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The long and short of this write up is called 'playing smart' and 'killing love'. Love holds no bound. It will cost the lady alot to ask these questions and define the relationship early enough than to keep mum and watch things fall apart. That ladies ask these question does not make them cheap. It shows they know what they want. Putting your eggs (how many) in one basket is an assertion that is wrongly use in this context. For a start, you have just one egg and definitely you cannot put one egg in two baskets. The actions of a lady can define a relationship. It can prompt the guy to start thinking positive or negative. An average guy meets a lady, the first thing that comes to mind is 'laying her' except its 'love at first sight'. Her actions and inactions tells the guy what stuff she is made of and not 'playing smart'. ReplyLove is suppose to be enjoyed not endured. Love is not over bearing. Let it flow
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Quote from: agabs on 13-10-2010 03:10 PM 1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN When a girl says that, it means she likes me. So if I like her I tell her something like soon. If I don't like her I tell her it will be a long time before she sees me again. I correct her expectations. If I like her, that statement may be the reason why I do not talk to another girl. Cause, I have to bring our possibility to conclusion. Madam Instructor, there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy she likes when she will see him again. 2. WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL? When a girls says that it means she likes me. And you where thinking about me. Wow! That is good for a mans ego. If we are in a relationship it means that you care. That feels good. I will be like yep, "am the man." My girl is so into me. 3. WHERE WERE YOU? Good one. She wants to personalize me? And turn me into her hand bag? Cool! Very cool. I was with my other girl friend. Watch her face change and don't laugh. Torture her with suspense. It feels good. She cares that is why she is asking where you were. Or she doesn't trust you. Either way it is all cool. 4. I LOVE YOU? I ask myself if she shows it in her actions. This might be good time to actually talk about love and what she expects from a lover. Funny thing is if she is a real person, she may find out that she doesn't love you. That she is just attracted to you physically. A good time to get to know each other. 5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? I think this is the time where she has to go get herself tested for stds. And she has to stop giving me sex too. This is the time she has to be bitchy. And if I do like her, I will be beg. You definitely know that silence to that answer means ..............................I will lie. Don't believe me though. Especially if you know am a very segxwally active person. 6. ARE YOU SEEING ANY ONE ELSE? Answer 1. Yes, I am seeing somebody. I would love to introduce you to one of my friends. I think you will be good for each other. Answer 2.1 No, I am not. How about you, are u seeing any one else? Okay, wow, so I guess we are the only two humans in the world who aint seeing some body else. So what do we do with each other? Any suggestions? Answer 2.1 No, I am not. How about you, are u seeing any one else? Oh, you mean that guy with the big head is your boyfriend? Are you sure I won't collect you from him? Cause this your waist is something else. Who is the other cute girl I saw you walking with the other day? She is a no go area? What is wrong with all you girls of nowadays? Must you girls have sex everyday? Boyfriend boyfriend boyfriend. Why did you even ask If I am seeing somebody else? Oh! you want to hook me up with your cousin? Is she cute? Can she cook? Seriously, I don't have time for playing around. All my friends are married. She has a degree in law? Plus she is a bookworm? Sounds like my kind of person. Is she sexy? Ehn? You say her boobs are bigger than water melons and her arse is bigger than fulani 'nono' calabash. Chai! Hope no be heavy duty? Ha ha hahahah. Sha don't tell her you are introducing her to some guy. create a natural environment. 7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Good! So this girl has got some sense upstairs. I thought she will never ask. If she is wise, if I do not give her good reasons, she should walk immediately. Immediately. Not one second delay. She is getting older. She should make sure I back my words with actions too. 8. WE NEED TO TALK? What about? Now is not a good time. I don't want to talk about it. That shit makes me angry. Please don't go there. Or, this may be the time I have to reassure that I am not seeing some other chick. This may be the time I have to soothe her. This may be the time that we have to deal with some drama ones and for all. 9. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? I was thinking about having sex right here, right now. In the car right now. And she will be like, "with all this people around?" I will be like who cares. She will be like, "pervert?" I will be like, "when it comes to that your big nyash, I am a complete pervert." I guess we will end up somewhere doing what animals do. I wasn't the one that created testosterone. 10. I DON'T TRUST YOU. I like this chick and she doesn't trust me. She needs to stop being so suspicious. She needs to chill. =================== Madam Instructor, not all guys are players. Not all guys are players. This things you say women should never say are what interested women say. Sha, even now adays, ashawo the form interested and honest too. Ha ha hahahhahahah. Pepesy, not every guy is a player. If you don't say some of these things, a guy that likes you may think you are not caring. I knw fully well dat faithful men exist. Dis is meant for players. And for ur info… l m nt searching. Ma guy nd peep who knw me in person knw ma worth nd nt complaining… it’s all abt choice.
