Advice for a woman who married a mama's boy and his explosive mother. (Page 2)

For all the women in the house, pls before u comment something bad, u should remember that whats goes around comes around.......One day u'll be a mother-inlaw too.....

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Posted: at 18-05-2012 11:42 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U know i ve always wondered why a married woman who has enjoyed peace and support from her husband and her husband kinsmen would turn around and become a thorn in the flesh of her fellow woman simply b/cos that one is married to her son...
Isn't it absurd? especially knowing fully well that her own daughter is or would someday get married and probably meet another mother in-law.  Now how would she feel if her own daughter is been treated that same way?  Haba!!!
U know i keep wondering why there is so much hypocrisy in Africa.  why people are never truthful to themselves.      And i urge guys to know their left from their right especially on issues that has to do with marriage. Pls if u know u re not ready then don't get into it.

And for any woman that's going thru such humiliations atm... pls take ur stand and make ur husband and his mother to respect u.    if ur husband truly love u, he won't stay back and watch u go thru such. he 'll put his mother in her place... and pls women should stop been the victims unnecessarily all in the name of trying to make ur marriage work. it can never work one-sided. It would take ur spouse effort too... and pls if he's not ready to man his own home then call it quit. U would see after a while that u took the right decision... If i am not happy in a r/ship i call it quit.

Posted: at 19-05-2012 01:34 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 19-05-2012 05:16 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Nnem u look like egg yolk & 4 dat, I will kill any ochicha (cockroach) for u.
Nnem, ego na'esi isi na arum (money is smelling on my body). I dash oyibo money. D person writing to u is Aguiyi international.
Ugo'm, you are better dan Shakira, u are better dan Beyonce. Michael Jackson is a small boy to me. I send money on errands.
I am doing well, adim ok!. Is not my fault. Being big boy, is that my fault? Is it my fault dat at my age, I have many boys under me. Is it my fault dat I have plans of making u d president of d biggest boutique in Onitsha.
I will repackage u nnem and present u to d world, pretty damsel. Nnem oo, you see, I deal with pounds and dollars so I pay in d naira equivalent of my grammar. Oyoyo'm, Egovin nwa, my yori yori, ashanti'm, nwa akworo aka muo. Igbu go'm (u hv killed me). Infact baby, take me.

Yours faithfully, Aguiyi. (ROTFL).

Posted: at 19-05-2012 06:20 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Bia Sugadaddy, i will not go blind bc i want to read your comment. I will be mother-inlaw and a peaceful one.

Posted: at 19-05-2012 09:07 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Try 2 put her in ur mums place what ever she does ,over look ,just try 2 pls her 2 save ur marriage, remember one day u will be a mother in law 2 some one. Imagine if she is ur mum would wish her dead, what goes around comes around. u can even ask her what is doesnt like in ur character.with humility.

Posted: at 19-05-2012 09:38 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

@Treasure and Ceejay58 God wil bless u 2. Yes,i wil be a moda in law bt nt as unreasonable n difficult as dis one. Wat i dnt lyk odas 2 do 2 me i wont do 2 odas. My male child family wud nid deir privacy n i wud respect dat. Any prob dey wil say d woman shud do dis n dat wen dats meant 2 be a collective effort wit d man involvd. Na only d woman go do evrithn? Wat is d essence of d marriage? 4 only one person 2 do al d wrk? Una wan giv am hrt attack?D woman has bn doin fyn by displayin an obedient attitude 2 his mum bt stil she doesnt appreciate dat.and dats bcos her husband cnt Man up! Let him man up n stop suckin his moda's Bosom s.

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Posted: at 19-05-2012 09:57 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It is a popular belief that you young women of nowdays try to have domineering possession of your husbands and any challenge from any quarter is rebuffed.  Your mother-inlaw is being possessive because it is natural. It  not easy to bring somebody up.  Remember you will one day be in her shoe you will now know how it pinches.

Try and make up things with your mother-inlaw.  Never you say until she is six feet down you will not go to the village.  Do you know who, you, your husband or the mother, who will die first?  When you marry, you have married the entire family.  If you treat your mother inlaw badly now, you will be incurring the wrath not only hers but those of her other sons and daughters and family members. Once you make enemies of your husband family members and nobody talks good of you, you are finished, either now or in the future.  So try and reconcile with your mother inlaw, respect and treat her decently, have concern for her welfare and those of your husband people. It is only when you do this, that you will have peace.  If even your husband comes to your defence and sidelined the mother as you wish, that will compound the issues for you.

Posted: at 19-05-2012 10:05 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

We tnk God dat some reasonable men who r nt lyk dis r out dere.ive bn hearing som gud stories. Wud neva advise any lady 2 marry a ma ma's boy.

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Posted: at 19-05-2012 10:20 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

pls where i can buy weed here

Posted: at 19-05-2012 10:31 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming