my fiance left me after telling him i have a daughter!!! (Page 4)

Date: 17-11-2011 2:59 pm (13 years ago) | Author: lynn
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- darkgoddess at 18-11-2011 10:16 AM (13 years ago)
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U did wrong by not telling ur fiance during all those years u were courting that u have a daughter.Ii blame u for that but at the same time, even if the guy doesnt want to go ahead with the relationship anymore, he should have the dignity to return the car to u despite the fact that it is in his name. My dear, there is no need crying over split milk. I will advise u to stop the payment for the car immediately. That way, the company who sold the car to u guys will try to repossess the car since payment hasnt been completed. Who knows, u might get a refund for ur money though it might not be in full. Thereafter u can move on with ur life, but pls next time u get into a relationship with another guy, never hide the fact that u have a daughter. If a guy reallylikes u, they wouldnt mind. Wish you best of luck.
Posted: at 18-11-2011 10:16 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 18-11-2011 10:17 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 17-11-2011 03:24 PM

You are splendid  Wink Wink Wink

eh,na Wink
Posted: at 18-11-2011 10:17 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-11-2011 10:18 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 17-11-2011 04:32 PM
u have said it all!!!!

 Wink
Posted: at 18-11-2011 10:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-11-2011 10:19 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 17-11-2011 08:23 PM
very true ...........i wonder why some gurl stil behave lik a daycare old chick Angry Angry Angry

Low self esteem...
Posted: at 18-11-2011 10:19 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Jonso at 18-11-2011 10:32 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: JulietPaul on 18-11-2011 10:10 AM
word of (love) makes you went ahead to spend your hard end time money for a guy, go and collect your car and move with your life he is not the only man abeg, don't even think of him. That child will console you in further

Mind your English
Posted: at 18-11-2011 10:32 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 18-11-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Jonso on 18-11-2011 10:32 AM
Mind your English
but it aint a bad english Roll Eyes
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- lopez2424 at 18-11-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: darkgoddess on 18-11-2011 10:16 AM
U did wrong by not telling ur fiance during all those years u were courting that u have a daughter.Ii blame u for that but at the same time, even if the guy doesnt want to go ahead with the relationship anymore, he should have the dignity to return the car to u despite the fact that it is in his name. My dear, there is no need crying over split milk. I will advise u to stop the payment for the car immediately. That way, the company who sold the car to u guys will try to repossess the car since payment hasnt been completed. Who knows, u might get a refund for ur money though it might not be in full. Thereafter u can move on with ur life, but pls next time u get into a relationship with another guy, never hide the fact that u have a daughter. If a guy reallylikes u, they wouldnt mind. Wish you best of luck.


I can't put it better
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- MYKELGUY at 18-11-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-11-2011 03:07 PM
yu did wrong in not telling him for the three yrs yuv bin wit him...
if he truly loves yu..he wudnt look at ur mistakes but forgiv u and take ur child as his..as for the car..i comment my reserve cos i see no reason why u shud get a car and someonelse is driving while u r paying the bills..all in da name of love..meanwhile u not yet maried to him..if he truly loves u..he wud come back..maybe he needs tym to get over the shock
Gbam!u shld have inform him at the begining of ur relationship and see whether he will continue then.May be they have rukes in their family not to marry after one.Goodluck to u in ur effort to get him back but i think an amicable solution is wht is needed here cos age is not on ur side as a woman.I pray God direct you.
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:04 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- senator76 at 18-11-2011 11:05 AM (13 years ago)
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what is car?we are talking abt what each other are going thur now we are talking abt car..............for me the matter 1st.....
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:05 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- MYKELGUY at 18-11-2011 11:06 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 18-11-2011 11:03 AM
but it aint a bad english Roll Eyes
Are we even here to prove we are prof. of english?
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:06 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gentleduke at 18-11-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago)
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young lady on one side i blame you and on the other side i blame the guy, for you i know is hard you never no hw to tell him so that he will understand, but u should have tell him first. but   for that guy he's very stupid even if you told him late that should not make leave just like that after eaten your money and every thing well, my advise is that if you can claim that car go ahead and collect ur car but if he's ready to forgive and forget just leave him and you people should go ahead with the marriage.
 
