Women Can’t Have Male Besties Without Pant-shifting - Blessing CEO

Date: 17-03-2023 2:49 pm (2 years ago) | Author: Bayo Nelson
- at 17-03-2023 02:49 PM (2 years ago)
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Controversial relationship/mental expert Blessing Okoro aka Blessing CEO has issued a warning concerning besties. According to her, it is impossible for women to have male besties without s3xual relations. She used the ‘dog and bone’ parable to buttress the impossibility of such an alliance.  She warned guys whose girlfriends had males as bestie to be cautious, insisting there was lots of ‘pant-shifting’ going on behind them
 
“Is it possible to actually have a male bestie? Like as a woman, you have a bestie that is a male. Unto say you get dog, you give am bone, you say make e no chop am? Bestie!” she said laughing sarcastically. She continued: “If you’re a man and your girlfriend has a male bestie, you need to be very careful. There is nothing like bestie. In fact, male bestie is that man that is not bold enough to ask the girl out.
 
“When you leave the both of them together, there’ll be lots of pant-shifting. In fact, bestie even has more powers than you the boyfriend. Because what does it mean to be a bestie? “A bestie is that person that knows her very well. They’ve lived together, they eat together. They share everything together. Everything is in common but most times, they feel like, ‘Okay, I have brother zoned this person so I may not…but trust me, male besties are threats to relationships.
 
“So, if you have that girlfriend that has this, my bestie! My bestie! My bestie!! My brother, there’s a shifting of pants somewhere. You cannot give a dog bone and it will not crack it. I said let me let you know o! Because a lot of these young girls are beginning to use this male bestie to trick a lot of you" she added.

Posted: at 17-03-2023 02:49 PM (2 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- angelzizi at 17-03-2023 03:55 PM (2 years ago)
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Such a porous stupid brain & mentality!! I've got very close male friends that I confide in and share most of my secrets with without EVER thinking or feeling intimate with them. Madam, ur belief is caused by lack of self awareness, the fact that he's a man and u're a woman DOESN'T mean knack! I know some women make the mistake of befriending someone they have feelings for in the hope of dating him eventually but it's not the same as being just friends with someone without having feelings of intimacy for the person. U should nurture ur mind to be sound enough to recognise boundaries and then train ur brain to have control then u will have anyone as friends without crossing boundaries.
Posted: at 17-03-2023 03:55 PM (2 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Allsense at 17-03-2023 06:37 PM (2 years ago)
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Quote from: angelzizi on 17-03-2023 03:55 PM
Such a porous stupid brain & mentality!! I've got very close male friends that I confide in and share most of my secrets with without EVER thinking or feeling intimate with them. Madam, ur belief is caused by lack of self awareness, the fact that he's a man and u're a woman DOESN'T mean knack! I know some women make the mistake of befriending someone they have feelings for in the hope of dating him eventually but it's not the same as being just friends with someone without having feelings of intimacy for the person. U should nurture ur mind to be sound enough to recognise boundaries and then train ur brain to have control then u will have anyone as friends without crossing boundaries.
You said well, but I also understand the lady's point of view clearly. The truth is that a lot of these male and female besties later resulted themselves into pant-shifting like she said simply because they didn't train their mind to make it stays as friends, most of them (male & female) decided to go with the flow and before they knew it the did is done and if it happens once, it is highly likely to happen a second, third time and so on. They are to blame for not controlling that emotion before it got out of hand.
Posted: at 17-03-2023 06:37 PM (2 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gogoman at 17-03-2023 11:48 PM (2 years ago)
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me i want to shift pant oo
Posted: at 17-03-2023 11:48 PM (2 years ago) | Grande Master
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