Is It OK For A Married Man To Eat Outside?

Date: 17-03-2013 12:40 pm (12 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- at 17-03-2013 12:40 PM (12 years ago)
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I have one lady friend who has bin quarreling wit her
Bf since. They r now dating for 4 yrs or so, not ready for marriage yet.
Sometimes as the guy dey go out to see friends, when he com home
He will bring food prepared by his friends wives or gf's. The gal told him several times dat
She dusn like it but he see no harm in it.



Ladies, can u let ur man eat food from outside?
Guys, when ur woman food is sweet, what can b d reason ur eating outside?

Posted: at 17-03-2013 12:40 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- winace at 17-03-2013 02:15 PM (12 years ago)
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Dat guy no like d babe . Na sign language be dat or maybe babe no sabi cook so he prefer to tell her indirectly.
Posted: at 17-03-2013 02:15 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osarobo62 at 17-03-2013 02:46 PM (12 years ago)
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eating out or occasionally at your friend's house should not be the business of your partner.
in Nigeria culture,serving food to a friendly visitor is part of our custom.

 
Posted: at 17-03-2013 02:46 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- adebukilomo at 17-03-2013 03:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Its either d lady doesn't know how to cook or not av enuf time to do that,,and d way to an African man's heart is Good food,,either way d lady should adjust or quit,,u can't start avving problem on ur way to marriage.
Posted: at 17-03-2013 03:43 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- adebukilomo at 17-03-2013 03:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Lest I say eating out by anyone,,married or not,,should not be a habit unless there is a 'big reason'. 
Posted: at 17-03-2013 03:47 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- osamabinladin at 17-03-2013 03:52 PM (12 years ago)
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it is necessary sometimes but not always
Posted: at 17-03-2013 03:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- proly at 17-03-2013 03:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Posted: at 17-03-2013 03:55 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 17-03-2013 04:07 PM (12 years ago)
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Poster that man is not eating outside...a man who is eating outside cannot bring the food home and must not be only foods from his friends house....Some female folks will come here now and start dishing out their abusive minds on the guy..but this is very simple to understand.............Four gud years in a relationship and she still not able to realize that she doesn't know hw to cook..........I believe that guy must have tried in so many other ways to pass the message without hurting her but still she didn't care........Hmmm, I see luv and endurance but I didn't see a marriage sign,,thats a prophesy...........and every one that cares will blame the guy without knowing the main reason if they later break up........who knows what other things the guy must have been overlooking......Just saying my mind though

Posted: at 17-03-2013 04:07 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 17-03-2013 04:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 17-03-2013 04:07 PM
Poster that man is not eating outside...a man who is eating outside cannot bring the food home and must not be only foods from his friends house....Some female folks will come here now and start dishing out their abusive minds on the guy..but this is very simple to understand.............Four gud years in a relationship and she still not able to realize that she doesn't know hw to cook..........I believe that guy must have tried in so many other ways to pass the message without hurting her but still she didn't care........Hmmm, I see luv and endurance but I didn't see a marriage sign,,thats a prophesy...........and every one that cares will blame the guy without knowing the main reason if they later break up........who knows what other things the guy must have been overlooking......Just saying my mind though
i agree with you

Posted: at 17-03-2013 04:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 17-03-2013 04:40 PM (12 years ago)
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She doesn't like it when her man bring food from outside but she doesn't know how to cook and she expects the dude to remain hungry because she doesn't like it.. This babe dey slack men... I wonder what this dude is still doing with her for four years? If he is scared not to hurt her feelings or he doesn't want to do it by himself.. Abeg tell the dude to employ his mom to do the job for him.. His mom will be good on that to send her away from her son life men n... She should be glad sa this dude nor dey keep late night or sleep over..