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- D9ja at 18-11-2011 11:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Hence u know that u want to spend the rest of ur life with him, u should have told him the truth.
if he really love u, he will stay by u
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Mrsgeorge at 18-11-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago)
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D FAULT IS FROM U BECAUSE IF THERE IS SINCERITY AND PURPOSE. U SHOULD HAVE TOLD HIM FROM THE ON SET INSTEAD OF WAISTING UR TIME AND MONI, AS FOR THE GUY IF U WAIT IN THE NEXT 6 MONTHS AND IF HE DOESNT DAY ANYTHING PLS BURN D CAR. COS HE IS A USELESS AND STUPID IDIOT. Grin
Posted: at 18-11-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- devid75 at 18-11-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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awww that man is very follish man i have ever seen in this life, how can u missed this  a wonderful  goldin opportunity ,just because she tell u ...she  has kid on her early age secondary school.u just left her  just like dats..i tired she spent all his earn on u feedin this idiot without atom of appreciation.even payin car woth 2.2million , whis on earth u will see this kind of angel  is rare,
Posted: at 18-11-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- wukari at 18-11-2011 12:37 PM (13 years ago)
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i hope you did not use his name while paying 4 the car, if not you can claim it
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- leoyinka at 18-11-2011 12:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Personally, I will blame you - the lady involved for keeping such secret for so long. Although, only you know the good reasons for the non disclosure. But, it´s really annoying as he will transcend the though to alot of quarters even might start to feel there are other surprise secrets to be discovered, even if there is nothing more to disclose.

 As for your car, if he does not have shame to return it, go and ask him for it. If still he refuses then go to the car loan company and stop the loan and ask them to withdraw the said car, it´s that simple. you need not pay for such gesture for someone you are no together with. Good luck and learn from your mistakes.    
Posted: at 18-11-2011 12:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- FinlandGuy at 18-11-2011 12:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-11-2011 03:12 PM
she knows dat this is a man she wants to or intends spending the rest of her life with..yet she kept sucha tin away from him...na wa to her sha...

Thank you sohpie this 1 good wey i take dey like you small sha hahahaha lol

You know women can keep secret for 1million yrs and u no go know.

Poster who first chop ur akara? who be the papa of that pikin?
Posted: at 18-11-2011 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FinlandGuy at 18-11-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Poster u don tell us the things wey u do for the guy but u never tell us the ones wey the guy do for you when cash dey with am.Men in ur life no let woman do anything for u like financial help,because one day,she go tell u what u are made up of.

If woman do small thing for man hmmmmmm BBC and CNN go carry am.U no tell me say before u start spending for this guy,he never do any thing for u.Why will keep this kind secret from him all these 3yr.Ur tempted to kill ohhh.
Posted: at 18-11-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cutelizzy at 18-11-2011 12:57 PM (13 years ago)
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 :'(
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- Sandyikechi at 18-11-2011 12:57 PM (13 years ago)
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OMG!! God pls help me nt 2 b mugu lyk dis 1 ooooo..spendin on a guy am nt yet married 2,nd @d process of it bought a car of 2.2M jessss..nd am sure ur parents nd ur bby gal are dying of hunga, Grin Grin nd nw d dude can't refund d car bck 2 u.even if u tk d case 2 court u are guilty 1,*HE"S NAMES RE WRTIN ON IT*and he may  deny u coz he's nt married 2 u. Wink Wink Wink oh gal u really fall hand ooo honestly even if men re scarce dat doesn't mean u shold carter 4 dat peson..u no u luv him y didn't u tell him u hv a bby gal b4,4 ova 3 yrs nw i guss d bby is nt dat importnt 2 u.. instead  u wnt ahead in affording a *CAR* 4 a guy...pls get ur car "if he cn gv it 2 u coz his names re boldly wrtin on d documents".. Sad Sad Sad Sad.
Posted: at 18-11-2011 12:57 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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