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Quote from: tyabo on 13-10-2010 03:32 PM Quote from: Pepesy on 13-10-2010 10:25 AM While in a relationship...there are a few stuff the guys need clarity before u ever get to mention....see some Lucia listed below and make your inputs... 1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN? You'll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he'll call. If not, next. You don't have time for anyone that doesn't have time for you. 2. WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL? There's only one answer to this question: Because he didn't want to!!! What you're really asking is, "Why didn't you want to call me?" Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn't be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don't be so quick to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it's a big mess! 3. WHERE WERE YOU? If he wanted you to know where he was, he'd tell you. What you're really asking is, "Were you with another female that you like better than me?" Your insecurity is showing, sweetie. If anything, he should be wondering where you were. 4. I LOVE YOU. You're saying it in the hopes that he'll say it back, but what if he doesn't? You'll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying "I love you" is not going to speed things up if he's not ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he's ready. 5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? As long as he's not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don't torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss. 6. ARE YOU SEEING ANYONE ELSE? Mystery is to men what romance is to women. You've just indirectly told him that you want to be exclusive, you've handed over control of the relationship and you've killed the mystery. Who knew 5 words could be so powerful? 7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Nowhere fast if that's your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that's constantly worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it's going. If it's going somewhere, you'll know it. If it's not, you'll know it too. 8. WE NEED TO TALK. This is the equivalent of, "Go to the principal's office". Guys know it's not going to be a fun conversation, so they're already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don't try to talk to him when he's tired, stressed or trying to watch Man U and Chelsea! 9. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? What you're really asking is: Is something wrong? Are you mad at me? Are you thinking about our relationship? Are you thinking about me? Are you thinking about someone else? If he wants you to know what he's thinking, he'll tell you on his own. If he doesn't, he'll lie when you ask. 10. I DON'T TRUST YOU. What you're actually saying is, "You need to step up your game, because I can see you're up to something." If he is up to something, he'll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb—it'll be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions. For the ladies pls. everything is rong wid dz statement..in dz situation d gurl is as good as being called a slut, flirt,cheater, ashawoo..dats a very bad 1 dere......... Try 2 b nice 2 ur girl so she doesn’t find any reason 2 say any of dis…
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Quote from: Kennee on 13-10-2010 04:00 PM Pepesy my Head no Dey Love Matter Right now Maybe l go Read am Later Or make l Give yu my Number make yu Read am to me?   U can always comeback 2 it. lol!
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Quote from: helenlosoha on 13-10-2010 04:15 PM taking note and learning...........more plzzzzzzzzzzz nxt version.
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Quote from: imeltus on 13-10-2010 04:18 PM The long and short of this write up is called 'playing smart' and 'killing love'. Love holds no bound. It will cost the lady alot to ask these questions and define the relationship early enough than to keep mum and watch things fall apart. That ladies ask these question does not make them cheap. It shows they know what they want. Putting your eggs (how many) in one basket is an assertion that is wrongly use in this context. For a start, you have just one egg and definitely you cannot put one egg in two baskets. The actions of a lady can define a relationship. It can prompt the guy to start thinking positive or negative. An average guy meets a lady, the first thing that comes to mind is 'laying her' except its 'love at first sight'. Her actions and inactions tells the guy what stuff she is made of and not 'playing smart'. Love is suppose to be enjoyed not endured. Love is not over bearing. Let it flow U ve spoken well bt dis suppose 2 be a new topic on LOVE bt come 2 tink of it,,, is luv meant 4 1 party?
