Having a relationship or marriage, a successful one moreover is something that requires a lot of energy, devotion and motivation. Different culture, race or religion makes it even harder. Here are some tips that can make things more easy......
* Act like u don't even know there is difference --> Don't say things like : ' Isn't it amazing that me, a white, can be with u, an Indian' * Just go with it --> U dont choose who u fall in love with, color or race doesn't matter. Even if ur friends and family have something else to say, its about ur happiness! * Make an effort --> If ur partner is from an other culture, be sure to show respect and interest in the traditions and background and your partner as a whole person. * Know urself --> In order to be comfortable in an interracial relationship, u have to be comfortable with who u are as an individual. Being in such relationship will try ur faith and strenght. By being comfortable with urself u are able to not only recognize ur own strengths and traits but u will also be open to accepting ur partner. * Recognize that it is going to be hard --> Love is never easy, so recognize that u are in this together. * Be willing to compromise --> U will find a lot of differences in ur partner and it is important to understand/accept all of them before this relationship will work out. Be willing to compromise and do not demand from ur partner to change for u.
These are just a few tips that can help, but u are free to add more.
Posted: at 18-02-2012 06:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 18-02-2012 07:32 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Posted: at 18-02-2012 07:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero