How to Refuse a Date to Ensure Another Request (Page 2)

Date: 15-05-2009 1:15 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Pastor Edward Freedom
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- Tomdequola at 22-05-2009 09:58 AM (14 years ago)
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ova here

Posted: at 22-05-2009 09:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osaomo at 22-05-2009 09:59 AM (14 years ago)
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wetin happen? Tongue

Posted: at 22-05-2009 09:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 22-05-2009 10:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osaomo on 18-05-2009 09:40 AM
"Suggest another specific day, or express your general wish to find another time that works for both of you. A straightforward 'I can't this time because I have to go to Chicago, but I would love to make it another time. How's next Friday?' has candor to recommend it."

What if u don't wanna go at all? Undecided...whether next friday or next year. or 20 years to come.. Huh? Huh?...
if u dont wanna go at all......
just frown ur face.....no condom...sorry candle....arrrhhhh....candor to it...
just NO Cheesy
Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:01 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osaomo at 22-05-2009 10:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 22-05-2009 10:01 AM
Quote from: osaomo on 18-05-2009 09:40 AM
"Suggest another specific day, or express your general wish to find another time that works for both of you. A straightforward 'I can't this time because I have to go to Chicago, but I would love to make it another time. How's next Friday?' has candor to recommend it."

What if u don't wanna go at all? Undecided...whether next friday or next year. or 20 years to come.. Huh? Huh?...
if u dont wanna go at all......
just frown ur face.....no condom...sorry candle....arrrhhhh....candor to it...
just NO Cheesy



hehehe...kk...i will becondomcandor to it.. Grin Grin

Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:04 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lovemar at 22-05-2009 10:04 AM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmm
Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:04 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tomdequola at 22-05-2009 10:04 AM (14 years ago)
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mazi!!!!!!!! Osa notn

Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:04 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osaomo at 22-05-2009 10:06 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:04 AM
hmmmmm
Huh? Huh?


Quote from: Tomdequola on 22-05-2009 10:04 AM
mazi!!!!!!!! Osa notn


wat did I do again...mr one liner?

Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:06 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 22-05-2009 10:07 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:04 AM
Quote from: mazi on 22-05-2009 10:01 AM
Quote from: osaomo on 18-05-2009 09:40 AM
"Suggest another specific day, or express your general wish to find another time that works for both of you. A straightforward 'I can't this time because I have to go to Chicago, but I would love to make it another time. How's next Friday?' has candor to recommend it."

What if u don't wanna go at all? Undecided...whether next friday or next year. or 20 years to come.. Huh? Huh?...
if u dont wanna go at all......
just frown ur face.....no condom...sorry candle....arrrhhhh....candor to it...
just NO Cheesy



hehehe...kk...i will becondomcandor to it.. Grin Grin
ha!...u'll become condom? Shocked
Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osaomo at 22-05-2009 10:09 AM (14 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:09 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lovemar at 22-05-2009 10:10 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:06 AM
Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:04 AM
hmmmmm
Huh? Huh?

All of a sudden u won become condomcandor
Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 22-05-2009 10:14 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:09 AM
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:14 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osaomo at 22-05-2009 10:16 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:10 AM
Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:06 AM
Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:04 AM
hmmmmm
Huh? Huh?

All of a sudden u won become condomcandor

 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Grin

Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:16 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lovemar at 22-05-2009 10:21 AM (14 years ago)
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 Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley hahahaha
Posted: at 22-05-2009 10:21 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 22-05-2009 11:52 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:16 AM
Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:10 AM
Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:06 AM
Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:04 AM
hmmmmm
Huh? Huh?

All of a sudden u won become condomcandor

 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Grin
she is highly experienced
Posted: at 22-05-2009 11:52 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- shanique at 23-05-2009 05:22 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 22-05-2009 10:14 AM
Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:09 AM
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Roll Eyes Roll Eyes


Posted: at 23-05-2009 05:22 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osaomo at 23-05-2009 07:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 22-05-2009 11:52 AM
Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:16 AM
Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:10 AM
Quote from: osaomo on 22-05-2009 10:06 AM
Quote from: lovemar on 22-05-2009 10:04 AM
hmmmmm
Huh? Huh?

All of a sudden u won become condomcandor

 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Grin
she is highly experienced


 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 23-05-2009 07:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chrissiebee at 23-05-2009 07:37 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: JobPortng on 15-05-2009 01:15 PM
Sometimes circumstances are beyond your control. Here's how to refuse a date when you truly wish you could accept.

Step
1

Smile and make eye contact if the invitation is made in person.
Step
2

Communicate your complete attention if the request is made by phone. Consider saying something like 'Excuse me while I close the door' or 'I was hoping you'd call.'
Step
3

Express your thanks in whatever style is genuine and comfortable for you - a joke, a simple thanks, a great big 'Wow!'
Step
4

Communicate your regret at having to refuse, and explain why you need to decline the invitation.
Step
5

Suggest another specific day, or express your general wish to find another time that works for both of you. A straightforward 'I can't this time because I have to go to Chicago, but I would love to make it another time. How's next Friday?' has candor to recommend it.

Tips & Warnings
People look for acceptance, so be open and enthusiastic.

If you simply say that you can't make it, the person may interpret that as a brush-off. Always provide an explanation.

Be clear, candid and gracious.

Asking someone out can be difficult, so make it as easy as possible for the other person.




Posted: at 23-05-2009 07:37 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 23-05-2009 12:36 PM (14 years ago)
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hehehehe, see hot tea. Grin

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- olatata at 23-05-2009 12:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Do we realy need 2read all dis.
I bey make no 1 nor cum copy dictionary 4 us 1day

am wit my coke, lookin at all. Doe
Posted: at 23-05-2009 12:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- myragonza at 25-05-2009 07:56 AM (14 years ago)
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denying friend requests from AJ guys

Posted: at 25-05-2009 07:56 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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