She's Pregnant & he has called it quit.PLS ADVICe her (Page 2)

Date: 08-02-2011 1:42 pm (13 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- sophiebaby at 8-02-2011 02:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheree on  8-02-2011 02:14 PM
The man is so immature. He doesn't have to beat her up or call it quit because they asked him to bring certain things for the intro. She should keep the pregnancy, the baby is innocent and doesn't have to pay for the man's foolishness.

k.

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:16 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 8-02-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago)
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The man dey act as if them dey force am self..........he hasnt married her, yet he lifts up his filthy hands to beat her......she better thank God that she hasnt been consigned to a life of agony.......he is one of those boys claiming to be men.........rubbish........when real men come out, he will also come out........PUUAA pikin.........

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 01:42 PM
Annabel my close friend is 2months pregnant for him(FRANK) and about to tie the Knot, traditionally and white.
and now he has called it quit just because she didn't tell him he was suppose to bring some things(like drink,schnapp,beer e.t.c) during their INtRO,and her people at the village took him unawares by listing those things when he got their alone,:meanwhile she did not know' AND ALL THIS HAPPENED AFTER he has done a little intro in her family houx here in Ph. just yesterday frank called it quit..and even beat her up.

she is confused and doesnt know what to do
she is afraid of ABORION.

should she go ahead and terminate the pregnancy?
or keep it?



Tell Annabel, That Dirtykid said, she should keep that baby very well and safe.. is not the end of the world, Why should she even think of abortion in first place? huh? the incident that happened few days now, she should be calm, the man will come back to her if he truly loves her.

But i'm tired of hearing about all this traditional demands from some local champions over given a lady to marriage. some of them don't even know how that lady was brought up from childhood and so on, Only sitting down somewhere requesting for silly things to stop people from completing there happy life.  Anyway the ocean can only swallow the ones that set legs in it.

BROS, U DRIVE THE NAIL AGAIN.
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-02-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago)
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am equally confused too bout this..

nice comments thou

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:18 PM
The man dey act as if them dey force am self..........he hasnt married her, yet he lifts up his filthy hands to beat her......she better thank God that she hasnt been consigned to a life of agony.......he is one of those boys claiming to be men.........rubbish........when real men come out, he will also come out........PUUAA pikin.........
NNE, U DON VEX OOOOOO, BIKO NWAYOOOOOOOOO.
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2011 02:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 02:16 PM
thx DK

U re most welcome.

Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 8-02-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 02:20 PM
am equally confused too bout this..

nice comments thou
WHY CONFUSED, THAT IS PART OF MARRIAGE STORY. FIRST STAGE IS CONFUSE STAGE.
Posted: at 8-02-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:18 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 01:42 PM
Annabel my close friend is 2months pregnant for him(FRANK) and about to tie the Knot, traditionally and white.
and now he has called it quit just because she didn't tell him he was suppose to bring some things(like drink,schnapp,beer e.t.c) during their INtRO,and her people at the village took him unawares by listing those things when he got their alone,:meanwhile she did not know' AND ALL THIS HAPPENED AFTER he has done a little intro in her family houx here in Ph. just yesterday frank called it quit..and even beat her up.

she is confused and doesnt know what to do
she is afraid of ABORION.

should she go ahead and terminate the pregnancy?
or keep it?



Tell Annabel, That Dirtykid said, she should keep that baby very well and safe.. is not the end of the world, Why should she even think of abortion in first place? huh? the incident that happened few days now, she should be calm, the man will come back to her if he truly loves her.

But i'm tired of hearing about all this traditional demands from some local champions over given a lady to marriage. some of them don't even know how that lady was brought up from childhood and so on, Only sitting down somewhere requesting for silly things to stop people from completing there happy life.  Anyway the ocean can only swallow the ones that set legs in it.

BROS, U DRIVE THE NAIL AGAIN.

Thnx beautiful Treasure2.. You rock !! Wink

Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 8-02-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:23 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:18 PM
The man dey act as if them dey force am self..........he hasnt married her, yet he lifts up his filthy hands to beat her......she better thank God that she hasnt been consigned to a life of agony.......he is one of those boys claiming to be men.........rubbish........when real men come out, he will also come out........PUUAA pikin.........
NNE, U DON VEX OOOOOO, BIKO NWAYOOOOOOOOO.

