BE WISE

Date: 29-11-2010 10:03 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Diamond
- at 29-11-2010 10:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Unfortunately when it come to relationship, many people make wrong choices. People make wrong choices because they are too emotionally involved. They let emotions rule their heads. Emotions can get you romance but it can also cause you make wrong decision that you may regret the rest of their  life

Another important consideration is your personal desire for a relationship. What, specifically, are you searching for? Are you doing the right things and going to the places that will attract someone who is a good fit for you? Or are you just looking for anyone?

Here are some tips to help you get involved in a healthy relationship:

1. Understand yourself. Ask yourself this question: Are you ready for a relationship? Why do you want to get involved in a relationship? If you want to get involved in a relationship, make sure that it is because you love and care about that person. But, you must also make sure that person feels the same way. A healthy relationship is a two-way street! If you get involved in a relationship only because you want to avoid being lonely, then perhaps you are not ready for a relationship yet.

2. Look at your value in life. Ask yourself what are your values? What is your dream? What is your purpose in life? Now, does the person that you want to start a relationship with also has the same values with you? When looking for a person to share your life with, you want one who shares your goals, dreams, and values. That is the key to a long-lasting and happy relationship.

3. Stay focused on your goals. Giving up your dreams and desires for someone else seldom works well. Seek out a person who encourages you to pursue your dreams. When you have found one, that is someone worth paying attention to!

4. Do not make decision based on just your emotion alone. Choosing someone just so you feel romantic is a recipe for disaster! Do not rush into a relationship, use both your head and your heart. If you are not ready, don't force it! The person you are looking for will appear when the time is right. Forcing through a relationship can only lead to misery in the future.

Remember that healthy relationship is more than just being romantic or intimate. Many good and long-lasting relationships do not involve romance or intimacy. For example: relationships with your best friends do not involve romance. Relationships with your customers also do not involve romance.


Posted: at 29-11-2010 10:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Michro at 29-11-2010 10:16 PM (14 years ago)
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2nx

Posted: at 29-11-2010 10:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 4kasibe247 at 29-11-2010 10:17 PM (14 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 29-11-2010 10:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 29-11-2010 10:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 4kasibe247 on 29-11-2010 10:17 PM
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Huh?

Posted: at 29-11-2010 10:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sixtyhoneyy at 30-11-2010 12:44 AM (14 years ago)
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nice one @number 2
Posted: at 30-11-2010 12:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 30-11-2010 12:51 AM (14 years ago)
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Good points, but many failed this and thats why, there're lots of broken families, when dreams are shattered, fighting and argues takes over, the next line is divorce, if there are children already online, they will be affected so much as well. people should look well b4 step into relationships that will last for life time.

Posted: at 30-11-2010 12:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- oyindabty at 30-11-2010 08:34 AM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 30-11-2010 08:34 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 30-11-2010 08:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Well done
Posted: at 30-11-2010 08:42 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 30-11-2010 08:59 AM (14 years ago)
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Aiight
Posted: at 30-11-2010 08:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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