I had a very strong reason to believe my gurl is cheating on me, coz when she visits, she never answers any calls. she would later switch off her phone and claim it did on its own. The more pronounced one is a number that reads 'sweet mother' which she never picks as well, according to her, "ma mum wld not be pleased if she hear noise in the background" 'i will rather call her back when we are home', she will say. believe me that chapter is closed for that day.
it so happened that she got terribly ill recently, and was admitted. the same 'sweet mother' called. i picked the phone hoping to inform her mother of her state, but to my greatest shock, i heard a white man that wld definitely be in his late 40s or early 50s speak, on hearing a male voice, he hung up. he later called thrice, of which he did same as he first did - hung up.
he then sent a text saying - 'im coming to lagos on saturday, dont expect a call'. that was friday night.
when she recovered, i enquired from her who it was that called, she told me if it's because of the bills i paid that is giving me rights over her i should make them available and she will re-pay me back.
i forgot to mention that the money i used to settle the hospital bills was supposed to clear part of fees, now im not in school.
wt do i do? i still love her.
u ain't seen nothing coz its seen u, n u ain't heard nuthin coz its heard u. dig dat sucka
Posted: at 21-05-2009 02:42 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
please love her for good; b happy cos u hve loved her. but that doesnt mean u r a fool. now that d mountain is on fire...i recommend u just ignore her b4 d fire burns u up. later on u ll say ladies r bla bla bla...your mama never raised u for to kiss any1's feet ooo.
Posted: at 21-05-2009 05:19 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
your so-called girl doesn't love you and one sided love does not worth panicking for; i'm afraid she doesn't plot against you in order to leave her for the white-man alone.
quit the relationship before it's too late.
Posted: at 21-05-2009 06:15 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 21-05-2009 06:56 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: daviespan on 21-05-2009 02:42 AM
Guys, i need your help on this.
I had a very strong reason to believe my gurl is cheating on me, coz when she visits, she never answers any calls. she would later switch off her phone and claim it did on its own. The more pronounced one is a number that reads 'sweet mother' which she never picks as well, according to her, "ma mum wld not be pleased if she hear noise in the background" 'i will rather call her back when we are home', she will say. believe me that chapter is closed for that day.
it so happened that she got terribly ill recently, and was admitted. the same 'sweet mother' called. i picked the phone hoping to inform her mother of her state, but to my greatest shock, i heard a white man that wld definitely be in his late 40s or early 50s speak, on hearing a male voice, he hung up. he later called thrice, of which he did same as he first did - hung up.
he then sent a text saying - 'im coming to lagos on saturday, dont expect a call'. that was friday night.
when she recovered, i enquired from her who it was that called, she told me if it's because of the bills i paid that is giving me rights over her i should make them available and she will re-pay me back.
i forgot to mention that the money i used to settle the hospital bills was supposed to clear part of fees, now im not in school.
Make sure she pays U ever penny U spent on her medical bills. If all U've said is true then it's clear she has no regard or respect for U.
I dont think dats wise; if u can afford it, 4get d refund... if she decides 2 pay back, then u can collect. But u'll retain ur respect if u dont ask 4 a refund.
Posted: at 21-05-2009 11:41 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Make sure she pays U ever penny U spent on her medical bills. If all U've said is true then it's clear she has no regard or respect for U.
I dont think dats wise; if u can afford it, 4get d refund... if she decides 2 pay back, then u can collect. But u'll retain ur respect if u dont ask 4 a refund.
The dude clearly has no respect with her. She's calling a bluff. best he surprise her and ask for it. I bet U she will be taken aback by that.
Posted: at 21-05-2009 01:39 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Rambukar at 25-05-2009 09:01 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Sincerely speaking, this is just one of the many cases of insincerity in relationships. The truth might also be that the lady in question may also have love for this guy but b/c the oyibo brings the bigger pay, she now tends to combine love on one side and money on the other. As a student, the poster may not have the financial ability to pay all her bills and this situation in most ladies leads to double dating. Many university ladies in naija are guilty of this offence, just to make up for the high cost of university education in naija.
@ poster, the choice is ur to make. Look back at the affair and decide what to do with. if you think the whole thing is no longer worth it then quit rather than remain in an affair that hurts u everyday
Posted: at 25-05-2009 09:01 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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