My dear check am naa....real men no dey beat women....the boy-claiming-to-be-man never reach na.....na fear drive am...that kain thing don reach make him say e no go marry again?..........if they asked him to bring those things and he didnt have them and it wasnt in the initial list he collected, what stops him from pointing it out?..........

Posted: at 8-02-2011 04:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 9-02-2011 09:07 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-02-2011 01:51 PM
watin concern the unborn baby with her situation?. i beg i think there is more to it cos i dnt think there is any guy who does nt know the right thin to do during introduction.
correct

Posted: at 9-02-2011 09:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 9-02-2011 09:10 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  8-02-2011 02:06 PM
Seems like the guy waited for an opportunity to quit!
Coward!  Angry
As for her,she shouldn't even think at abortion!

 
dats wat i can sense.........he just looked 4 an excuse 2 quit.......................cos d traditional demands have been there since d days of old...............maybe he will come back 2 his senses soon...................2moro if the baby grow up 2 become smbdy in life he will come out 2 claim his paternity.....................stupid fellow

Posted: at 9-02-2011 09:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 9-02-2011 09:37 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 01:42 PM
Annabel my close friend is 2months pregnant for him(FRANK) and about to tie the Knot, traditionally and white.
and now he has called it quit just because she didn't tell him he was suppose to bring some things(like drink,schnapp,beer e.t.c) during their INtRO,and her people at the village took him unawares by listing those things when he got their alone,:meanwhile she did not know' AND ALL THIS HAPPENED AFTER he has done a little intro in her family houx here in Ph. just yesterday frank called it quit..and even beat her up.

she is confused and doesnt know what to do
she is afraid of ABORION.

should she go ahead and terminate the pregnancy?
or keep it?



Tell Annabel, That Dirtykid said, she should keep that baby very well and safe.. is not the end of the world, Why should she even think of abortion in first place? huh? the incident that happened few days now, she should be calm, the man will come back to her if he truly loves her.

But i'm tired of hearing about all this traditional demands from some local champions over given a lady to marriage. some of them don't even know how that lady was brought up from childhood and so on, Only sitting down somewhere requesting for silly things to stop people from completing there happy life.  Anyway the ocean can only swallow the ones that set legs in it.

It is normal to perform traditional stuffs b4 takn a lady its everywhere. Going by d post,,,,, l dont see enough reason 4 d guy should abandon her wit preg... at that point after creating awareness to her family and friends about her marriage. This is similar issue as per ma post of ysday. l m sure by 2moro now d same runaway guy would comeback demanding for d babe.

Ma advice is this, the lady should relax first cos the matter is still fresh to take decision now. She should also pray hard against evil forces u never can tell where the prb is coming from...
Posted: at 9-02-2011 09:37 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 9-02-2011 09:48 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 04:28 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  8-02-2011 02:23 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  8-02-2011 02:18 PM
The man dey act as if them dey force am self..........he hasnt married her, yet he lifts up his filthy hands to beat her......she better thank God that she hasnt been consigned to a life of agony.......he is one of those boys claiming to be men.........rubbish........when real men come out, he will also come out........PUUAA pikin.........
NNE, U DON VEX OOOOOO, BIKO NWAYOOOOOOOOO.

My dear check am naa....real men no dey beat women....the boy-claiming-to-be-man never reach na.....na fear drive am...that kain thing don reach make him say e no go marry again?..........if they asked him to bring those things and he didnt have them and it wasnt in the initial list he collected, what stops him from pointing it out?..........

NOT EVERY MAN IS A MAN AND THAT IS WHY YOU HAVE TO CHECK HIM VERY WELL TO KNW WHERE HE BELONG.
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- Treasure2 at 9-02-2011 09:53 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on  9-02-2011 09:10 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on  8-02-2011 02:06 PM
Seems like the guy waited for an opportunity to quit!
Coward!  Angry
As for her,she shouldn't even think at abortion!

 
dats wat i can sense.........he just looked 4 an excuse 2 quit.......................cos d traditional demands have been there since d days of old...............maybe he will come back 2 his senses soon...................2moro if the baby grow up 2 become smbdy in life he will come out 2 claim his paternity.....................stupid fellow

NO BE SMALL STUPID OOO.
Posted: at 9-02-2011 09:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 9-02-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on  9-02-2011 09:37 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 01:42 PM
Annabel my close friend is 2months pregnant for him(FRANK) and about to tie the Knot, traditionally and white.
and now he has called it quit just because she didn't tell him he was suppose to bring some things(like drink,schnapp,beer e.t.c) during their INtRO,and her people at the village took him unawares by listing those things when he got their alone,:meanwhile she did not know' AND ALL THIS HAPPENED AFTER he has done a little intro in her family houx here in Ph. just yesterday frank called it quit..and even beat her up.

she is confused and doesnt know what to do
she is afraid of ABORION.

should she go ahead and terminate the pregnancy?
or keep it?



