kingsgoodman at 29-10-2010 03:22 PM (14 years ago)
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My fiancee receiving calls from her ex-boy friend's is it advisable? I love her, we are both from different tribe, she is from Yoruba and i am from Igbo. She said she will not stop receiving calls from her ex-boy friend's, also said she will even invite them on our wedding day. Pals do you think is proper allowing her do that, can allowing her ruin our relationship. she said is just all about trust, should i seat watch that happen. Pals advice gently no rude words thank you.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 03:22 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 29-10-2010 03:27 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Whose story is that, actually? Weren't you the one married with a white lady?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 29-10-2010 03:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 29-10-2010 03:34 PM (14 years ago) (f)
It will affect your relationship if you allow it to affect it....but you can be matured enough to let her pick her calls...........you dont have to lock her in becos you wanna marry her.........there is nothing wrong if she invites them, it is now left for them to attend or not........unless she changes her numbers, they might not stop calling her.............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 29-10-2010 03:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 29-10-2010 03:37 PM (14 years ago) (f)
oya poster allow her be.. or else u'll be standing alone on the alter the said day
seriously though trust is a stong issue, if u can't trust her then there's no point getting hitched
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Posted: at 29-10-2010 03:37 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
My fiancee receiving calls from her ex-boy friend's is it advisable? I love her, we are both from different tribe, she is from Yoruba and i am from Igbo. She said she will not stop receiving calls from her ex-boy friend's, also said she will even invite them on our wedding day. Pals do you think is proper allowing her do that, can allowing her ruin our relationship. she said is just all about trust, should i seat watch that happen. Pals advice gently no rude words thank you.
hahahaha, my guy, any woman that puts her relationship on the line does not love you at all/fancy the relationship at all. People who fancy a relationship, do things to keep it running, rather than trying to ruin it.
2.0.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 04:06 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Emmandazie at 29-10-2010 04:13 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Calls can not be prevented but what matters is if she allows the calls to compromise her relationship, then such a relation is on shaky grounds. If you are not comfortable with the calls or their presence let your opinion counts.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 04:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
haha wahala dey,broda i understand you very well,seriously things like this are not easy at all to ignore cuz if you were the one doing this trust me she wouldn't be happy either.she is talking about trust,yes trust is good but control is better.me i see nothing wrong in her inviting him or them but haven serious contact with her ex hmmm bros that one i can't take it at all...
Posted: at 29-10-2010 04:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My fiancee receiving calls from her ex-boy friend's is it advisable? I love her, we are both from different tribe, she is from Yoruba and i am from Igbo. She said she will not stop receiving calls from her ex-boy friend's, also said she will even invite them on our wedding day. Pals do you think is proper allowing her do that, can allowing her ruin our relationship. she said is just all about trust, should i seat watch that happen. Pals advice gently no rude words thank you.
There's Nothing Wrong as far as nothing Emotional or segxwal is Attached
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 29-10-2010 04:58 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
juleshotluv at 29-10-2010 05:12 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Trust!! As long as you trust her and she trust you then i believe there is nothing to be wrong about moreover, I dont think you want to start controlling her even before you say I DO. She will leave before you know it.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 05:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
kingsgoodman at 30-10-2010 04:57 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 29-10-2010 03:27 PM
Whose story is that, actually? Weren't you the one married with a white lady?
yes am happily married with a white lady. if i say this on behalf of a friend or some one else you will be the one to say are you sure you are not the person. Do you have any advice to give?
Posted: at 30-10-2010 04:57 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
brightossy at 30-10-2010 08:07 PM (14 years ago) (m)
U shld nt make her x 2bcom her enemy but their communications shld have limit. My aunt's husband made my aunt's x, frnd. Just free ur mind, if not high B.P fit t8 u 6ft.
Posted: at 30-10-2010 08:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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