I gat this lady friend,we are quite age mates.and i must admit she's really attractive to behold. a fort-night ago we had a mature chat about sex issues,as they affect different relationships. we delebrated on a art of forplays, kissing and all that,like we always do in the past. days later, she came visting me in my office,like she does,and we were gisting until my close time.just moments after i'd closed, and was just getting ready to shut down my system and head home, she walked up to me and whispered in my office that she wants to kiss me. i was flushed, because i never saw such an advance coming from her to me. i laughed off the idea, but she showed more seriousness to her desire by holding me to the wall.
I started being embarrassed. she obviously knows my girlfriend,and how serious we are in our relationship. i succeeded in talking her off her motives,and closed for that day; but ever since then she's been making advances at me,anytime we run into ourselves in town or my work place.she hasnt stopped bringing up the issue. i don't want to jeopadise my friendship with her, by being rude to her,because she been a wonderful friend to me (maybe my longest standing female pal since high school). i need someone's candid advice,because i really don't know how to go about it.
Posted: at 24-11-2008 04:34 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
SAmyrocko at 24-11-2008 04:50 PM (16 years ago) (m)
With all the sincerity you have inside of you i think you should let her know that you can't go further in that area she is looking up to. I guess you wouldn't like to cheat on your gf, and besides you said she knows her quite well. be sincere and let her know your opinion. See how it works.
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Posted: at 24-11-2008 04:50 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
prencess at 25-11-2008 05:52 PM (16 years ago) (f)
dont allow the bad advice they gave u here to lead u where u will later regret in life............... just be urself follow ur mind............... just know that this is temptation if u overcome that means u are a victor cuz not all men will over come
Posted: at 25-11-2008 05:52 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
follyjay at 25-11-2008 10:31 PM (16 years ago) (m)
no dull yourself with a pretty lady like this because na only when she dey with you na then she be your wife but when she don leave your house she don be our wife be that ..........Take it Or live It
Posted: at 25-11-2008 10:31 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
@Uby........Stick to your girl,press the IGNORE button to this other girl.What do you stand to gain,pleasures that will land you in hell,make you loose your girl and loose the respect to the friendship of ur longest female standing pal.
ITS NOT WORTH IT.
Posted: at 25-11-2008 10:41 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming