Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man (Page 2)

 

Posted: at 19-12-2011 04:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

With due respect  to the Sister who posted this article, WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY??? Because i can,t seem to make sense of what you are trying to say or prove.  Maybe i,m too much of a nitwit to make sense of your article. Nevertheless, NICE TRY SISTER!

Posted: at 19-12-2011 10:23 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Poster your topic and the backup has nothing to do with each other.

For example: If you are in the parking lot and a guy hit your car and damage it (the damage may cost a lot or less) >>>>


Think like a man
as a lady, thinking like a man simply means that you just need to see if the guy is going to fix the car or whether he got car insurance, etc. You need to know that the car is nothing, nobody died, that is not the end of the world, God will provide, you ain't going to die, that car is not worth your life. Lots of responsible men do reason like this. We women can reason like this as well.

Act Like a Lady
You still have to walk feminine, you can still wave your Brazilian hair in front of him a little bit, you don't have to put it on his face, giving him too much attitude reduce your pride in the eyes of the beholder you know and this will act more salt to injury because the guy may say something to pull the blame away. He may say: "sorry I didn't see your car>>>>>now this part should have pulled your button for real, but you still have to respect yourself and shout up if possible if not, kindly said: "So you think this car was a monkey and you decided to hit it, and all of a sudden the monkey automatically turn into a car abi?"

Another example: If he hurts your feelings (Your man)

Think Like a Man Watch out for this one, most men do deny their mistake or faults. So this shouldn't make you bring all his past mistakes on the table just because he hurt you few hours/days ago. Deal with the situation with matured mind/understanding, spirit, and soul. And then let it slip away. If your man loves you, he'll learn from that mistake with the spirit of repentance. Yeah, we ain't perfect but he will always watch his back next time.

Act Like a Lady
Men don't like to argue a lot. I have learn that most men don't like to talk about the argument you guys had 3 days back. Its a pass to them, even though they hurt you. When he said: "I am sorry" believe him, cos he meant it and that's it. But if you bring it up over and over again trying to make him feel guilty/bad, you are going to lose it. Another part is that, you need to stop breaking into tears easily, don't be over emotional, be strong with full understanding. That's why you shouldn't give him all your heart, cos he will break it 1000 times a day without knowing it. No one is perfect o...

Well, we ladies are like broken vessels that's why God commanded men to be lovable to their wives. And at the same time, we are the embodiment of love which will make God bless a man according to the way he blesses his wife. We can easily break down because we are too emotional, most or our heart is soft while some are harden, etc.    So its good if we can always be at peace with our men, not only with men, but also with everybody around. Another serious issue is that we need to stop being the center of attention.....That's my understanding of Think Like a Man, and Act Like a Lady. In another word, God is peaceful, calm, understandable, and terrible at the same time.   

Posted: at 20-12-2011 07:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

 

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Posted: at 20-12-2011 09:28 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hmmmmm

Posted: at 20-12-2011 11:06 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

HMMM

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Posted: at 19-10-2012 04:28 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero