An impotent man fathering 2 children (Page 3)

I understand all this, but i don't agree with that number 2, what pressure? when is not the woman's problem but the man, I think the pressure and shame should be on the man side, The family suggesting of new wife for him, the same thing will happen to the next woman and so on.

And also is very wrong or should i say impossible for the woman to know that the man is Impotent while the man will not know, only discovering that 2months ago, common ... how possible is that for over 9yrs of marriage? how did the woman know, without the man knowing? already those kids came in btw the 9yrs of marriage, it means she's been cheating on the man right from the day they got married.

If i will judge as human and as a man with feelings, I will pretend nothing has happened, take care of those kids and remain in that pretending and lie marriage, but i will always ignore that lady ( Wify ) for lie and cheating. She will mean nothing again to me, there's nothing like saving a man from shame here, because if is the woman who got such problem and the man sleeps outside to get kids, she will cry foul and feel he broke her heart and so on.... But now she got million reasons to confuse the man in her cheating attitude.  The man is in deep shyt already, thats his married destiny, I don't believe in divorce, Divorce is not a good omen !

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did i hear you said you don't believe in divorce?well no reasonable man in his right senses would like divorce,but some kind of mess need divorce my brother,unless you are ready to die in such pathetic marriage,which i personally will never accept.

u dey laf ble ble 

make i cry ni...this topic pass me small...so i just dey read comments dey laff

ow u dey naa

To me that will be the end of the marriage cos such woman can kill, if there is a problem it should be mutually discussed and agreement reached not that she will keep such thing from the man for so many years only to com and own up now and you expect the man to take it easy with those children knowing the source they came in, is illogical

U knw our 9ja men can be irrational especially when it coms 2 issues concerning women. Consider if d reverse is d case? They will expect d woman to remain in that marriage. Unlike my prevous post ''she married 2 her boss''

Buh, all d same,,,, lets watch hw d event unfolds

Bro !! for me Divorce is a thing of choice,it depends on what happened and the level , that could make one decide to take divorce steps. Your dislikes and likes will not be mine, likewise mine not yours, so it goes around, Some people do get divorce from something that need only communication or better ways to deal with it. I believe before someone will start thinking of divorcing his.her partner, that person never loved the other from the beginning, is a fake thing deep down, or the person already is having another relationship outside and trying to find a fault to hit divorce hall way .. Honestly if we do mean what we preach about Love !!  genie Love endures all things, is patience, it tolerates allot, sacrifice, is always eager to grow and blossom, it sees all things from different angle etc....

Remember: I'm not in support of what the lady did, but divorce is not the option or solution, but that will destroy them all, the kids, the woman and the man, if care is not taking is going to affect that boss, the real biological father of those kids.