![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 01:30 PM (14 years ago)  (f) Pepesy, if it's a secret between the couple alone, how come u know about it?Or is this nollywood?
And what is it with women and their bosses?
Well, the man has known; let him do the needful.........
l knw abt it coz am a close source... no matter hw secretive u may be,,, there re situations u may find urself that u need some1 2 confide on maybe a reliable pax... It doesnt matter who's involved here whether boss or non boss d issue is dat, dis is d situation on ground and he needs ur contribution if u can I see..... I think the first thing to do is to find out if his sterility has a cure; who knows, his problem might just be that of a low sperm count which could be treated.....If he can get a cure, he should get it and start a new life with another woman.....if he can't get a cure, he could adopt....keeping another man's children as his is very delicate and dangerous.....the real father can always turn up in the near future.......... l get ur point. buh remember, dis woman took dis drastic action out of luv she has 4 her hubby. She doesnt wnt 2 lose him for any reason. 2ndly, d boss is completely unaware of dis? My dear, the husband was not told by the wife; he only got to know by chance. The same way, the real father could get to know he fathered 2 kids with the wife by chance! What if the kids need blood transfusion and the husband's blood does not suffice? To me, it's better he gets a new life with another woman and get a cure or adopt! Keeping another man's kids as urs is like sitting on a time bomb which is bound to explode! More so, the woman did not take that ugly decision out of love but out of selfishness/self centered-ness.....for crying out loud, she's put the hubby in a deep shit! I knew a man who had a cardiac arrest and lost his life when the true paternity of his grown up "children" was revealed to him.....it's w wound that CAN NEVER heal...........
Noted! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-04-2011 01:30 PM (14 years ago) (m) SBI & DK, divorce is undesirable but it's part of our existence....U can't continue to remain in a deep shit,sadness or confusion all in the name of not wanting a divorce!! Personally, I believe in making sacrifices but only for something that's worth it. Why should I continue to displease myself? But like DK said, it's a matter of choice....
the highlighted words was and still my own reason for divorce.as long as sacrifice is concern God knows our heart,and He surely knows the length i can handle difficulties.so i don't need to preach for people to agree with me. cuz at the end of the day i get my own policies that i stick on. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-04-2011 01:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) SBI & DK, divorce is undesirable but it's part of our existence....U can't continue to remain in a deep shit, sadness or confusion all in the name of not wanting a divorce! Personally, I believe in making sacrifices but only for something that's worth it. Why should I continue to displease myself? But like DK said, it's a matter of choice....
u got it right If d husband cannot cope....He is free to file for a divorce abeg but if he can cope then let him keep his wife and d kids Sure! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-04-2011 01:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) SBI & DK, divorce is undesirable but it's part of our existence....U can't continue to remain in a deep shit,sadness or confusion all in the name of not wanting a divorce!! Personally, I believe in making sacrifices but only for something that's worth it. Why should I continue to displease myself? But like DK said, it's a matter of choice....
the highlighted words was and still my own reason for divorce.as long as sacrifice is concern God knows our heart,and He surely knows the length i can handle difficulties.so i don't need to preach for people to agree with me. cuz at the end of the day i get my own policies that i stick on. Yes o....  | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 15-04-2011 01:32 PM (14 years ago) (m) There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage..  Thnx swtheart. But what is your suggestion about this issue. i know you got something more to say. drop it dead blunt, no matter what, i always count on your comments esp when issue like this occur 
Now,how on earth she knew that he's impotent if he found out only 2 months ago? 
That doesn't make any sense, it and makes the woman more than guilty for all this mess!What is delicate here? Nothing is special about this ill-gotten kids, the man should divorce the woman, send message to his wife boss to come father the kids he got fom the act of adultery, stupid woman and useless boss. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 01:32 PM (14 years ago) (f) There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage.. Thnx swtheart. But what is your suggestion about this issue. i know you got something more to say. drop it dead blunt, no matter what, i always count on your comments esp when issue like this occur
Now,how on earth she knew that he's impotent if he found out only 2 months ago?
That doesn't make any sense, it and makes the woman more than guilty for all this mess!I agree with you, because of those kids involve. That was my question, how did she know ? and she started from early stage of the marriage to cheat on this man, eeewwww  Reading comments | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 01:33 PM (14 years ago) (f) well from the comments i have read so far....wat i must say is
Since d wife found out first that her hubby couldnt father a child....she would have discussed it with him before any further actions from her
Gud 2 hv ur comment finally Ble... Buh, as it is now,,,, what advice do u hv for him? he's only seeking for advice 2 guide him take decision anyway d did has been done already....buh i tell u d gospel truth even if they continue living as husband and wife.....that marriage can never be d way it was from d onset Well if I was the man..i will go for check up....try and see if ma problem can be fix..... secondly, i will accept ma wife back and try continue to be d good father & a hubby i used to be buh it cannever be d same once d tot flash through ma mind....buh i will try to keep ma home Note: I will always have one thing in my mind...."THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS UNVEIL ONE DAY IN D FUTURE" l can alwayz count on ur comments | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 01:41 PM (14 years ago) (f) Pepesy, if it's a secret between the couple alone, how come u know about it?Or is this nollywood?
And what is it with women and their bosses?
Well, the man has known; let him do the needful.........
l knw abt it coz am a close source... no matter hw secretive u may be,,, there re situations u may find urself that u need some1 2 confide on maybe a reliable pax... It doesnt matter who's involved here whether boss or non boss d issue is dat, dis is d situation on ground and he needs ur contribution if u can I see..... I think the first thing to do is to find out if his sterility has a cure; who knows, his problem might just be that of a low sperm count which could be treated.....If he can get a cure, he should get it and start a new life with another woman.....if he can't get a cure, he could adopt....keeping another man's children as his is very delicate and dangerous.....the real father can always turn up in the near future.......... l get ur point. buh remember, dis woman took dis drastic action out of luv she has 4 her hubby. She doesnt wnt 2 lose him for any reason. 2ndly, d boss is completely unaware of dis? My dear, the husband was not told by the wife; he only got to know by chance. The same way, the real father could get to know he fathered 2 kids with the wife by chance! What if the kids need blood transfusion and the husband's blood does not suffice? To me, it's better he gets a new life with another woman and get a cure or adopt! Keeping another man's kids as urs is like sitting on a time bomb which is bound to explode! More so, the woman did not take that ugly decision out of love but out of selfishness/self centered-ness.....for crying out loud, she's put the hubby in a deep shit! I knew a man who had a cardiac arrest and lost his life when the true paternity of his grown up "children" was revealed to him.....it's w wound that CAN NEVER heal........... God bless you for this kind and wonderful comment.there is no reason beating about the bush here,the sooner they take the best decision the better for them both and that of their kids. @pepesy..i go dey wait for part 2 any time  Lolz. k.. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 01:46 PM (14 years ago) (f) Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
That's if they man solely desired | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "mercyilori") mercyilori at 15-04-2011 01:48 PM (14 years ago) (f) dis is serious | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-04-2011 01:50 PM (14 years ago) (f) Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
That's if they man solely desired Yeah sure....it's the man's kettle of fish....he boils it the way he desires.....best of luck to him/wify | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago) (f) Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
That's if they man solely desired Yeah sure....it's the man's kettle of fish....he boils it the way he desires.....best of luck to him/wify Tanx 4 ur participatn dearie | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 15-04-2011 01:59 PM (14 years ago) (m) @DK: You know what? I think she used that as an excuse for her cheating!
Because I think she was cheating him all the time,and not only for "kids purpose "!
It's highly probably! @BS you're absolutely right !
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-04-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago) (f) Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
That's if they man solely desired Yeah sure....it's the man's kettle of fish....he boils it the way he desires.....best of luck to him/wify Tanx 4 ur participatn dearie U're welcome dear...regards. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 15-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago) (m) Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
Word!!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-04-2011 02:27 PM (14 years ago) (f) Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
Word!! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-04-2011 02:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) Pepesy, the cheating wife should take the kids to the real owner and save the hubby from impending disaster. What is the use of "covering up the hubby's shame" now when the truth when it eventually comes to the open, would lead to something more disastrous? Hopefully, the real father of her kids can marry her and if not, that's her bloody funeral!
Infact, as it is now, the man would not be so much disgraced but pitied and sided by all who's concerned!
Word!! you said word,so u agree,she should take the kids to the real father? | Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@DK: You know what? I think she used that as an excuse for her cheating!
Because I think she was cheating him all the time,and not only for "kids purpose "!
It's highly probably!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage.. Thnx swtheart. But what is your suggestion about this issue. i know you got something more to say. drop it dead blunt, no matter what, i always count on your comments esp when issue like this occur
Now,how on earth she knew that he's impotent if he found out only 2 months ago?
That doesn't make any sense, it and makes the woman more than guilty for all this mess!What is delicate here? Nothing is special about this ill-gotten kids, the man should divorce the woman, send message to his wife boss to come father the kids he got fom the act of adultery, stupid woman and useless boss.
But I agree with the divorce!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@DK: You know what? I think she used that as an excuse for her cheating!
Because I think she was cheating him all the time,and not only for "kids purpose "!
It's highly probably! @BS you're absolutely right ! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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