Being in a relationship requires a lot of hard work. You're both responsible for keeping the fire alive and finding ways to show each other that you care. If you want to feel the thrill of the chase while in your relationship, do a few things to entice your mate into getting excited and interested in pursuing you. From smelling amazing to listening to what your mate has to say, making yourself a hot commodity to your other half isn't as hard as it seems.
Instructions o 1Spruce yourself up. Do those little things you may have let slip in your relationship like wearing cologne and keeping up with your grooming. Remind her what attracted her to you in the first place by looking your best.
o 2 Compliment her to build her esteem and confidence. Tell her how you attracted you are to her to help her feel better about herself and get her excited enough to pursue you. With the extra jolt of confidence she feels, she may be inclined to spread the wealth over to you, to naturally start noticing great things about you.
o 3 Flirt feverishly with him. No matter if you've been dating for weeks or years, flirting goes a long way into the game of pursuit. Play hard to get every once in a while and make it known to him that you're only willing to reward hard work and determination.
o 4 Give each other a little space. Don't allow either of you to take for granted the benefit of seeing each other all of the time. Be willing to create some distance in your relationship even if that means having dinner with your best friend a night or two during the week or exercising separately. The space will have you both yearning to get closer together allowing your mate to come at you with fiery passion.
o 5 Give a little, take nothing. Working hand in hand with your flirtatious behavior is the art of the chase. Give him plenty of lip service and eye contact without actually doing anything about it. For instance, you may give him a sensual massage, then finish up by sitting on the couch or finishing up a project. The fact that you didn't follow-through by igniting a passionate moment can excite your partner into feeling you are irresistible and wanting to take it to the next level.
Posted: at 12-07-2012 11:43 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 12-07-2012 12:42 PM (12 years ago) (f)
My Sis, You See..Times have changed, however, and many women now feel that it is perfectly acceptable for women to ask out the opposite sex. The way I see it, the act of pursuit in dating has to be in direct relationship to one’s relationship with Jesus Christ...Sadly, many woman want to be the pursuers in the relationship because 1) men aren’t doing it or 2) men are pursuing, but doing it poorly. As a result, women all too often try to take the reigns and become the pursuer, so as to force the situation...Some men today think that a text message with a “u look hawt” constitutes “pursuing.'So it’s understandable when a chick tries to turn the tables..Here’s the truth, pursuit does take both parties. God, for example, pursues us, but it requires that we respond to His advances. Likewise, a man pursuing a woman requires (if she is interested) that she respond accordingly----meaning she flirts and let’s him know he is on the right track. I know to some I may sound old-fashioned,and not very egalitarian, but here’s the thing: I know there are exceptions to every rule, but I think most women like heck, they want to be pursued. And most men want to be the pursuer...The trouble is, we have forgotten what that looks like and how to do it. Pursuit is an ongoing act of striving that requires both people to participate. If men pursued Christ first, then a woman in a non-Hollywood type manner, you better believe that a woman would respond with excitement and enthusiasm…making the pursuit fun once again.
In Addition!, let’s look at God. He is the ultimate pursuer. He comes after us, romances us, and wins us with His love. Likewise, each and every follower of Christ should be in full pursuit of Him first and foremost before they ever worry about pursuing the opposite sex. Okay, now that we got that out of the way…
I think men should still be the pursuers
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-07-2012 12:42 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
wandepope at 12-07-2012 01:07 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 12-07-2012 12:42 PM
My Sis, You See..Times have changed, however, and many women now feel that it is perfectly acceptable for women to ask out the opposite sex. The way I see it, the act of pursuit in dating has to be in direct relationship to one’s relationship with Jesus Christ...Sadly, many woman want to be the pursuers in the relationship because 1) men aren’t doing it or 2) men are pursuing, but doing it poorly. As a result, women all too often try to take the reigns and become the pursuer, so as to force the situation...Some men today think that a text message with a “u look hawt” constitutes “pursuing.'So it’s understandable when a chick tries to turn the tables..Here’s the truth, pursuit does take both parties. God, for example, pursues us, but it requires that we respond to His advances. Likewise, a man pursuing a woman requires (if she is interested) that she respond accordingly----meaning she flirts and let’s him know he is on the right track. I know to some I may sound old-fashioned,and not very egalitarian, but here’s the thing: I know there are exceptions to every rule, but I think most women like heck, they want to be pursued. And most men want to be the pursuer...The trouble is, we have forgotten what that looks like and how to do it. Pursuit is an ongoing act of striving that requires both people to participate. If men pursued Christ first, then a woman in a non-Hollywood type manner, you better believe that a woman would respond with excitement and enthusiasm…making the pursuit fun once again.
In Addition!, let’s look at God. He is the ultimate pursuer. He comes after us, romances us, and wins us with His love. Likewise, each and every follower of Christ should be in full pursuit of Him first and foremost before they ever worry about pursuing the opposite sex. Okay, now that we got that out of the way…
I think men should still be the pursuers
honestly,Sophie i am impressed. A womans heart should be hidden in Christ so that a man should have to seek HIM first to find her.This generation have misplaced passion as a result of unguided emotions but who can guide the heart except HIM that sees the heart ? If a woman runs after GOD godly men will have no choice but to run after her.
Posted: at 12-07-2012 01:07 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
My Sis, You See..Times have changed, however, and many women now feel that it is perfectly acceptable for women to ask out the opposite sex. The way I see it, the act of pursuit in dating has to be in direct relationship to one’s relationship with Jesus Christ...Sadly, many woman want to be the pursuers in the relationship because 1) men aren’t doing it or 2) men are pursuing, but doing it poorly. As a result, women all too often try to take the reigns and become the pursuer, so as to force the situation...Some men today think that a text message with a “u look hawt” constitutes “pursuing.'So it’s understandable when a chick tries to turn the tables..Here’s the truth, pursuit does take both parties. God, for example, pursues us, but it requires that we respond to His advances. Likewise, a man pursuing a woman requires (if she is interested) that she respond accordingly----meaning she flirts and let’s him know he is on the right track. I know to some I may sound old-fashioned,and not very egalitarian, but here’s the thing: I know there are exceptions to every rule, but I think most women like heck, they want to be pursued. And most men want to be the pursuer...The trouble is, we have forgotten what that looks like and how to do it. Pursuit is an ongoing act of striving that requires both people to participate. If men pursued Christ first, then a woman in a non-Hollywood type manner, you better believe that a woman would respond with excitement and enthusiasm…making the pursuit fun once again.
In Addition!, let’s look at God. He is the ultimate pursuer. He comes after us, romances us, and wins us with His love. Likewise, each and every follower of Christ should be in full pursuit of Him first and foremost before they ever worry about pursuing the opposite sex. Okay, now that we got that out of the way…
I think men should still be the pursuers
Love affairs Minister cum Woman of God, ur welcome. He/she that has an ear, let him/her hear what the WOG and the Minister had spoken. I rest my case. Where is my Ekpang, 2day is Thursday oooo
Posted: at 12-07-2012 01:39 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 12-07-2012 01:52 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Idbabe on 12-07-2012 01:39 PM
Love affairs Minister cum Woman of God, ur welcome. He/she that has an ear, let him/her hear what the WOG and the Minister had spoken. I rest my case. Where is my Ekpang, 2day is Thursday oooo
ehmmm i forget to tell u sey i bring am cum.. make i go microwave am..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-07-2012 01:52 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
My Sis, You See..Times have changed, however, and many women now feel that it is perfectly acceptable for women to ask out the opposite sex. The way I see it, the act of pursuit in dating has to be in direct relationship to one’s relationship with Jesus Christ...Sadly, many woman want to be the pursuers in the relationship because 1) men aren’t doing it or 2) men are pursuing, but doing it poorly. As a result, women all too often try to take the reigns and become the pursuer, so as to force the situation...Some men today think that a text message with a “u look hawt” constitutes “pursuing.'So it’s understandable when a chick tries to turn the tables..Here’s the truth, pursuit does take both parties. God, for example, pursues us, but it requires that we respond to His advances. Likewise, a man pursuing a woman requires (if she is interested) that she respond accordingly----meaning she flirts and let’s him know he is on the right track. I know to some I may sound old-fashioned,and not very egalitarian, but here’s the thing: I know there are exceptions to every rule, but I think most women like heck, they want to be pursued. And most men want to be the pursuer...The trouble is, we have forgotten what that looks like and how to do it. Pursuit is an ongoing act of striving that requires both people to participate. If men pursued Christ first, then a woman in a non-Hollywood type manner, you better believe that a woman would respond with excitement and enthusiasm…making the pursuit fun once again.
In Addition!, let’s look at God. He is the ultimate pursuer. He comes after us, romances us, and wins us with His love. Likewise, each and every follower of Christ should be in full pursuit of Him first and foremost before they ever worry about pursuing the opposite sex. Okay, now that we got that out of the way…
I think men should still be the pursuers
sophy sophy, this is lovely.
1daful Is a Blessed Child..
Posted: at 12-07-2012 04:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jossy4reall at 13-07-2012 08:32 AM (12 years ago) (m)
When I saw d 1st paragraph of dis article and I tot it is 4 both male and female............ but reading d body I realized its all about women benefits............I wonder if men are not supposed to benefit anything in a relationship......Just wondering
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 13-07-2012 08:32 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
When I saw d 1st paragraph of dis article and I tot it is 4 both male and female............ but reading d body I realized its all about women benefits............I wonder if men are not supposed to benefit anything in a relationship......Just wondering
Bros, no vex both parties must hv to benefit so the relationship will be sweet like honey. U too dey vex sef haba, u be vexpa?
Posted: at 13-07-2012 11:27 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
mallorca at 13-07-2012 12:03 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 13-07-2012 08:32 AM
When I saw d 1st paragraph of dis article and I tot it is 4 both male and female............ but reading d body I realized its all about women benefits............I wonder if men are not supposed to benefit anything in a relationship......Just wondering
Punani is d only benefit men can benefit in a relationship? so far Punani is availbale weneva i want it.am happy
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY
Posted: at 13-07-2012 12:03 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Treasure2 at 13-07-2012 05:26 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 13-07-2012 08:32 AM
When I saw d 1st paragraph of dis article and I tot it is 4 both male and female............ but reading d body I realized its all about women benefits............I wonder if men are not supposed to benefit anything in a relationship......Just wondering
Posted: at 13-07-2012 05:26 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
jossy4reall at 13-07-2012 08:13 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: mallorca on 13-07-2012 12:03 PM
Punani is d only benefit men can benefit in a relationship? so far Punani is availbale weneva i want it.am happy
bros sumtimez sef dat punani dey go on strike............even when e dey on duty sumtimez if u try am e no go dey available..........so I still dey wonder
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 13-07-2012 08:13 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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