She started visiting me unlike before. One day I was in her room with her and one guy a copper knock at the door. She went and opens the door and the guy came in with a traveling bag. I went outside to easy myself on come back, to my greatest surprise the guy is already on the bed while Patience is preparing food for him. I told myself you better find your way. I say to Patience “I am going and she said bye without escorting me as usual. Then the next day begin Friday I came back to see her as to explain the drama that happened yesterday. I received shocking news. I was told that she followed the guy to the town he is serving. And they slept together that night. But i don't know if they have sex. The next day begin Saturday i was hospitalize. I took 3 drips that day and was discharge by 11pm. Patience came back from her trip on Monday. I wrote a letter to her that i am not interested in the relationship again. She went and informs Tobi about my letter. Tobi later met me and i told him what happen. He advises me not to allow another guy snatch my girl from me which means I am not a man. With Tobi's advice i invited Patience to my room to explain what happened. She met the guy when they are in camp and she never knew he will search for her. She apologized for not letting me know about the guy. So I forgave her since after NYSC we will separate from each other. She continues to visit the guy and she loves the guy more than me. In December 2003, when she wanted to travel for Xmas, I wish her to get a husband during Xmas period and I was seriously praying for to marry a good husband. When we came back on January I ask her how far whether someone has hook her and she said no. I encourage her that with time GOD will give her a good husband. Towards the end of our NYSC I ask her to choose between me and the other guy because I am no longer ready to share her with the guy. After sometime she discharged the guy and stop visiting him. When we finished our NYSC i told her we will continue with our relationship. I have completely fall in love with her. I made up my mind to marry her but i didn't inform her. I went back to Lagos where my parent is staying and she went back to Ebonyi State. I always call her every day. I told my parent about her and things change. My mother said over her dead body should i marry outside my town. All my brothers and sisters were against me. My Dad said the girl has use charm on me. My Dad called a family meeting and I asked them one question. “Outside the girl been from another state, is there any other reason why I should not marry the girl. All my aunties and uncles were on me. There were Pressure from all angles and no one to support me. Opened up to Patience what I am passing through because of her. From 2004 to 2006 it was battle between me and my family. I started praying to GOD to intervene. In April 2006 my family said since after these years and I have not change my mind, they finally agreed but it is against their wish. I was very grateful to GOD that HE has finally answered my prayer. June 12 2006 was the date for my marriage introduction on 1st June 2006 I lost my Job and my marriage introduction was shifted. Today been 3rd March 2011 to GOD is the glory, we are married and GOD has blessed us with a beautiful daughter and better jobs. We based in Lagos. My family love my wife especially my mother. I will ever be grateful to GOD. I pray that GOD will continue to bless my marriage.
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
sophiebaby at 11-03-2011 01:46 PM (14 years ago) (f)
amen
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:46 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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