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why putting eggs in many basket? better quite when u sence that he is not sincere.than ocupying ur time wit a player.more over there is nothing wrong wit asking those question.some guys are just to slow to speak.or better say not the talking type. so u have to make them talking sometimes.putting eggs in many basket has make many women into turning their supose husband to boyfriend and boyfriend to husband.just bcos they don,t have time to waste Reply
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Quote from: betty55 on 13-10-2010 05:33 PM why putting eggs in many basket? better quite when u sence that he is not sincere.than ocupying ur time wit a player.more over there is nothing wrong wit asking those question.some guys are just to slow to speak.or better say not the talking type. so u have to make them talking sometimes.putting eggs in many basket has make many women into turning their supose husband to boyfriend and boyfriend to husband.just bcos they don,t have time to waste well said. Bt,,, if u're nice guy dealing wit nice babe,,,, ur babe can never tink of dat.
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Quote from: Pepesy on 13-10-2010 04:49 PM Quote from: agabs on 13-10-2010 03:10 PM 1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN When a girl says that, it means she likes me. So if I like her I tell her something like soon. If I don't like her I tell her it will be a long time before she sees me again. I correct her expectations. If I like her, that statement may be the reason why I do not talk to another girl. Cause, I have to bring our possibility to conclusion. Madam Instructor, there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy she likes when she will see him again. 2. WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL? When a girls says that it means she likes me. And you where thinking about me. Wow! That is good for a mans ego. If we are in a relationship it means that you care. That feels good. I will be like yep, "am the man." My girl is so into me. 3. WHERE WERE YOU? Good one. She wants to personalize me? And turn me into her hand bag? Cool! Very cool. I was with my other girl friend. Watch her face change and don't laugh. Torture her with suspense. It feels good. She cares that is why she is asking where you were. Or she doesn't trust you. Either way it is all cool. 4. I LOVE YOU? I ask myself if she shows it in her actions. This might be good time to actually talk about love and what she expects from a lover. Funny thing is if she is a real person, she may find out that she doesn't love you. That she is just attracted to you physically. A good time to get to know each other. 5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? I think this is the time where she has to go get herself tested for stds. And she has to stop giving me sex too. This is the time she has to be bitchy. And if I do like her, I will be beg. You definitely know that silence to that answer means ..............................I will lie. Don't believe me though. Especially if you know am a very segxwally active person. 6. ARE YOU SEEING ANY ONE ELSE? Answer 1. Yes, I am seeing somebody. I would love to introduce you to one of my friends. I think you will be good for each other. Answer 2.1 No, I am not. How about you, are u seeing any one else? Okay, wow, so I guess we are the only two humans in the world who aint seeing some body else. So what do we do with each other? Any suggestions? Answer 2.1 No, I am not. How about you, are u seeing any one else? Oh, you mean that guy with the big head is your boyfriend? Are you sure I won't collect you from him? Cause this your waist is something else. Who is the other cute girl I saw you walking with the other day? She is a no go area? What is wrong with all you girls of nowadays? Must you girls have sex everyday? Boyfriend boyfriend boyfriend. Why did you even ask If I am seeing somebody else? Oh! you want to hook me up with your cousin? Is she cute? Can she cook? Seriously, I don't have time for playing around. All my friends are married. She has a degree in law? Plus she is a bookworm? Sounds like my kind of person. Is she sexy? Ehn? You say her boobs are bigger than water melons and her arse is bigger than fulani 'nono' calabash. Chai! Hope no be heavy duty? Ha ha hahahah. Sha don't tell her you are introducing her to some guy. create a natural environment. 7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Good! So this girl has got some sense upstairs. I thought she will never ask. If she is wise, if I do not give her good reasons, she should walk immediately. Immediately. Not one second delay. She is getting older. She should make sure I back my words with actions too. 8. WE NEED TO TALK? What about? Now is not a good time. I don't want to talk about it. That shit makes me angry. Please don't go there. Or, this may be the time I have to reassure that I am not seeing some other chick. This may be the time I have to soothe her. This may be the time that we have to deal with some drama ones and for all. 9. