i av known this guy almost a year now, i av just observed he hasn't told me i love u b4, i av got i miss u only once 4rm him, and i refuse 2 say it either cos i don't want 2 embarrass my self, am just wondering wat is his problem b4 i take my stand
1daful Is a Blessed Child..
Posted: at 21-11-2010 11:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ask him... some men are shy, some dont know how to say or show how they feel, some don't feel the need to say it they expect you to know somehow, he might want to hear it from you first the same way you are waiting to hear it from him, some have had past issues, yes maybe he doesn't love you and he doesn't want to lie... it could be a number of things, the best way to find out is to talk to him about it.
Posted: at 22-11-2010 12:06 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
well in a situation like dis u have to take the bull by the horn before its too late, wat if he doesnt love u, but u are beliving in ur hrt dat he does.if it doesnt kills u, it makes u stronger. be wise my dear.
Posted: at 22-11-2010 12:35 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
dirtykid at 22-11-2010 03:06 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: 1daful on 21-11-2010 11:56 PM
i av known this guy almost a year now, i av just observed he hasn't told me i love u b4, i av got i miss u only once 4rm him, and i refuse 2 say it either cos i don't want 2 embarrass my self, am just wondering wat is his problem b4 i take my stand
for almost a year and no signs of Love or caring show to you ? if he says i miss you, thats not Love my dear. someone can miss yr absent and try to let you know about it. is not Love yet unless both of you are already having a kind of affairs, like admiring yrself secretly, maybe i can say, he's taking his time to let you know what he feels, then i will advise you to take another surprise long trip that will make him think, Oh my God !! I'll not see be able to see her again, then you will reappear again...... I bet he will be forced to open up to you about his feelings, because he will be eager to know all your movements and daily activities more than anyone.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 22-11-2010 03:06 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 22-11-2010 07:59 AM (14 years ago) (f)
You guys are officially in a relationship, or just hanging out from time to time? Because if you really have a relationship, and in 1 year he didn't tell u those words....it's more than weird! No matter how shy he would be, that's not an excuse! Think a little!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 22-11-2010 07:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
valleydust at 22-11-2010 08:31 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: 1daful on 21-11-2010 11:56 PM
i av known this guy almost a year now, i av just observed he hasn't told me i love u b4, i av got i miss u only once 4rm him, and i refuse 2 say it either cos i don't want 2 embarrass my self, am just wondering wat is his problem b4 i take my stand
saying "i luv u" doesn't really matter to me, what matters is if he truly luvs u, shows u d luv & care, fill in dat gap d space dat d other guys neva filled in. I can tell a gurl I luv her just 2 get her down, woo her and all dat but if i do she ought to knw by my actions. u hav knwn him 4 sometime now so i bliv there ar things about him u hav knwn. so read ur man and don't let fantasies rules ya.
Posted: at 22-11-2010 08:31 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Personally, I can't imagine that am TRULY in love with a girl and I know the feeling is mutual between us and am probably waiting for the END OF THE WORLD before I declare my true feelings to her...I perceive a bit of immaturity in that...With all my heart, I dislike Time Wasters...
My advice to you Idaful is to summon up courage to ask your guy where your "presumed" love relationship is heading to...so that you dont invest unnecessary emotions on him or better still, treat him as a casual friend and deliberately let him know that there are other guys on the Bloc. If he truly loves you and he is smart and mature, I expect he would do all he should to limit your options...
I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
Posted: at 22-11-2010 12:04 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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