jossy4reall at 17-04-2012 07:00 AM (13 years ago) (m)
if u like u can have no sex relationship.....n if u like u can have all round sex relationship.......it ur relationship not mine.........but u ar welcome anywayz
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 17-04-2012 07:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
politica at 18-04-2012 12:10 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Funnily enough I was actually talking to someone from work about this last week whilst we were talking about our relationships.
Personally I think sex should never be underestimated in a relationship, ultimately the only differen between 2 close friends and a couple is the segxwal side of things (fidelity, kissing etc) and although you mentioned you will have some segxwal contact in other ways, ultimately there is a certain type of intimacy that only comes with sex. To me, this is essential for a healthy relationship otherwise, without that intimacy I feel like I get to a sort of glass ceiling. It's something I've been thinking about a lot recently because I've been thinking about my relationship with my current gf quite a bit recently as it feels we've lost a lot of our intimacy and tbh - this is ultimately why I think. Because the sex life has gone down hill
Posted: at 18-04-2012 12:10 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
jossy4reall at 18-04-2012 03:01 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: politica on 18-04-2012 12:13 AM
@ jossy.......don't worry.am not dat typ
I hope so.........but dis 1 u wrote my name in red.........am I some kind of danger 4rm ur side??..........or in ur list red labeled list?? I hope am safe
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 18-04-2012 03:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
politica at 18-04-2012 04:58 PM (13 years ago) (m)
jossy nothin do uuu!,,,,,,,,,,,@catherien...yeah true say .. i have had it from the other end tho ... hmm that sounds bad .. let me explain my self .... my first segxwal partner that i first got with back when i was in school used to have a very high sex drive .. and at the time so did i .. but this perticuler evening me and my gf had gone out to a club and came back at about 3 am ... i had work at 8/9 so wanted to get to bed rather sharpish ... but was met with my gf begging and eventualy crying her eyes out cos i wouldn't shag her i ended up doing it any way just to get some sleep .. but the thing is a relation ship full of sex can also be unhealthy as it's expected on tap all the time
Posted: at 18-04-2012 04:58 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
FlyMamacita at 18-04-2012 09:10 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Hmm if u rily didn wanna hav sex wit her u wudn hav, u needed sleep but u still take time to hav sex wit her lol Anyway its an individual choice and it does work for ppl...but not for everybody.
Posted: at 18-04-2012 09:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero