IS IT JUST AFRICAN MENTALITY

Date: 03-05-2012 3:31 pm (13 years ago) | Author: margaret collins
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AM AN AFRICAN BORN AND BREAD,PARENTS BROUGHT ME TO OVERSEAS AT A NOT SO YOUNG AGE,I'VE LIVED ALL MY TEEN LIFE HERE.THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS AM FINDING IT DIFICULT TO ACCEPT IN MY AFRICAN BROTHERS AND SISTERS 
THESE ARE SOME OF THE THINGS:
1)WHY SOME OF OUR MEN FEEL TOO PROUD TO DO CERTAIN CHORES AROUND THE HOUSE,AT TIMES NONE EVEN AT ALL.
2)WHY SOME OF OUR MEN THINK ITS A WOMANS PLACE TO BE IN THE KITCHEN,AND NOT EVEN LET THEM HAVE A SAY WHEN IT COMES TO CERTAIN MATTERS IN THE FAMILY.
3)WHY SOME OF OUR WOMEN THINK ITS ONLY THE MEN WHO SHOULD USE THEIR  MONEY WHEN IT COMES TO TAKING CARE OF THE BILLS.
4) WHY SOME OF OUR MEN WOULD CALL A LADY WHO HAS HAD HER  FARE SHARE OF MALE FRIENDS A PROSITUTE BUT WHEN THE SHOE IS ON THE OTHER FOOT THEY ARE PLAYERS.
5)WHY SOME OF OUR MEN CALL FEMALE'S WHO ARE DIVOCED USED GOODS,EVEN SOME OF THE DIVORCED MEN! FORGETTING THEY TOO ARE DIVORCED.
6) WHY SOME OF OUR MEN WOULD CALL AN INDEPENT WOMEN TOO PROUD OR DEFICULT.
7)WHY SOME OF OUR WOMEN THINK CAUSE THE MAN PAID HER BRIDE PRICE OR MARRIED HER, HE SHOULD SPEND EVERY KOBO HE HAS ON HER WHAILS SHE POCKETS HER'S.
8)WHY SOME OF OUR MEN THINK THEY OWN THEIR WIVES BECAUSE HE PAID HER BRIDE PRICE.
9)WHY SOME OF OUR MEN STAY CLARE OF WOMEN WHO ARE MORE SUCCESFUL THAN THEY ARE.
10)MOST OF ALL WHY SOME OF OUR MEN WANT TO MARRY VIRGINES,WHEN THEY GO ABOUT RAVISHING OTHER WOMEN.

Posted: at 3-05-2012 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- mizcollins1 at 3-05-2012 03:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: stephen153 on  3-05-2012 03:33 PM
Why do u think it is African mentality?  Roll Eyes
thats why am asking lol, because  the white guys or the black ones here don't seem to think that
Posted: at 3-05-2012 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 3-05-2012 04:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Dia is differences in answers 2 all ur whys hia but in general view of dem........It is not generally African Mentality.......it is individual understanding

Posted: at 3-05-2012 04:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-05-2012 04:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Just stop By to say HI

Posted: at 3-05-2012 04:42 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 3-05-2012 04:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Poster, me like N° 10 plenty! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 3-05-2012 04:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mizcollins1 at 3-05-2012 05:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on  3-05-2012 04:44 PM
Poster, me like N° 10 plenty! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
lol  Grin
Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mizcollins1 at 3-05-2012 05:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-05-2012 04:42 PM
Just stop By to say HI
hi hun Smiley
Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 3-05-2012 05:07 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Thank God am a virgin.. Emmandazie..wat can u do to help me?  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Adikpe at 3-05-2012 05:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Go and ask your father and your mother since they are Africans
Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mizcollins1 at 3-05-2012 05:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  3-05-2012 04:40 PM
Dia is differences in answers 2 all ur whys hia but in general view of dem........It is not generally African Mentality.......it is individual understanding
lucky for u my luv der is only ten Tongue
Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 3-05-2012 05:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-05-2012 05:07 PM
Grin Thank God am a virgin.. Emmandazie..wat can u do to help me?  Grin Grin Grin


virgin Huh?   Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 3-05-2012 05:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mizcollins1 on  3-05-2012 05:06 PM
hi hun Smiley

hello sweetie.. No 4 na tru.. no mind dem..na yeye dey worry dem  Grin

Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-05-2012 05:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on  3-05-2012 05:09 PM

virgin Huh?   Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

offcourse am a virgin na.. if u dey doubt me..come and do checkup ASAP  Grin

Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mizcollins1 at 3-05-2012 05:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on  3-05-2012 05:08 PM
Go and ask your father and your mother since they are Africans
how can i answer you politely  by not insulting you?Huh?? i guess i cant Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mizcollins1 at 3-05-2012 05:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  3-05-2012 05:11 PM
hello sweetie.. No 4 na tru.. no mind dem..na yeye dey worry dem  Grin
  Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 3-05-2012 05:18 PM (13 years ago)
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 Kiss

Posted: at 3-05-2012 05:18 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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