Getting a good Nigerian man is possible as you know, all hands are not equal and all Nigerian men can not be completely bad as the world is saying it. Nigerian men are good men if you know their weak points. everyone has a weak point. Nigerian men hates women that are rude or don't know how to look good.
Automatic Love: When you see a Nigerian man who chat with u for the first time and totally fall in love with you, or at times, haven't seen your picture but the way you talk is his excuse for falling in love with you, quit that relationship, its not worth it. that is a lie. This coul happen offline too.
Regular Complain About money: This does not mean all of them are the same. Many Nigerians you meet online will give you different excuses to get money from you. They always claim to have something terrible happening in their lives. And they make you believe you are the only hope to solve their problems. Dont be oblivious of your surrounding and dont rush in love and rush out with pains.
Take your Time: Saying this word could be the last thing you want to hear particularly when the age is not on your side. But take your time to learn something about him. you should sometimes annoy him to see how he reacts. People believe Nigerians are violent... aren't you? But taking your time to see his way of reaction won't cost you a thing. it does not matter how far you go to see how he is but do not rush into his arms because he is acting nice to you. Acting nice is not the problem but continue being nice.
Prince: Many Nigerians you meet will tell you they are prince in Nigeria and their father is the king. If everyone is a prince who then is a follower? this is completely absurd. Are you a child? dont you know when a someone is lying? They use the name prince to thrill people online in order to get them in their arms. The thought of you being a princess will be so great that you forget every other thing you are doing..
Look Astonish: Nigerian guys love to dress and they love a woman who knows how to dress too. If you want to attract a Nigerian man, u should be crazily good in dressing. I do not say be naked! dress responsibly but completely look good. If you dress like crazy, then you will see crazy guys, but if you dress responsible, there is the tendency that responsible ones will come too.
Be Your Self: Dont be too excited meeting a Nigerian man that you have to forget some things you should look into. Don't allow the relationship to be just you and him. you have to know some of his friends, relationships etc at a point. and Many Nigerians who do not tell you their real name are those you should run from. Many Nigerians have a native name that they are known for but when they give themselves a different name online, then just quit the chat.
Comport yourself too: You can't be looking for something good when you are not good. you can't be searching for a good Nigerian when you are completely rotten. don't go into a relationship in the name of sex and big cock. and Many Nigerians will ask you to born for them immediately, u think that is a good idea when the relationship is just few months old? Your attitude should be encouraging as well, if you do not have a good attitude, then you can't be searching for a Nigerian man. Can you cook? hell No! if you can its an added advantage for you. learn how to cook Nigerian food and more so, ur own kind of food otherwise you will not see your man at home.
Check Him Out: Do you know anyone who have idea about him? Do you have any other friends in the country of your boyfriend residence? Find someone to check him out. Its not proper snooping but its the best idea at times just to rescue your soul from the devil. I have helped a lady in the United State to check her boyfriend out because the boy claimed to be in my state. I sent someone to ask questions around and behold, even the address he gave was completely wrong. The address was his old address and no one knew where he had moved to. He goes there to collect his mails once in a while. How about his occupation? that was a blatant lie. I called him on phone and a woman answered the phone that i could not tell the woman, but i advised her to forget about him and i am sure she did. You can give your heart to the devil without knowing. The devil in nice clothing.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 23-07-2012 04:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 23-07-2012 04:21 PM (12 years ago) (f)
nice post hopea..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-07-2012 04:21 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
nicencool at 23-07-2012 04:41 PM (12 years ago) (m)
D most surprising thing i am yet to fig out abt black ladies is dat, the same lady dat posted dis might End up been a victim of the same kind of bad guys she already knew dere trait.
Posted: at 23-07-2012 04:41 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
D most surprising thing i am yet to fig out abt black ladies is dat, the same lady dat posted dis might End up been a victim of the same kind of bad guys she already knew dere trait.
Come again
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 23-07-2012 05:23 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
This post sounds like online dating tips on how to get a naija man. I agree with some of them, but most of the thing u said are so true. But I can also apply some of the tips outside social network.
Online lovers should register on Skype.com and u will enjoy some free talk and seeing each other on cam.
Most of the Nigerian men never give u their direct contact until they are finally convinced(on this one, you need to slow down) or some of them are scammers!
Posted: at 23-07-2012 06:05 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
D most surprising thing i am yet to fig out abt black ladies is dat, the same lady dat posted dis might End up been a victim of the same kind of bad guys she already knew dere trait.
We have all being victimized by one strategy or the other. She may nt b d author of the above thread but she is sharing this info so that others can learn from it.
Posted: at 23-07-2012 06:08 PM (12 years ago) | Hero