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? I was thinking about having sex right here, right now. In the car right now. And she will be like, "with all this people around?" I will be like who cares. She will be like, "pervert?" I will be like, "when it comes to that your big nyash, I am a complete pervert." I guess we will end up somewhere doing what animals do. I wasn't the one that created testosterone. 10. I DON'T TRUST YOU. I like this chick and she doesn't trust me. She needs to stop being so suspicious. She needs to chill. =================== Madam Instructor, not all guys are players. Not all guys are players. This things you say women should never say are what interested women say. Sha, even now adays, ashawo the form interested and honest too. Ha ha hahahhahahah. Pepesy, not every guy is a player. If you don't say some of these things, a guy that likes you may think you are not caring. I knw fully well dat faithful men exist. Dis is meant for players. And for ur info… l m nt searching. Ma guy nd peep who knw me in person knw ma worth nd nt complaining… it’s all abt choice. Where the fork did the self defense shit come from?. You see. You see yourself. Hmn! Chai, see as you d show yourself. Ha a ahaha ha hah ah. Women! criticize their opinion a little and they will start showing themselves. Hmn! ============= "Ma guy nd peep who knw me in person knw ma nye nye nye worth nd nt nye nye nye nye nye complaining… it’s all abt choice." Emcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww! See your mouth. ha h ah ahh ah aha ha. Ha h ah ahah ahah ah. ======== @pepesy, what is all about choice? H hah a hahah. And how you sure your guy knows a woman's worth? I guess, cause you make him run after you with your mind games, you think he worships you. When a guy chooses to worship a woman, he chooses to do it irrespective of her actions. She becomes his baby. Even if she becomes a cripple he will still be there. Women and people who play mind games are selling themselves short. @pepesy, decide to stop controlling your man with those you wicked games and see what happens. Naughty girl. Ha ha hah ahah. Don't go mad. Ha ha hahahahah!
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Quote from: Pepesy on 13-10-2010 04:55 PM Quote from: Kennee on 13-10-2010 04:00 PM Pepesy my Head no Dey Love Matter Right now Maybe l go Read am Later Or make l Give yu my Number make yu Read am to me? U can always comeback 2 it. lol! Sorry, Headache Dey l Need yu to Read am to me With Sesky voice WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 13-10-2010 11:25 AM Not like does not favour me nor I against reciprocal love. My idea is to drive in love from christian perspective. Rather do your best and be blameless before God. The heart is one and cannot be shared into many baskets. Except we are talking on two different loves: one in which you do not love with your heart and one in which you love with your heart. No heart's love can be shared! nah true talk b dat but dont b a fool for anybody they go use sweep ground , even husband wey u marry shine ur eyes so u go c road no go fall for gutter, but dont u ever cheat, do ur best and b blameless b4 GOD
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Wat a senseless post Reply
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I guess this post is never meant or 'll it sustain a honest relationship. ReplyITs like, bottle ur feels and play along....lets see who should blink first.
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Quote from: agabs on 13-10-2010 05:48 PM Quote from: Pepesy on 13-10-2010 04:49 PM Quote from: agabs on 13-10-2010 03:10 PM 1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN When a girl says that, it means she likes me. So if I like her I tell her something like soon. If I don't like her I tell her it will be a long time before she sees me again. I correct her expectations. If I like her, that statement may be the reason why I do not talk to another girl. Cause, I have to bring our possibility to conclusion. Madam Instructor, there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy she likes when she will see him again. 2. WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL? When a girls says that it means she likes me. And you where thinking about me. Wow! That is good for a mans ego. If we are in a relationship it means that you care. That feels good. I will be like yep, "am the man." My girl is so into me. 3. WHERE WERE YOU? Good one. She wants to personalize me? And turn me into her hand bag? Cool! Very cool. I was with my other girl friend. Watch her face change and don't laugh. Torture her with suspense. It feels good. She cares that is why she is asking where you were. Or she doesn't trust you. Either way it is all cool. 4. I LOVE YOU? I ask myself if she shows it in her actions. This might be good time to actually talk about love and what she expects from a lover. Funny thing is if she is a real person, she may find out that she doesn't love you. That she is just attracted to you physically. A good time to get to know each other. 