Why so many Naija guys betray European wives? (Page 6)

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Posted: at 17-05-2012 09:25 AM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

First If this forum was strictly for Nigerians I wouldn't be here.
Second I'm not He but She.
Third I've been living outside Nigeria all my life, so thanks for advise to go and travel.
Yes white marriage is not mixed marriage, but sorry didn't U say all white marriages break? And sorry was there any sentimental talk in bringing out clear facts?
In some point I got very disapointed, everybody is accusing white people of being rasists for ages, so many times when I've seen on internet offending words towards black people coming from white hands I couldn't believe from where all this hateness is coming from. But I came here and I got it from black people, and I couldn't believe as well. How it comes so easy for U people to be offending so much sb U've never even seen just cuz she asked simple question. I've never said all Nigerians are betraying, I've asked why so many.
But am glad there're also people who treated my question with normal answer, and thanks for that, those answers brought some light to my head.
White women can also be good housewives, they can cook egusi, they can take care of their husbands, and be good and respectfull wives. It's common in many European countries who didn't follow modern trends yet, that man is the head of family, this is how daughters are learnt and this is how they will treat their husbands.

Posted: at 17-05-2012 09:48 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Lack of conscience and desperation.The euphoria that traveling abroad brings to many eventually makes them do bizarre things.They always want to experiment given their different complexes.A friend once told me he'd do everything possible to have sex with a Scandinavian girl.Now,he had vowed to do it in spite of what it might cost him because he had never done it with a white lady before.He ultimately did it and somehow,couldn't afford to let the lady go.So,he engaged her and after 1 year of cohabitation,he jilted her for someone else.All he wanted to know was if a white woman's private part was any different from a black girl's.He did that and left the lady heart-broken.Second of all,desperation plays a colossal part in this.'Ok,let me fool around with her until my status is changed'.We guys sometimes forget that these things may boomerang someday in life because when you toil with one's emotions,God frowns at it.On the flip side,so many guys in their quest for 'personal gains' have sunk themselves in depression.Let's just assume most white ladies are much wiser now than before and these guys practically do everything at their beck and call.

Posted: at 17-05-2012 10:20 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 17-05-2012 10:57 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 17-05-2012 11:06 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

YOU HAVE TALKED SENSE MAN;;;

Posted: at 17-05-2012 11:24 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Who no go no go know....white women for Europe,let us forget this topic....some of the women are heartless,you can't blame a man for divorce,they are some extent you can take some shit,some black men even run away before the papers comes out,we are not sex machines or slaves....i love my black sisters,they understand where we are coming from but the white has it in their heart that you are there for papers,even if you had good intention.Peace of mind is better than papers

Posted: at 17-05-2012 11:38 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

THE FACT  IS WHITE FOLKS ALSO BETRAY ONE ANOTHER;;; AN AVERAGE WHITE LADY IS NOT SUBMISSEVEN IVE; DOMINANT AND EGOCENTRIC; BOSSY;; EVEN THOUGH I  LIKE A LADY BEING INDEPENDENT;;; BUT A WHITE WOMAN WILL THROW BANANA TO YOU ONCE YOU CATCH;; YOU CATCH AM FOR LIVE AND MUST EAT AM FOR LIVE BE THAT;;;;BUT THERE ARE MANY MEN THAT CATCH THIS BANANA WITHOUT BEING STUPID BUT ONLY PRETENDING TO GET WHAT THEY WANT FROM THE CHICK; AFTER GETTING IT;;THEY TAKE ON USUAL CHARACTER IF THEY STILL WANT THE MARRIAGE TO HOLD; BUT THESE NEW BEHAVIOUR  BECOME STRANGE FOR THE LADY AND PROBABLY WONT BE ABLE TO COPE;THUS; THE MARRIAGE COLLIDES;;;BUT GUYS THAT ARE NOT WILLING TO GO ON AND BE MALTREATED SAY THEIR CIAO THE MOMENT THEY GET WHAT THEY WANT;;; BUT THERE ARE STILL NAIJA MEN THAT WONT STOOP AN INCH LOW;  NO MATTER WHAT THEY WANT;;;  AND THEY TEND TO IMBIBE THEIR CULTURE INTO FEW WHITES THAT ARE NOT INCORRIGIBLE;;AND FEW WHITE CHICKS APPRECIATE SUCH MEN A LOT; AND SUCH WOMEN WONT DARE TO THROW THAT BANANA THING;; AND SUCH RELATIONSHIP LAST FOR LONG TIME AND EVEN FOR A LIFETIME; SO IT IS VICE VERSA;;; AND EVEN SOME OF OUR NAIJA LADIES OUT HERE TOO TEND TO TAKE THE WHITE CULTURE AND EVEN OVERDO IT THAT THEIR MARRIAGE DONT LAST ANYMORE;; SO IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH NAIJA MENNN;

Posted: at 17-05-2012 11:41 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Poster, dont worry many of them think its only Nigerians in need of papers who marry white woman. Then they laff.
And when they find out its a successful guy, they get angry bcos of jealousy   Me just dey laff sha

Posted: at 17-05-2012 11:52 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

poster you must be very mad" in other wards this an insult to my follow naija men. To hell with you post.....

Posted: at 17-05-2012 11:59 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming