Man Seeks Advice Has He Sets To Marry His Ex Girlfriend After The Death Of Her Husband

Date: 08-10-2021 10:44 am (3 years ago) | Author: Bayo Nelson
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A man has sought the advice of people over his decision to marry his ex-girlfriend after the death of her husband. Narrating the story, he disclosed that he is still in love with her and is willing to marry her despite the fact that she is now a single mother.

The man revealed that he had made moves to marry her initially but witnessed opposition from her parents, which made her marry the previous man.

Read the full story below:
“Please don’t mind my errors but I need help because I am really confused…

To cut the story short, I dated a girl for 2 years which her family and mine are fully aware, she’s an Igbo girl and I am from Rivers State.

2018 I wanted to get married to her all of a sudden her parents refused, they started talking about tribal differences, I told them even my mum is an Igbo woman but they don’t want to to listen. It got worst when the Rev. Fr said no they should not allow her marry me because they are Catholic. I felt very bad, but how will I do, I moved on with my life.

That same year they gave her out in marriage to one guy who based abroad, I congratulated her without any grudges. They got married and this year the man died but they have a son, the man has been buried but I still love her and she is willing to come back to me, infact as it stands we are more than lovers.

But I am giving her space so that she will mourn her husband very well and I don’t want people to feel I prayed for the man to die so that I can take her back, because she said nothing will stop her this time. My problem now is should I let her go or marry her because I love her so much 100%?”


Posted: at 8-10-2021 10:44 AM (3 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- constigoldo at 8-10-2021 11:49 AM (3 years ago)
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You cannot love anybody 100% because you are not God.  Moreover, you have taken your decision already, I wonder why you are still asking for our advise.  Follow your mind please.
Posted: at 8-10-2021 11:49 AM (3 years ago) | Hero
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- gogoman at 8-10-2021 12:45 PM (3 years ago)
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killer!!! na u kill her husband  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 8-10-2021 12:45 PM (3 years ago) | Grande Master
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- olowoinlionsden at 8-10-2021 02:49 PM (3 years ago)
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Destiny can not be changed by any human being. As long as you never had Deathwish fort he deceased, the Coast is clear. Best of luck.
Posted: at 8-10-2021 02:49 PM (3 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- angelzizi at 8-10-2021 04:03 PM (3 years ago)
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As long as you both are willing, I see no reason for you not to marry her even the late husband would wish for her to be happy  so yeah Congratulations in advance.
Posted: at 8-10-2021 04:03 PM (3 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osammya at 8-10-2021 04:45 PM (3 years ago)
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Prayer is the Key!
Posted: at 8-10-2021 04:45 PM (3 years ago) | Newbie
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- Paulevery at 16-10-2021 06:10 PM (3 years ago)
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All the conditions you listed above for not marrying her at first, what will change her people or the priest mind now for them to allow you marry their daughter now? You even Sure say you go still last for this wedding so?
Posted: at 16-10-2021 06:10 PM (3 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Keriselir at 1-09-2022 02:00 PM (2 years ago)
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You have no reason to give up on this wedding. I think there's nothing sinful or shameful about it, and it's okay. It would help if you made the decision you want to make the most. I guess you could have a great wedding and be happy. If you propose to her, you won't lose anything, and this way, you'll just be wasting time, but the outcome would be the same if you had said your intentions right away. I think if she says yes, then the best way to get married would be something quiet and not too much fun because it's better to spend it in silence. I think cabin weddings would work best for you since it's inexpensive and quiet.
Posted: at 1-09-2022 02:00 PM (2 years ago) | Newbie
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