girl friend is that her parents said she cannot marry an igbo man, so she should cut the relationship with him but they still call and text each other everyday. And when ever i confront this guy he maintains he knows what he is doing, that i should not be scared, but am really really scared.

U know he has a girl an U are hanging with him. next thing is his girl will find out and start saying stuff like men ALWAYS cheat (as if it is with goats they do, that do)

Anyway U should love Urself a bit and pull away from him. Give him room to make up his mind cos sometimes we say we know what we are doing but get caught up in being indecisive and end up making a mess of things for everyone.

He needs to decide and ur being there won't help as much.
Posted: at 28-08-2010 02:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 28-08-2010 06:02 PM (13 years ago)
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haha Onchedu... with goat? Abeg which kind fantasy u hav  Grin
Posted: at 28-08-2010 06:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hazle at 28-08-2010 06:10 PM (13 years ago)
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thnk u all for ur lovely advice, am so gratful
Posted: at 28-08-2010 06:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- HOPEA23 at 28-08-2010 06:28 PM (13 years ago)
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you welcome

Posted: at 28-08-2010 06:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Michro at 28-08-2010 10:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-08-2010 06:02 PM
haha Onchedu... with goat? Abeg which kind fantasy u hav  Grin
I tire o

Posted: at 28-08-2010 10:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omorewa at 28-08-2010 11:12 PM (13 years ago)
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your welcome..

Posted: at 28-08-2010 11:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- handbag at 29-08-2010 12:58 AM (13 years ago)
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men get sweet mouth,so is better to let go,b4 it is too late
Posted: at 29-08-2010 12:58 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- versatiles at 29-08-2010 01:09 AM (13 years ago)
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Yes you are supposed to be scared because you aint doing the right thing.Backoff from that relationship
Posted: at 29-08-2010 01:09 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Michro at 29-08-2010 09:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: handbag on 29-08-2010 12:58 AM
men get sweet mouth,so is better to let go,b4 it is too late
Women sabi lie...

Posted: at 29-08-2010 09:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pev2 at 30-08-2010 05:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Michro on 29-08-2010 09:44 AM
Quote from: handbag on 29-08-2010 12:58 AM
men get sweet mouth,so is better to let go,b4 it is too late
Women sabi lie...
Both need help from each other.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:04 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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