![-]( "giftmurphy") giftmurphy at 22-09-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago)  (f) give her a divorce n' marry me  huh u be woman wrapper?  | Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) (f) Stand your ground my brother. I hate to tell you that your son is a spoiled brat. If he stays in the dormitory, other students will cut him to size. As for your wife, if she wants to leave don't stop her, I can get you a good divorce lawyer The domitory could do good and bad depending on how u see it .I went to boarding school but i can tell u that there were good kids that were spoilt by bad influence in the hostels .You really need a solid background/home training to be able to withtand the hostel presures .
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-09-2011 02:46 PM (13 years ago) (m) Una see me trouble oh! I enrolled my 15yr old boy into a boarding school. The guy is indeed stubborn-that's way I enrolled him there!
Spending only three months there and coming home, my wife cries the boy has cut down in weight and that her boy will not go to the dormitory again. She claims the boy is being punished unneccesarily.
He must go is my stand. Now the family is divided- the boy buying his mother's stand but I am adamant! My wife even told me this could lead to a divorce if I insist.
Now many things are coming up. I am becoming to suspect this boy may not be mine. I am becoming to suspect this woman hadn't any intention to marry me.
Should I submit or stand my ground?
Help me please!
first of all mr poster, don't even think that by enrolling your son to boarding school will bring a change of attitude.nope! it can even worsen his behavior.besides which boarding school are you talking about? Nigerian boarding school is a mess! and i won't recommend parents to take their children to any.pal the best discipline a any child can get,is that from the parents.you missed out in the early stage to understand and discipline your child ,which prompted this negative behaviors .there is this "ill attitude" most nigerian fathers always put on that make me sick..if a child is misbehaving they'll put the whole blame to the mother but if he/she is doing according to their expectation then, they'll be fast to claim the whole praises.. pal sit your wife down,communicate with her and resolve this issue like two well grown adult.all hope is not lost, your son is still a teenager that's gradually heading to adulthood.a child has stages in life that also needs different approaches.don't expect to treat a 15yrs old kid like that of 6-8yrs and expect a change of attitude,it won't work.try and know you child,get that fatherly connection to him then you will be able to re-shape his current behavior.for me no child is stubborn it all depends how he/she was raised.even the Bible said it in the book of proverbs 22vs 6. Train up a child in the way he should go,and when he is old,he will not depart from it. so pal start now and engage in your responsibility as the head of the house.goodluck! | Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) (f) so be it !!!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Bantino") Bantino at 22-09-2011 03:03 PM (13 years ago) (m) Na truly marriage don suffer..........small thing una mind go run go divorce.........all these things dey make some of us wey never marry to fear to marry self..........Really I get worried by such issues.......I really hate the word divorce, i believe in sticking it out, divorce not in my dictionary at all..haba
Plz my dear, have the word Divorce somewhere at the back of your mind cos you may never know the kind of man you may marry. | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:03 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Bantino") Bantino at 22-09-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) (m) Take you stand and send the boy to the boarding house, it is for his own good when he grows up, more over you pay the fees not your wife. | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-09-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) (m) tua encore !! | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) (f)  
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 22-09-2011 03:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) Na truly marriage don suffer..........small thing una mind go run go divorce.........all these things dey make some of us wey never marry to fear to marry self..........Really I get worried by such issues.......I really hate the word divorce, i believe in sticking it out, divorce not in my dictionary at all..haba
Plz my dear, have the word Divorce somewhere at the back of your mind cos you may never know the kind of man you may marry. I be think say you don marry oh! Plz, close ya eyes, show me ya finger. On my knees. Will you take my ring? | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-09-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) (m) i thought u wanted to change my name @onyiis  | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) (f) tua encore !! oui c'est moi et toujours !!!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 22-09-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) (m) tua encore !! Toi encore? Mais de qui tu parle? | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago) (f) Na truly marriage don suffer..........small thing una mind go run go divorce.........all these things dey make some of us wey never marry to fear to marry self..........Really I get worried by such issues.......I really hate the word divorce, i believe in sticking it out, divorce not in my dictionary at all..haba
Plz my dear, have the word Divorce somewhere at the back of your mind cos you may never know the kind of man you may marry. I be think say you don marry oh! Plz, close ya eyes, show me ya finger. On my knees. Will you take my ring? heheheeeeeeeeeeeee !!! ur wife never divorce u and u dey propose to another
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago) (f) i thought u wanted to change my name @onyiis i told u its a suspense !! 
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 22-09-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) (m) Na truly marriage don suffer..........small thing una mind go run go divorce.........all these things dey make some of us wey never marry to fear to marry self..........Really I get worried by such issues.......I really hate the word divorce, i believe in sticking it out, divorce not in my dictionary at all..haba
Plz my dear, have the word Divorce somewhere at the back of your mind cos you may never know the kind of man you may marry. I be think say you don marry oh! Plz, close ya eyes, show me ya finger. On my knees. Will you take my ring? heheheeeeeeeeeeeee !!! ur wife never divorce u and u dey propose to another hehehehe, laisse moi ainsi. C'est sont les emotions! | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-09-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) (m) tua encore !! Toi encore? Mais de qui tu parle? merci pour la correction,c'etait une erreur | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) tua encore !! Toi encore? Mais de qui tu parle? lolz !!! mais j'ai bien compris, en fait ce entre nous deux
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:13 PM (13 years ago) (f) Na truly marriage don suffer..........small thing una mind go run go divorce.........all these things dey make some of us wey never marry to fear to marry self..........Really I get worried by such issues.......I really hate the word divorce, i believe in sticking it out, divorce not in my dictionary at all..haba
Plz my dear, have the word Divorce somewhere at the back of your mind cos you may never know the kind of man you may marry. I be think say you don marry oh! Plz, close ya eyes, show me ya finger. On my knees. Will you take my ring? heheheeeeeeeeeeeee !!! ur wife never divorce u and u dey propose to another hehehehe, laisse moi ainsi. C'est sont les emotions! quelle mauvaise emotion !!!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-09-2011 03:15 PM (13 years ago) (m) vraiment? ok ooo nous saurons plus tard! | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago) (f)
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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