![-]( "50scent") 50scent at 7-05-2011 03:18 PM (12 years ago)  (m) 
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU  | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:18 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:28 PM (12 years ago) (m) My girlfriend is in a situation where she is constantly giving money to her boyfriend all because the guy has promised to marry her. She feels if she doesnt give to him when he demands, he might change his mind about marrying her
I dont Support this! who told her that kind of marriage works sef to start with? Its borne out of pure desperation either as a result of peer/family pressure or Age wahala.... one person is ready to, the other isn't but plays along cos of the financial benefit... tell ur friend to STOP it and get serious with her life and also with a guy that needs her out of pure motive! and she should try recover her self esteem cos she has completely LOST IT! we guys dont get serious with women who are low in self esteem cos they are always VULNERABLE to anything | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:28 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:30 PM (12 years ago) (m) My girlfriend is in a situation where she is constantly giving money to her boyfriend all because the guy has promised to marry her. She feels if she doesnt give to him when he demands, he might change his mind about marrying her
Come See Desperation NOTHING ELSE THAN THAT OGA MI | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:30 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:40 PM (12 years ago) (m) Is better you arrange the money and go out side and marry man, because i see this as marriage by money not by love
much like it! | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:40 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) (m) she be real mumu...so she is buying the guy love with mmoney...it won't walk oooo
definitely! especially if the guy knows thats what she wants | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:42 PM (12 years ago) (m) Sounds like a case of insecurity. Maybe she feels no other guy might look her way  Anyhow sha, the guy is just enjoying her money while making a fool out of her. much like it | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:42 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago) (m) My girlfriend is in a situation where she is constantly giving money to her boyfriend all because the guy has promised to marry her. She feels if she doesnt give to him when he demands, he might change his mind about marrying her
Why the unkind words for this lady?
I read all the posts upto this point in this thread and I am truly amazed at the responses.
Some think the lady is silly, one called her mumu, another said the lady has fever and syphilis
in her head, yet another said she was insecure. One said she is trying to buy love, another
predicted that the relation will not last.
Folks, lets take another look at this nice, generous lady. She is helping out the love of her
life. Her hope is to marry him in the future. When men help out the women they love, it is
perfectly okay. That same gesture from a female is derided, quickly dismissed, and held
in low esteem. And she is called unpleasant names even by women on this site.These
women wants us to believe that they will not help their lovers if they need their financial help?
Lets be kind to this lady.
dan fulani Sir, with due respect, u've made some points, but ill say she shouldn't be too much into it IF at all her motive of giving the guy money every now and then isn't for 'Just Marry me first and u'll enjoy more of this from me' thing. Granted, we should help the ones we care and have love for, but when 'IF' enters into it as in 'IF i don't give him, he wont marry me' then this is the one am not gonna agree to ... thanks | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:52 PM (12 years ago) (m) abeg.....if d guy fit make im chop,girls do worst
Yeah granted they do, but when they get to a certain age which marriage becomes a MUST for them, u cant help but feel and have pity for them when being treated badly EXCEPT u no get human conscience and feeling... all those chikalas wey dey chop our money na teenagers and early 20's wey marriage no even dey among the last thing in their minds | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:52 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 7-05-2011 03:56 PM (12 years ago) (f) the guy no dey work?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:56 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:58 PM (12 years ago) (m) Reply |
![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 03:59 PM (12 years ago) (m) Well they r both wrong.....she is not supposed to giv him money wishin
he go marry her afta dat,, and he is suppose to take care of himsef naa
Exactly oh Jumpmamacita | Posted: at 7-05-2011 03:59 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 04:00 PM (12 years ago) (m) na babes dey make guys turn dem to rags. how would u be bribing a guy to get married to u? it doesn't make sense at all  Shey! | Posted: at 7-05-2011 04:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 04:03 PM (12 years ago) (m) My girlfriend is in a situation where she is constantly giving money to her boyfriend all because the guy has promised to marry her. She feels if she doesnt give to him when he demands, he might change his mind about marrying her
Why the unkind words for this lady?
I read all the posts upto this point in this thread and I am truly amazed at the responses.
Some think the lady is silly, one called her mumu, another said the lady has fever and syphilis
in her head, yet another said she was insecure. One said she is trying to buy love, another
predicted that the relation will not last.
Folks, lets take another look at this nice, generous lady. She is helping out the love of her
life. Her hope is to marry him in the future. When men help out the women they love, it is
perfectly okay. That same gesture from a female is derided, quickly dismissed, and held
in low esteem. And she is called unpleasant names even by women on this site.These
women wants us to believe that they will not help their lovers if they need their financial help?
Lets be kind to this lady.
dan fulaniNo Dan Fulani, read the Underlined Line above and yu'll see where's She's Going Wrong... Man or Woman, dat is Plain Wrong This is one thing I dey respect and like to read ur comment, U dont talk much but ur words are always meaningful and straight to the point... Bros i bow for u jare! | Posted: at 7-05-2011 04:03 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 04:05 PM (12 years ago) (m) Reply |
Well they r both wrong.....she is not supposed to giv him money wishin
he go marry her afta dat,, and he is suppose to take care of himsef naa
Exactly oh Jumpmamacita  | Posted: at 7-05-2011 04:05 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 04:05 PM (12 years ago) (m) Reply |
so finally...i come b mugu wey dey like goat abi???...u are not a true naija babe...lol..u r a caprimaize!! Lols | Posted: at 7-05-2011 04:07 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 04:10 PM (12 years ago) (m) My girlfriend is in a situation where she is constantly giving money to her boyfriend all because the guy has promised to marry her. She feels if she doesnt give to him when he demands, he might change his mind about marrying her
I dont see anything wrong in that, we men do this for women everytime and nobody raise an eyebrow, but when it comes to a woman helping her man now it is abomination. Are women not equal to men again?
at least what a man can do a woman can do better, please my people do not let us discriminate and look down on women being able to assist in keeping their men. Men have been doing it for thousands of year, and this is part of equality between the two set of human being. I know a lot of people will not agree with me, but that is my honest opinion Bro, we are not saying women shouldn't give monies to their men, we are simply looking @ the motive, the underlying reason for doing such in this particular case which is 'Take and marry me if possible NOW!' which is wat we dont agree to cos u don't buy marriage with money..... u feel me now bro? | Posted: at 7-05-2011 04:10 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 7-05-2011 04:19 PM (12 years ago) (m) pls just tell that ur friend that she is in trouble already and she should just pray that guy will not marry her again if not den i can swear to u that she will continue to pay all the bills in the house even when they eventually get married,becos from the begining she has already introduce what she can not finish to the guy and it will only take the grace of GOD 4 him to change at the end of the day.
Good point! He may not even be willing to change to start with sef cos him don get too much used to the act of 'Honey, can u help me out with the money for my jeans trousers?'... | Posted: at 7-05-2011 04:19 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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