Posted: at 17-03-2013 04:40 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- etibaba at 17-03-2013 05:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 17-03-2013 04:07 PM
Poster that man is not eating outside...a man who is eating outside cannot bring the food home and must not be only foods from his friends house....Some female folks will come here now and start dishing out their abusive minds on the guy..but this is very simple to understand.............Four gud years in a relationship and she still not able to realize that she doesn't know hw to cook..........I believe that guy must have tried in so many other ways to pass the message without hurting her but still she didn't care........Hmmm, I see luv and endurance but I didn't see a marriage sign,,thats a prophesy...........and every one that cares will blame the guy without knowing the main reason if they later break up........who knows what other things the guy must have been overlooking......Just saying my mind though

Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- toibeli at 17-03-2013 05:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Eating out once in a while is perfectly OK, but on regular basis is a slap on the ladies face
If the lady is not an expert in the culinary department, the man can as well help out in
that dept. This is 2013, men can help out in the kitchen too.
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nsi4u at 17-03-2013 05:25 PM (12 years ago)
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THE GUY IS REALLY DIEING IN SILENCE . SHE DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO COOK TOWNSHIP GIRLS
THAT IS HOW THEIR MARRIAGE WILL COLAPS BE NXT THING SHE WILL DO IS TO LOOK FOR HOUSE HELP WHO WILL COOKING FOR HER HUSBAND ;WHEN GUY FALL INLOVE WITH WHO KNOW HOW TAKE CARE OF HIM THEY START BLAMING DEVIL. I WILL ALLSO ADVISE TO GO AKWA IBOM AND SOME COOKING
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:25 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- nsi4u at 17-03-2013 05:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: toibeli on 17-03-2013 05:17 PM
Eating out once in a while is perfectly OK, but on regular basis is a slap on the ladies face
If the lady is not an expert in the culinary department, the man can as well help out in
that dept. This is 2013, men can help out in the kitchen too.


NOW FOR U OOO WHICH 2013 AGAIN? A MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE. THE WOMAN HAS TO TAKE CARE OF IN TERM COOKING. I AS WOMAN I WILL HAPPY SEING MY HUSBAND IN THE KICHEN WASHING PLATE OR COOKING BECOS I DO NOT KNOW HOW COOK OR DO DOMESTIC WORK I SHOULD BE ASHAME OF MY SELF. IT ALSO MEAN I DID NOT GET HOME TRAINING FROM MY MUM.
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:31 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- nsi4u at 17-03-2013 05:33 PM (12 years ago)
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INDOMIE NO ALLOW NIGERIAN GIRLS TOSABI COOK. BECOSD DE ONLY THEY KNOW TO COOK IS INDOMIE
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:33 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 17-03-2013 05:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: osarobo62 on 17-03-2013 02:46 PM
eating out or occasionally at your friend's house should not be the business of your partner.
in Nigeria culture,serving food to a friendly visitor is part of our custom.

 

Dat is whn he go eat outside, but somtimes he go dey bring d food home.
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:54 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 17-03-2013 05:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 17-03-2013 04:07 PM
Poster that man is not eating outside...a man who is eating outside cannot bring the food home and must not be only foods from his friends house....Some female folks will come here now and start dishing out their abusive minds on the guy..but this is very simple to understand.............Four gud years in a relationship and she still not able to realize that she doesn't know hw to cook..........I believe that guy must have tried in so many other ways to pass the message without hurting her but still she didn't care........Hmmm, I see luv and endurance but I didn't see a marriage sign,,thats a prophesy...........and every one that cares will blame the guy without knowing the main reason if they later break up........who knows what other things the guy must have been overlooking......Just saying my mind though

U make sense for real
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:56 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Ifemylove at 17-03-2013 05:57 PM (12 years ago)
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i believe the girl is not a good cook. If not, why would a man bring food prepared by another woman for me ? that girl should learn how to cook better to solve her problem
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:57 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 17-03-2013 05:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: toibeli on 17-03-2013 05:17 PM
Eating out once in a while is perfectly OK, but on regular basis is a slap on the ladies face
If the lady is not an expert in the culinary department, the man can as well help out in
that dept. This is 2013, men can help out in the kitchen too.

 Shocked Cool Cool
Posted: at 17-03-2013 05:57 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 17-03-2013 06:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Well i dunno if she can cook  Huh? Dats also d only reason i can
Tink of for d man to b eating outside. But he always says he no fit
Say no when they offer him.
If he wanna giv message to d woman, he wudn use excuses rite  Huh?
Posted: at 17-03-2013 06:00 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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