Tell Annabel, That Dirtykid said, she should keep that baby very well and safe.. is not the end of the world, Why should she even think of abortion in first place? huh? the incident that happened few days now, she should be calm, the man will come back to her if he truly loves her.

But i'm tired of hearing about all this traditional demands from some local champions over given a lady to marriage. some of them don't even know how that lady was brought up from childhood and so on, Only sitting down somewhere requesting for silly things to stop people from completing there happy life.  Anyway the ocean can only swallow the ones that set legs in it.

It is normal to perform traditional stuffs b4 takn a lady its everywhere. Going by d post,,,,, l dont see enough reason 4 d guy should abandon her wit preg... at that point after creating awareness to her family and friends about her marriage. This is similar issue as per ma post of ysday. l m sure by 2moro now d same runaway guy would comeback demanding for d babe.

Ma advice is this, the lady should relax first cos the matter is still fresh to take decision now. She should also pray hard against evil forces u never can tell where the prb is coming from...

NNE NO BE SMALL THING DEY HAPPEN FOR MARRIAGE.  IF ONLY SHE CAN SAY NO TO THE PITY OF HELL.
Posted: at 9-02-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 9-02-2011 10:02 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on  9-02-2011 09:10 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on  8-02-2011 02:06 PM
Seems like the guy waited for an opportunity to quit!
Coward!  Angry
As for her,she shouldn't even think at abortion!

 
dats wat i can sense.........he just looked 4 an excuse 2 quit.......................cos d traditional demands have been there since d days of old...............maybe he will come back 2 his senses soon...................2moro if the baby grow up 2 become smbdy in life he will come out 2 claim his paternity.....................stupid fellow

Thx!
Yes,stupid indeed!

Posted: at 9-02-2011 10:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2011 10:26 AM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm

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- enoeno at 9-02-2011 10:28 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 01:51 PM
i have.... but there's no other thing aside from this i just told u guys now..she's a truthful and loving person..
his reasons were. she didnt beg her people abt the impromptu act.. ut she didnt know abt it either

how about he parent? where are they as things is like this???
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- enoeno at 9-02-2011 10:35 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on  9-02-2011 09:37 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2011 02:07 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-02-2011 01:42 PM
Annabel my close friend is 2months pregnant for him(FRANK) and about to tie the Knot, traditionally and white.
and now he has called it quit just because she didn't tell him he was suppose to bring some things(like drink,schnapp,beer e.t.c) during their INtRO,and her people at the village took him unawares by listing those things when he got their alone,:meanwhile she did not know' AND ALL THIS HAPPENED AFTER he has done a little intro in her family houx here in Ph. just yesterday frank called it quit..and even beat her up.

she is confused and doesnt know what to do
she is afraid of ABORION.

should she go ahead and terminate the pregnancy?
or keep it?



Tell Annabel, That Dirtykid said, she should keep that baby very well and safe.. is not the end of the world, Why should she even think of abortion in first place? huh? the incident that happened few days now, she should be calm, the man will come back to her if he truly loves her.

But i'm tired of hearing about all this traditional demands from some local champions over given a lady to marriage. some of them don't even know how that lady was brought up from childhood and so on, Only sitting down somewhere requesting for silly things to stop people from completing there happy life.  Anyway the ocean can only swallow the ones that set legs in it.

It is normal to perform traditional stuffs b4 takn a lady its everywhere. Going by d post,,,,, l dont see enough reason 4 d guy should abandon her wit preg... at that point after creating awareness to her family and friends about her marriage. This is similar issue as per ma post of ysday. l m sure by 2moro now d same runaway guy would comeback demanding for d babe.

Ma advice is this, the lady should relax first cos the matter is still fresh to take decision now. She should also pray hard against evil forces u never can tell where the prb is coming from...

seconded @papesy talk it's true it might not be ordinary situation like this needs a serious pray to terminate d wicked plan of d enemy we never can tell.
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago)
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i think his dad is late.. mum is aged

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