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Hi my good pals, please I need an advice…
Am 28yrs now, and there is this guy I dated 6yrs back now and I purposely left him for a guy I met b4 him bcos I was madly in love with him den, but since then this guy don’t seems to leave me alone of which I later have another guy that am seriously in love with now.

The problem now is, the guy am having now is not ready for settling down for now and my 6yrs ex- lover want me so crazy to be his wife now. Pls my pals, wat do I do?

Should I accept him as my husband or I should still wait for my present lover. But I really want to settle down now.
thanks my good pals.
   

bring this ur story to the village council

to the Oracle.

the Oracle don't handle this kinda story

thank u myra...

u are the old school kinda Oracle though....u handle women stories...

hahahahaha. thats it!

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Posted: at 22-04-2009 01:01 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

This is the worst advice i've heard from a human being.... well what do u knw? "Aliens are amongst us"
U dont wanna knw if the 6yrs dude is a jerk and it'll be a hell on earth kinda marriage.... u just feel she shud dump the present guy.... u r either bad at advicin people or a complete sadist....

@poster... I'll advice u pray about it cos no advice can assure a man that'll be worth being with for the rest of ur natural life.....

God Bless NIGERIA

Posted: at 22-04-2009 06:12 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

follow ur heart.u know what u want, go for it. my advise for u,is to get married to the one dat is ready to settle down.

Posted: at 23-04-2009 02:12 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

well, i will advice u to back to the ur ex-guy since he is serious to about u and want to settle down with u,
i will advice u to quietly  to back and try to settle things with him.
 but for the new guy, i don't think he is serious with u may what he want is that thing under ur lags and once he get it he will fly away.
so use ur head

Posted: at 23-04-2009 03:22 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

POSTER....... YOU DATED A GUY AND PURPOSELY LEFT HIM 6YRS AGO, AND NOW HE WANTS YOU BACK BADLY.....NAH WAHOOO. ARE YOU SURE THAT ONE IS LUV? I THINK THAT IS REVENGE. ANYWAY THINK TWICE......GUD LUCK

Posted: at 23-04-2009 07:09 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

         My dear you need to open up a little if you really need a sound advice to go about your decision. The guy you love who also is not ready to settle down with you now, what are his reasons ? is he got a job ? does he have an accomodation ? or managing with a friend.
         Now if his got a job that can put food on your table and leaves in a room apartment for now, then there is no reason why he shouldnt. He can take you to church for a church blessing and that be it, if money for weeding is his problem. Else his not just gonna break your heat but kill it.
         If he loves you and you dont mind moving in with him the way he is for now best Know to you, which his not ready for, baby girl his not worth it ok backoff. l dont think he intend having you in his life for ever. Please pray about this and ask for God's direction. l dont know if both of you have any relationship with God if not please do.
         For you Ladies its good for a guy to love you more then you love him, his really gonna care somuch about you and would always be too careful about everything he does not to hurt you. You be too lucky to have one, cos you hardly ever gonna hurt him.
         when they come telling you l love you, just make sure his got a job, accomodation not one room ok maybe a room and a palor and most importanly most not be an NFA ( No Furture Ambitious) if you dont want to be sorry for.

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Posted: at 24-04-2009 11:45 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

 my dear in my own opinion,I will never advise you to get marry to someone that you doesn't love properly,having marry to a person which you have not meditate very well and analyze within your heart because of your desperate is useless.to assure you love and the story of love is not important, what is important is the one who is capable, in order to maintain the quantitative and qualitative power of love you must tolerate a lot, difficulties and disappointment.finally bear it in mind that you can't make a rain boll without a little Rain mean why you have to exercise patient untill you found a person that belong to you.           

Posted: at 24-04-2009 06:39 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

my dear friend i know someone once in the shoes you wear now. 2-things you can bet is: your Ex- will not make you happy. your present is SO gonno dump you in the excuss that is family don't want you. my sister please quit the two trust God and you will go into another that will fulfill you all the best.

Posted: at 25-04-2009 12:37 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Day dreaming

Posted: at 25-04-2009 12:59 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

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Posted: at 25-04-2009 04:49 PM (15 years ago) | Hero