she is seen someone else | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:07 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well. As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her. A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not?  ? Dat yur Friend has Serious Mental issues... She's Definitely not in Love with the Man, cos the Man is not her Kinda Man l feel Sorry for the Man, cos the Only way dat Girl will Marry him is if She has no Other Option l have Nothing to Say to her, but if l Could get in Touch with the Man, l'll Save him the Shame I agree! I feel like the man needs our advise more than the gal self. That man has wasted 7 yrs and 8 months of his life begging her to date him and then seeking for her hand in marriage. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esoo") esoo at 23-02-2011 12:13 PM (14 years ago)  (m) Na she sabi when they started did she post it for us to advice her.....................................................Obey your mind and if it did not work out then bear the burden by yourself | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:13 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well. As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her. A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not? ?
1. how old is ur friend?
2. if after 8mnths of going out, though we dnt know how often nd d consistency, nd stil something is bothering.
wot really is it dat bothers her abt d guy?yu probably misread her, the guy prposed to her 8 yrs ago. there is gap in the timeline the time she agreed to start dating him after 7 yrs of wooing her and when the guy proposed to her eight years ago. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "princedafe") princedafe at 23-02-2011 12:19 PM (14 years ago) (m) What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well. As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her. A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not? ? SFE IS PLAIN DUMB AND STUPID | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 23-02-2011 12:20 PM (14 years ago) (m) where is the perfect man coming from ?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "uprising") uprising at 23-02-2011 12:21 PM (14 years ago) (m) ask God for wisdom to discern if he is truely your man or you willl marry another womans husband and filled with trouble | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "princedafe") princedafe at 23-02-2011 12:24 PM (14 years ago) (m) THE GUY SEF NA MUMU WASTED 7 YEARS OF HIS LIFE JUST TO DATE ONE STUPID GIRL THAT DOES NOT KNOW HER RIGHT TO LEFT. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 23-02-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) (m) What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well. As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her. A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not? ? it is people like yur frn that give women a bad name. Unless there is more to the story, I suggest yur frn free the man! that cat and mouse game that she has been playin with him fore over seven years n he has been encouraging is not even funny anymore. The guy self no serious. I understand the concept of playing hard to get infact sumtimes it is recommended, but it took her 7 years to agree to date the guy, enuf sed. is very good to hear this from a woman view.can you imagine that... | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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freesmile- I hear yu but yu gotta undastand people's frustration. Imagine, if yur bro or frn had such a gal that he spent about 7 years convincing to date him and then anoda 8 months proposing marriage to her. somewhere between those two period, they were in a relationship, which meanz he spent at least 8 good years (maybe more) on a gal who is still undecided. Common! I understand that they gal is confused but it is like she is wasting the guyz time. Marriage is not by force, no one hesitate this much if they really want to get married to sum1. It is very childish, most people here r not saying that she shud marry the guy but r angry by her approach to this, and that is very unfair. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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most times i jst dnt undstd u guys at all....sumone is here asking 4 ur opinions n all most of u re doing is posting rubbish tinz u wnt like oda pple to say to u.... smdfh if yall dnt ave anytin to say shut the fcuk up n kip moving.
mayb ur friend nid sumtime to get sum tinz right b4 she agrees n if that guy loves her as he claims he will wait
yes he shud wait for anoda 5 yrs before deciding on whether on no to marry him. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well. As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her. A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not? ? it is people like yur frn that give women a bad name. Unless there is more to the story, I suggest yur frn free the man! that cat and mouse game that she has been playin with him fore over seven years n he has been encouraging is not even funny anymore. The guy self no serious. I understand the concept of playing hard to get infact sumtimes it is recommended, but it took her 7 years to agree to date the guy, enuf sed. is very good to hear this from a woman view.can you imagine that... The guy is annoying me self, one month after his marriage proposal w/o a response she have alerted him that this girl is a serial gamer! I wont wait one sec more not to talk of eight months. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 23-02-2011 12:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) hmm interesting,so it took him 7 good years to ask her out..huh!  .anyway i see your friend trying to play hard to get..but truly she's deceiving herself by playing this kind of game. let her stop confusing herself and decide what she really want.if she love the guy in return let her accept his proposal b4 it's too late for her.but if there's something she discovered in the guy that irritate her,let her quit and stop toiling with the guy heart & time. i noe! small time she go post for here that a guy dumped her after 10years in a relationship. I bet she will convieniently exclude the fact it took her 7 yrs to agree to go out with him, and over eight months to decide if she wants to marry him. actually i don't get it at all.7years isn't enough for her to makeup her mind,not to talk of the additional 8months huh! hmm i believe there is two side of the story...either the story is a fake one or there's something she is not telling us..i can't buy this story just like that. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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 ......my LAYDEE dey vex seriously.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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where is the perfect man coming from ? heaven where else | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 23-02-2011 12:44 PM (14 years ago) (m) What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well. As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her. A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not? ? it is people like yur frn that give women a bad name. Unless there is more to the story, I suggest yur frn free the man! that cat and mouse game that she has been playin with him fore over seven years n he has been encouraging is not even funny anymore. The guy self no serious. I understand the concept of playing hard to get infact sumtimes it is recommended, but it took her 7 years to agree to date the guy, enuf sed. is very good to hear this from a woman view.can you imagine that... The guy is annoying me self, one month after his marriage proposal w/o a response she have alerted him that this girl is a serial gamer! I wont wait one sec more not to talk of eight months. u r right,that's why i said it look like a made-up story for me..i don't think in this modern age,a man can actually wait for 7 good years b4 succeeding in taking a girl out.nope! i don't buy it. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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......my LAYDEE dey vex seriously....... my dear, am trying not to but I dont like it when people take advantage of other people like that. It is not a do or die affair. Dont keep him around "just in case", it is not nice. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 12:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "marcmer") marcmer at 23-02-2011 01:04 PM (14 years ago) (f) If she is not giving him the chance to prove himself to her that he really and truely love her,how would she know he loves her or he is the real man for her.Let her give him a chance cos she has suffered him enough. | Posted: at 23-02-2011 01:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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......my LAYDEE dey vex seriously....... my dear, am trying not to but I dont like it when people take advantage of other people like that. It is not a do or die affair. Dont keep him around "just in case", it is not nice. pele pele, no mind dat babe........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 23-02-2011 01:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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