![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-04-2011 11:08 AM (13 years ago)  (m) There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
if i'm in the man shoes,definitely i will file for divorce sofort!!!! cuz she's not in love with me.if she really love me,she must care for my feelings. what is she committed is adultery in the highest level without any atom of conscience. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) (f) What do u mean by impotent here? I don't understand your story, there is a difference in being impotent and potent with sterilize sperm. An impotent man is a man that can never have erection at all. A potent man can have erection but having sterilize sperm that can never gat a woman pregnant. which of this class does this man belongs to?
She meant sterile and not impotent..... Good morning Harold; how're things? Who sd so? A man dat could nt get a woman preg... at all what do u call it huh? | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 15-04-2011 11:13 AM (13 years ago) (f) tight situation | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 15-04-2011 11:15 AM (13 years ago) (m) What do u mean by impotent here? I don't understand your story, there is a difference in being impotent and potent with sterilize sperm. An impotent man is a man that can never have erection at all. A potent man can have erection but having sterilize sperm that can never gat a woman pregnant. which of this class does this man belongs to?
She meant sterile and not impotent..... Good morning Harold; how're things? This is what i was trying to figure out. Things are very fine with me and u? my regards to ur wonderful kids n hubby. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 15-04-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) (m) What do u mean by impotent here? I don't understand your story, there is a difference in being impotent and potent with sterilize sperm. An impotent man is a man that can never have erection at all. A potent man can have erection but having sterilize sperm that can never gat a woman pregnant. which of this class does this man belongs to?
She meant sterile and not impotent..... Good morning Harold; how're things? Who sd so? A man dat could nt get a woman preg... at all what do u call it huh? Not realy an impotent man, he could be potent i.e having an ability to have segxwal intercourse but suffering from things like watering sperm, low sperm count. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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na miracle na | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "tando") tando at 15-04-2011 11:26 AM (13 years ago) (f) the onus is on him to decide whether to continue in this marriage or not. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 11:32 AM (13 years ago) (f) There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage..  1. It remains a secret bcos u dont even knw d part of d world its happening and its a true story 2. In African culture, U dont need a soothsayer 2 tell u dat a woman can only gain her ground in a man's house only when she hv babe(s). Any marriage without children u knw dat a woman suffers it most considering d presure from family and friends of d man to get another wifey. remember,,, 9yrs of marriage.. 3. She chose 2 do that out of luv 4 her hubby. She wnts 2 save him frm dat shame of childlessness at d same time save their marriage. 4. D man wz unaware of it untill last 2months he got 2 released dat. Note; d main owner of dese children doesnt knw about it | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:32 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 11:34 AM (13 years ago) (f) There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
if i'm in the man shoes,definitely i will file for divorce sofort!!!! cuz she's not in love with me.if she really love me,she must care for my feelings. what is she committed is adultery in the highest level without any atom of conscience. Noted! Tanx 4 ur contribution | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 15-04-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) (m) There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage.. 1. It remains a secret bcos u dont even knw d part of d world its happening and its a true story 2. In African culture, U dont need a soothsayer 2 tell u dat a woman can only gain her ground in a man's house only when she hv babe(s). Any marriage without children u knw dat a woman suffers it most considering d presure from family and friends of d man to get another wifey. remember,,, 9yrs of marriage.. 3. She chose 2 do that out of luv 4 her hubby. She wnts 2 save him frm dat shame of childlessness at d same time save their marriage. 4. D man wz unaware of it untill last 2months he got 2 released dat. Note; d main owner of dese children doesnt knw about it I understand all this, but i don't agree with that number 2, what pressure? when is not the woman's problem but the man, I think the pressure and shame should be on the man side, The family suggesting of new wife for him, the same thing will happen to the next woman and so on. And also is very wrong or should i say impossible for the woman to know that the man is Impotent while the man will not know, only discovering that 2months ago, common ... how possible is that for over 9yrs of marriage? how did the woman know, without the man knowing? already those kids came in btw the 9yrs of marriage, it means she's been cheating on the man right from the day they got married. If i will judge as human and as a man with feelings, I will pretend nothing has happened, take care of those kids and remain in that pretending and lie marriage, but i will always ignore that lady ( Wify ) for lie and cheating. She will mean nothing again to me, there's nothing like saving a man from shame here, because if is the woman who got such problem and the man sleeps outside to get kids, she will cry foul and feel he broke her heart and so on.... But now she got million reasons to confuse the man in her cheating attitude. The man is in deep shyt already, thats his married destiny, I don't believe in divorce, Divorce is not a good omen !
