Please i need help... no jokes please There is this guy (paul) that stays in the same hostel with me, the guy is good looking, tall and single. I love the guy as a normal friend but not as a boyfriend. He comes and spend time with me in my room most evenings and live very late but i hardly think otherwise cuz once he comes, we keep ghisting and he tells me stories about his past life with girls and so on. I have my boyfriend though he is not in the same country with me but i love him so much. Paul has never asked me if i have a boyfriend or not. When ever i go for a party and come back, i notice that he is not happy.when ever i have exams, he wakes me up by to study by calling on phone and he always alert me in the morning to get up and go for lectures. Lately, there was a party that i didnt go, so he called me late at night and was very happy when he noticed that i was at home that night. At times , he calls me and tells me he misses me hmmm. I began to have some feelings that he's planning to take our relationship to another level (bf & gf stuffs) that i don't want. So i posted my photo with my bf on my profile on naija, when he saw it that same night, he called me, and said there is something he wants to ask me, but he didnt ask even though i insisted, he said he will ask physically.
Pals i realy don't want to loose him as a friend but i don;t want him as a boyfriend . I think the picture i posted touched him badly, but i don't just know what to do right now.
Posted: at 2-02-2012 09:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
women follow ur mind.and mak sure u cheak ur mind weda u dnt hv love feeling fr this guy and that if u dnt date nw wount u do later cos its nt gonna favour u again then.anyway pray to God.
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
women follow ur mind.and mak sure u cheak ur mind weda u dnt hv love feeling fr this guy and that if u dnt date nw wount u do later cos its nt gonna favour u again then.anyway pray to God.
i realy love him as a friend but not a bf.... am afraot to loose him cus i knw sooner or later he will come out clear to me and i cant accept cuz am in a relationship
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:08 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
see there is no two ways about it,anyhow he will get to find out but be sincere with him,if he truly loves you he will respect the fact that you already had a boyfriend and he would let go and allow friendship reign my dear
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
see there is no two ways about it,anyhow he will get to find out but be sincere with him,if he truly loves you he will respect the fact that you already had a boyfriend and he would let go and allow friendship reign my dear
thanks
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
godwindave at 3-02-2012 03:52 AM (13 years ago) (m)
My dear, from all indication, you're a matured lady. Just tell him. Let him go, if he wishes to. God'll bring another friend who'll luv u not as a friend, but as a sister!
The Rapture is here... Are U ready 4 His return? Make peace with Ur maker
Posted: at 3-02-2012 03:52 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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