• Be there when they need you.
• Cheer them on as they strive towards excellence.
• Don’t look for their faults.
• Encourage and edify them in the lord.
• Forgive them without nursing grudges.
. Get together often-to pray and to do other things that will improve your General well being.
. Have confidence in them.
. Include them in your prayer list.
. Just listen, even if you don’t have the solution to their problem. the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to Listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is Our attention… A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to Connect than the most well-intentioned words.”
. Know their dreams and aspirations.
. Love them unconditionally.
. Make them feel special.
. Never forget them.
. Offer to help them without waiting to be asked.
. Praise them honestly.
. Quietly disagree, when necessary.
. Reject unproven rumors about them.
. Say you’re sorry, when they’re offended.
. Take time to know their likes and dislikes.
. Use good judgment.
. Vouch for them: verify rumors.
. Wish them well.
. X-ray yourself first, before counseling or correcting them.
. Your words count: so measure them carefully. and
. Zip your mouth when told a secret.
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