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 11:47 AM (13 years ago) (f) abi miracle children
How is that suppose to be Miracle ? She's a cheat And what do u suggest he should do? is a very tough situation here, I still don't get it, why she is in a hurry to make babies if the hubby is not worried about that? some answers are required here, what is she saving, for who ? if she truly love the man, she should stay with him like they're not sleeping outside making the man to look as if he's the real father of those kids, na waooo.. this is not acceptable  She's in a hurry 2 make babies cos she's a woman. She's saving her marriage for her hubby coz she doesnt wnt 2 loose him. Let me ask u,,, are there no issue like situations whereby a man could nt preg... a woman and they arrange for a friend or anybody frm his family 2 get d woman preg for him??? | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage..
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) (f) What do u mean by impotent here? I don't understand your story, there is a difference in being impotent and potent with sterilize sperm. An impotent man is a man that can never have erection at all. A potent man can have erection but having sterilize sperm that can never gat a woman pregnant. which of this class does this man belongs to?
She meant sterile and not impotent..... Good morning Harold; how're things? Who sd so? A man dat could nt get a woman preg... at all what do u call it huh? Not realy an impotent man, he could be potent i.e having an ability to have segxwal intercourse but suffering from things like watering sperm, low sperm count. l c Then expatiate d word ''IMPOTENT''? | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 15-04-2011 11:54 AM (13 years ago) (m) abi miracle children
How is that suppose to be Miracle ? She's a cheat And what do u suggest he should do? is a very tough situation here, I still don't get it, why she is in a hurry to make babies if the hubby is not worried about that? some answers are required here, what is she saving, for who ? if she truly love the man, she should stay with him like they're not sleeping outside making the man to look as if he's the real father of those kids, na waooo.. this is not acceptable She's in a hurry 2 make babies cos she's a woman. She's saving her marriage for her hubby coz she doesnt wnt 2 loose him. Let me ask u,,, are there no issue like situations whereby a man could nt preg... a woman and they arrange for a friend or anybody frm his family 2 get d woman preg for him??? Thats why i'm asking, why Hurry ? Why saving marriage without the man's knowledge, what is she up to, Just look at what she put herself into now ? Hurrying for nothing !! If the situation is like that, there's no need to bring in someone to make babies for them, They could simply adopt a child or children as much as they want and could take care of. The woman is highly guilty for her actions.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:54 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Dis one is an open secret 
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-04-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago) (m) abi miracle children
How is that suppose to be Miracle ? She's a cheat And what do u suggest he should do? is a very tough situation here, I still don't get it, why she is in a hurry to make babies if the hubby is not worried about that? some answers are required here, what is she saving, for who ? if she truly love the man, she should stay with him like they're not sleeping outside making the man to look as if he's the real father of those kids, na waooo.. this is not acceptable She's in a hurry 2 make babies cos she's a woman. She's saving her marriage for her hubby coz she doesnt wnt 2 loose him. Let me ask u,,, are there no issue like situations whereby a man could nt preg... a woman and they arrange for a friend or anybody frm his family 2 get d woman preg for him??? "she's hurry to make babies cuz she's a woman",oh really? hmm.in my own view is not enough reason to engaged in such immorality.if there's any decision whether to involve a third party.the decision should be mutual(both parties most agree on it).that's what i called real love,than taken such selfish decision in the name of saving her marriage or in the hurry of having kids...people should try to think beyond present stage.no matter how confidential the secret maybe.one day i repeat only one day the truth must surely manifest and the real father will still claim his kids. | Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 12:20 PM (13 years ago) (f) There is this 38yrs old man who has been married for 9yrs now with 2kids. 2months ago, he got to realised he’s impotent. Out of curiosity he took his children for GNA test only to discover they were not his. Damn! He confronted the wifey about it and she did not deny it rather confessed that she knew he’s impotent and those children belong to her boss which her boss knew nothing about. According to her, she had to do what she did in order to save her marriage and keep the family going bcos she luvs her hubby so much. She pleaded for forgiveness and promised to keep it secret all her life. Note; this is a secret btw the couple alone.
