Is it wrong to marry for citizenship?? (Page 8)

Date: 12-09-2010 10:17 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Justin Olamide
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- FlyMamacita at 15-09-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetmother on 15-09-2010 05:26 PM
hehehe i know, i was in antwerpen some weeks ago, leuk dat belgische taaltje, lol. also went to Gent last year too.its a very relaxed place for everybody same as Holland.
hehehe nu krijgen we dat Hollandse accent lol  Grin

Yea well Antwerp is rily cool for shopping, party and just meetin new ppl... Gent is very openminded indeed  Smiley
Where u liv in NL?
Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago)
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i stay 25 km from Amsterdam, between Amsterdam and the North -sea.
Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 15-09-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetmother on 15-09-2010 05:35 PM
i stay 25 km from Amsterdam, between Amsterdam and the North -sea.
aw ok nice  Grin
bin to amsterdam couple of times, rily like it... U guys get a lot of entertaining tins (music concert,...)

Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 05:48 PM (14 years ago)
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To be honest i hardly come to Amsterdam. Am too busy with the kids and it takes me 30 minutes to get there.In summer we hang out on beach all day, more fun to get to Zandvoort.My son is chef cook there in a beach restaurant , so thats fun too
Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago)
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It depends on your aim and motive of getting married!
I BET YOU THAT MARRIAGE WILL BE MISERABLE COS YOU MARRIED JUST TO BECOME A CITIZEN
AND NOTHING MORE!!!

I Case My Rest
Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 05:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetmother on 15-09-2010 05:48 PM
To be honest i hardly come to Amsterdam. Am too busy with the kids and it takes me 30 minutes to get there.In summer we hang out on beach all day, more fun to get to Zandvoort.My son is chef cook there in a beach restaurant , so thats fun too

No wonder you are sweetmother! I think i love your username
Posted: at 15-09-2010 05:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago)
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 :)thanks. its the song my eldest daughter always sang for me, out of happiness with me
Posted: at 15-09-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 15-09-2010 06:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetmother on 15-09-2010 05:48 PM
To be honest i hardly come to Amsterdam. Am too busy with the kids and it takes me 30 minutes to get there.In summer we hang out on beach all day, more fun to get to Zandvoort.My son is chef cook there in a beach restaurant , so thats fun too
yea wel since my son is born there is not much time to go party anymore... so i knw wht ur talkin abt

summer time to d beach and everytin Smiley u eva bin to d sea side in Belgium ?
Posted: at 15-09-2010 06:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 06:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetmother on 15-09-2010 06:08 PM
:)thanks. its the song my eldest daughter always sang for me, out of happiness with me

Oh_I see;then you must be tremendously in love with your eldest daughter.
How old is she,If i may ask?
Posted: at 15-09-2010 06:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Alex11 at 15-09-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 15-09-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago)
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see ur ugly teeth
Posted: at 15-09-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 15-09-2010 07:47 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetmother on 15-09-2010 04:48 PM
@dirtykid.
Thats not really thrue, especially in my family , we treat everybody same, we dont see anything like colour or whatever.Holland got many different colours, and we are very normal to all .My mother welcomed all my friends  i brought, feeded them and even bought them cloths, so dont know what country u talk off but its not thrue.
The whole thing started on the ones coming here for bad reasons, and no intentions to live their life here, unlike many other Africans, who normally legalized, who work normal jobs and behave good here.
I got many African friends in Holland who even witnessed, how in some outdoor festival, the Nigerians tried to get me out of some stand, while both my kids are half nigerians.Even they abused me in all sorts of ways to get me away, that in my own country where i carry my own passport, while most of them are illegal doing crime, which i know for a fact.Who are the racists here. I try to make my kids get used to Nigerians, since their dads both dont care about them, somebody has to do that.Time after time i get abused trying that.First investigate before talking of racisme.


Well i'm not saying all whites does that, but to be honest with you is happening every day, 70% of them don't seems to like foreigners no matter how hard they pretend to, In holland might be difference what about other EU Countries mostly in eastern EU and some western parts that doesn't want to see them around, even they don't welcome their mixed kids as well... I'm telling you with experience, believe me is happening there, got so many friends with broken families there and they still love their wives and kids, but they got no choice.

Also why is it, like in UK most ladies use divorce to threaten a man, esp when they knew you're rich or can afford things, why ?? so all this make people the right people engage in what they don't like to do, just to survive.

I feel your agony and your reasons on your own side, Maybe you met the wrong guys at the right times,..... But damn it how come 2 different dads and one cants stay with you ?? thats strange and sad  Sad  Sad
Posted: at 15-09-2010 07:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 08:16 PM (14 years ago)
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I love all my 4 kids, they are all angels, but the eldest is something special to all mothers, but i treat all same way. my twins are 22 and on thir own.my son has his own room and works fulltime, my daughter lives with her fiance and studies, last year on her study now. they go marry after that.
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:16 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 08:20 PM (14 years ago)
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That means you are already a grandmother___Sweet mother
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago)
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|I wanted to remarry to the first naija but he wanted fast paper and married my friends friend in greece, he wanted fast paper and she a baby. thats how they did.and they left me with his first son coming in 8 months.i believe that  story that not all naijas are same and gave another guy a chance too. he first didnt accept my girl, later he did and came just once a year to visit me, victor is ex footballer and travels a lot. he didnt giver her even a postcard on her birthday. and since she became 4 we never saw him again.i hear from time to time they see him in nigeria for some event.
So it didnt happen the way i liked. i just wanted to remarry and get happy for life.
Then i had an accident that damaged my knee and couldnt work or do a thing for long. My dutch ex husband felt sorry i was left alone with this 2 kids and came to help me here. he is sharing a room with my son and helps me pay the bills, we are just friends but its better then nothing.we help each other. he needed a roof and me help.
Am already happy the kids got him as dad since, so they get a good eduction like my twins had from us.
God is with us and thats the best in life
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 08:25 PM (14 years ago)
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not atall,latisha tola is 8 and my last girl here. my twins both dont want kids the coming years. first finish study and have a career, travel and see places before they think of kids. so no chance for long yet. unless i get one blessing from god myself, lol. i love kids much, they are always welcome
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:25 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 08:31 PM (14 years ago)
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so who got ugly teeth here? mine are very clean and white Tongue
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:31 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 08:33 PM (14 years ago)
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WONDERFUL__Your story is really COMPLICATED.
The lord is with you sweetmother to console you in your time of pain.
"Ephesians 6:10_Finally,brethren;Be strong in th Lord,and in the power of His Might"
I pray that THE HAND OF GOD REST UPON YOU AND YOUR HOUSEHOLD In JESUS NAME!!!
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 15-09-2010 08:34 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetmother on 15-09-2010 08:31 PM
so who got ugly teeth here? mine are very clean and white Tongue

Its Alex11!  I think you need some rest now! Its not Advisable for an Elderly woman like you
to stay long on the computer
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sweetmother at 15-09-2010 08:37 PM (14 years ago)
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God is with me. because all kids work hard either in school or their jobs.Daily i get compliments about them and their hard work and good behaviour.I got a man who loves all 4 kids as his own, although he is just a friend now , its good that the kids got a stable life here. we all are happy and doing fine . so its not complicated atall right now.
My first priority is the well being and studies of my kids, and as long they succeed what more a woman wants.I praise God every day for the blessing. I go sleep now i wake 5.30 am.take care all of u and stay blessed, good night Smiley
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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