5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? I think this is the time where she has to go get herself tested for stds. And she has to stop giving me sex too. This is the time she has to be bitchy. And if I do like her, I will be beg. You definitely know that silence to that answer means ..............................I will lie. Don't believe me though. Especially if you know am a very segxwally active person. 6. ARE YOU SEEING ANY ONE ELSE? Answer 1. Yes, I am seeing somebody. I would love to introduce you to one of my friends. I think you will be good for each other. Answer 2.1 No, I am not. How about you, are u seeing any one else? Okay, wow, so I guess we are the only two humans in the world who aint seeing some body else. So what do we do with each other? Any suggestions? Answer 2.1 No, I am not. How about you, are u seeing any one else? Oh, you mean that guy with the big head is your boyfriend? Are you sure I won't collect you from him? Cause this your waist is something else. Who is the other cute girl I saw you walking with the other day? She is a no go area? What is wrong with all you girls of nowadays? Must you girls have sex everyday? Boyfriend boyfriend boyfriend. Why did you even ask If I am seeing somebody else? Oh! you want to hook me up with your cousin? Is she cute? Can she cook? Seriously, I don't have time for playing around. All my friends are married. She has a degree in law? Plus she is a bookworm? Sounds like my kind of person. Is she sexy? Ehn? You say her boobs are bigger than water melons and her arse is bigger than fulani 'nono' calabash. Chai! Hope no be heavy duty? Ha ha hahahah. Sha don't tell her you are introducing her to some guy. create a natural environment. 7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Good! So this girl has got some sense upstairs. I thought she will never ask. If she is wise, if I do not give her good reasons, she should walk immediately. Immediately. Not one second delay. She is getting older. She should make sure I back my words with actions too. 8. WE NEED TO TALK? What about? Now is not a good time. I don't want to talk about it. That shit makes me angry. Please don't go there. Or, this may be the time I have to reassure that I am not seeing some other chick. This may be the time I have to soothe her. This may be the time that we have to deal with some drama ones and for all. 9. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? I was thinking about having sex right here, right now. In the car right now. And she will be like, "with all this people around?" I will be like who cares. She will be like, "pervert?" I will be like, "when it comes to that your big nyash, I am a complete pervert." I guess we will end up somewhere doing what animals do. I wasn't the one that created testosterone. 10. I DON'T TRUST YOU. I like this chick and she doesn't trust me. She needs to stop being so suspicious. She needs to chill. =================== Madam Instructor, not all guys are players. Not all guys are players. This things you say women should never say are what interested women say. Sha, even now adays, ashawo the form interested and honest too. Ha ha hahahhahahah. Pepesy, not every guy is a player. If you don't say some of these things, a guy that likes you may think you are not caring. I knw fully well dat faithful men exist. Dis is meant for players. And for ur info… l m nt searching. Ma guy nd peep who knw me in person knw ma worth nd nt complaining… it’s all abt choice. Where the fork did the self defense shit come from?. You see. You see yourself. Hmn! Chai, see as you d show yourself. Ha a ahaha ha hah ah. Women! criticize their opinion a little and they will start showing themselves. Hmn! ============= "Ma guy nd peep who knw me in person knw ma nye nye nye worth nd nt nye nye nye nye nye complaining… it’s all abt choice." Emcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwww! See your mouth. ha h ah ahh ah aha ha. Ha h ah ahah ahah ah. ======== @pepesy, what is all about choice? H hah a hahah. And how you sure your guy knows a woman's worth? I guess, cause you make him run after you with your mind games, you think he worships you. When a guy chooses to worship a woman, he chooses to do it irrespective of her actions. She becomes his baby. Even if she becomes a cripple he will still be there. Women and people who play mind games are selling themselves short. @pepesy, decide to stop controlling your man with those you wicked games and see what happens. Naughty girl. Ha ha hah ahah. Don't go mad. Ha ha hahahahah! Bla bla bla,,, will nt help u,,, try make a little sense it will cure u cmpletely
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Quote from: princedafe on 13-10-2010 06:13 PM Wat a senseless post Mr. senseless post,,, l trust u on dat
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Quote from: qunodinga on 13-10-2010 05:40 PM pass where u dey pass dey go?
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