I've been dating a girl for 4 weeks now. We are having sex, and she isn't taking precautions to prevent her from getting pregnant. She prefers sex without condoms, and I'm cool with that, but what if I knock her up? This is my main concern now. And she doesn't want to take contraceptive pills. So what do I do? Any advice would be appreciated at this point.
Posted: at 26-04-2012 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 26-04-2012 04:38 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Guy.. go for medical check-up ASAP.. u might be crying soonest
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 26-04-2012 04:38 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Kennyhimself at 26-04-2012 04:43 PM (13 years ago) (m)
you are fornicating your life to hell and still seeking advice on how to get there more....if you dont end up with HIV na small go remain. must you have sex with every female relationship you build. piece off man! get a life!
Posted: at 26-04-2012 04:43 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
well if she no like condom thats her own wahala. If you trust the girl enough to assume she isn't sleeping around and she isnt carrying any disease then nothin dey there. You just have to prepare yourself for the eventuality of pregnancy and have a discussion of what you will do in that case be it abortion or to keep the pregnancy you should probably talk about that sooner rather than later so everybody dey d same page. Otherwise when you are about to cum just pull your prick commot you just have to be sharp with it. If you cum in her she will get pregnant if not today then tomorrow so if thats what you are doing make sure you are prepared for the consequqnces
Posted: at 26-04-2012 05:26 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
jasonbod at 26-04-2012 05:37 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: sonarus on 26-04-2012 05:26 PM
well if she no like condom thats her own wahala. If you trust the girl enough to assume she isn't sleeping around and she isnt carrying any disease then nothin dey there. You just have to prepare yourself for the eventuality of pregnancy and have a discussion of what you will do in that case be it abortion or to keep the pregnancy you should probably talk about that sooner rather than later so everybody dey d same page. Otherwise when you are about to cum just pull your prick commot you just have to be sharp with it. If you cum in her she will get pregnant if not today then tomorrow so if thats what you are doing make sure you are prepared for the consequqnces
Thanks for your advice broda. Much appreciated man.
Posted: at 26-04-2012 05:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
prince_ibe at 26-04-2012 06:41 PM (13 years ago) (m)
My go 4 std test after dat if u re ok, ask urself if u will like to spend ur life with her, if yes bring up the issue of life partner to her whatsoever she said will let u know wheather to carry on or not. Good luck
Posted: at 26-04-2012 06:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
prince_ibe at 26-04-2012 06:42 PM (13 years ago) (m)
My go 4 std test after dat if u re ok, ask urself if u will like to spend ur life with her, if yes bring up the issue of life partner to her whatsoever she said will let u know wheather to carry on or not. Good luck
Posted: at 26-04-2012 06:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Sir, she is not your wife to give such an order. And you are not even sure if u will marry her if she get pregnant. First b4 entering her, you need to do a test. Wait till the result comes out b4 further actions with her. However, you need to have a mind of your own. You don't want to have a child when you ain't fully prepared for the result of having kids. To me, am thinking the girl is so so so good that u are confused maybe she will leave u if you do follow her rules. Hope you won't start calling her names sooner or later.
Ku Luck!
Posted: at 26-04-2012 06:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Hummmmm,y do people like to play with their life? Four weeks rship? Sex! And even without condom? Dont put ur life in danger please,first quit d rship,give ur life to Jesus,he is d only one dt can help u out,and go for HIV test. U realy need God,dont continue. God loves u,heaven is real.
Posted: at 26-04-2012 07:04 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
jasonbod at 26-04-2012 07:07 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 26-04-2012 06:57 PM
Sir, she is not your wife to give such an order. And you are not even sure if u will marry her if she get pregnant. First b4 entering her, you need to do a test. Wait till the result comes out b4 further actions with her. However, you need to have a mind of your own. You don't want to have a child when you ain't fully prepared for the result of having kids. To me, am thinking the girl is so so so good that u are confused maybe she will leave u if you do follow her rules. Hope you won't start calling her names sooner or later.
Ku Luck!
So so so good she is. And I want to please her. I wouldn't be worried if she was using oda contraceptives. For now she is my woman so I want to trust her.
Posted: at 26-04-2012 07:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
jossy4reall at 26-04-2012 07:19 PM (13 years ago) (m)
kip ambulance standby..., she will soon be needed to rush to maternity but u may soon be needed to rush to hospital.........dis is d bitter truth but u may not like it.
For d advice
if u love her n ready to be a father of her child just bomb dey go...........but make sure u guyz go for checkup to avoid had I knw
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 26-04-2012 07:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
So so so good she is. And I want to please her. I wouldn't be worried if she was using oda contraceptives. For now she is my woman so I want to trust her.
I know, your stubbornness is all about So so so good she is. that's you ain't serious. Well, if u want to please her, then I guess whatever comes out of it, you'll be ready to overcome it. I hope ya'll spend your eternal life together. But plz Sir, women contraceptives is not healthy. The best alternative is condoms. Pills pills, is not good for your woman....
Ku Luck!
Posted: at 26-04-2012 08:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
jasonbod at 26-04-2012 08:21 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 26-04-2012 08:05 PM
I know, your stubbornness is all about So so so good she is. that's you ain't serious. Well, if u want to please her, then I guess whatever comes out of it, you'll be ready to overcome it. I hope ya'll spend your eternal life together. But plz Sir, women contraceptives is not healthy. The best alternative is condoms. Pills pills, is not good for your woman....
Ku Luck!
She says the same thing...that pills are not good. That's why she don't want them.
Posted: at 26-04-2012 08:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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So so so good she is. And I want to please her. I wouldn't be worried if she 
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