Right now this man is confused as to what to do bcos, he luvs his wifey and she was there for him during the tough days.
If you were in this man’s shoes what will you do or what will you advice him to do?
First and foremost is no more a secret because you know about it and we all know about it now. despite we don't know the people involve, thats if this is a true life story. Secondly: I have couple of questions for the wife: who is curious or worried about babies/kids ? because i don't think the man is, knowing fully well that he's impotent, i don't think he will be pressuring the woman over having babies, Why did she choose to sleep with her boss secretly to conceive ? Did she discuss this with the hubby in the first place ? why saving the marriage, if the man didn't request for kids or pressure her over that? Personally i think that woman is simply a cheat and deceiver, tricked both men (Husband and Boss) with unreasonable excuses of saving marriage.. 1. It remains a secret bcos u dont even knw d part of d world its happening and its a true story 2. In African culture, U dont need a soothsayer 2 tell u dat a woman can only gain her ground in a man's house only when she hv babe(s). Any marriage without children u knw dat a woman suffers it most considering d presure from family and friends of d man to get another wifey. remember,,, 9yrs of marriage.. 3. She chose 2 do that out of luv 4 her hubby. She wnts 2 save him frm dat shame of childlessness at d same time save their marriage. 4. D man wz unaware of it untill last 2months he got 2 released dat. Note; d main owner of dese children doesnt knw about it I understand all this, but i don't agree with that number 2, what pressure? when is not the woman's problem but the man, I think the pressure and shame should be on the man side, The family suggesting of new wife for him, the same thing will happen to the next woman and so on. And also is very wrong or should i say impossible for the woman to know that the man is Impotent while the man will not know, only discovering that 2months ago, common ... how possible is that for over 9yrs of marriage? how did the woman know, without the man knowing? already those kids came in btw the 9yrs of marriage, it means she's been cheating on the man right from the day they got married. If i will judge as human and as a man with feelings, I will pretend nothing has happened, take care of those kids and remain in that pretending and lie marriage, but i will always ignore that lady ( Wify ) for lie and cheating. She will mean nothing again to me, there's nothing like saving a man from shame here, because if is the woman who got such problem and the man sleeps outside to get kids, she will cry foul and feel he broke her heart and so on.... But now she got million reasons to confuse the man in her cheating attitude. The man is in deep shyt already, thats his married destiny, I don't believe in divorce, Divorce is not a good omen ! In ur 1st paragraph, u sounded like non african man... In africa especially in 9ja, how many men will harbor a woman who could nt bear children for them for many yrs especially when d fault is nt frm d man??? (Men cheat alot when all is well wit his family not to talk of when his wifey could nt bear children) Pls lets be logical here Going by ur 2nd paragraph,,, It is possible for a woman to knw dat if she really wnts to. Yes, everyting happened witing 9yrs infact d last kid is about 4yrs old now Lastly, isnt, marriage suppose 2 be for better for worse huh? Note; am not supporting dis woman buh as it stands now,,,, l tink she took d wisest decision | Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 12:22 PM (13 years ago) (f) abi miracle children
How is that suppose to be Miracle ? She's a cheat And what do u suggest he should do? is a very tough situation here, I still don't get it, why she is in a hurry to make babies if the hubby is not worried about that? some answers are required here, what is she saving, for who ? if she truly love the man, she should stay with him like they're not sleeping outside making the man to look as if he's the real father of those kids, na waooo.. this is not acceptable She's in a hurry 2 make babies cos she's a woman. She's saving her marriage for her hubby coz she doesnt wnt 2 loose him. Let me ask u,,, are there no issue like situations whereby a man could nt preg... a woman and they arrange for a friend or anybody frm his family 2 get d woman preg for him??? Thats why i'm asking, why Hurry ? Why saving marriage without the man's knowledge, what is she up to, Just look at what she put herself into now ? Hurrying for nothing !! If the situation is like that, there's no need to bring in someone to make babies for them, They could simply adopt a child or children as much as they want and could take care of. The woman is highly guilty for her actions. K. Case close | Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 15-04-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago) (f) Dis one is an open secret Do u knw then? | Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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he should just accept his wifey.......... or rather adopt children from motherless babies
Abi oooo ma sister | Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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