Help: I Have Had Séx With 5 Different Men Since I Got Married 3 Years Ago

Published 6 years ago by: Adeniyi Opemipo
at 07:47 PM, 30/06/2013 (6 years ago)

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I know my story will lead people to attack me but I will appreciate any help I can get.

I got married to my loving husband in April 2010. Although at first, I was not really in love with him, but because I was getting older, and I could not find any good man from my religion and tribe, my parents introduced me to him and pressured us into marriage.

The first time I had an affair, it was a mistake. I ran into my ex and we exchanged Blackberry pins. We chat all the time and at that point, I was not really happy in my marriage so I encouraged him. Soon after, we started to hang out and started sleéping together. He eventually moved from Lagos to Abuja so that ended our affair.

Since then, I have had a few flings with four more men including my friend's husband. I currently have two children with my husband but I feel unsatisfied.

My husband is very loving and kind, and I have grown to love him but I'm not able to stop this extra-marital affair. The sad thing is that my husband has no clue what is going on. I never give him any reason to suspect. I delete all my phone messages even though he does not even check my phones. I make sure I cover my tracks because I want to keep my family together.

Recently I talked to my Pastor who encouraged me to keep praying and fasting but this isn't helping because still keep my men outside and I still see them.

I know I need to stop, but I don't know how. Please Help.

Rachael.



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hosbert at 08:14 PM, 30/06/2013 (6 years ago)
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Go to Synagogue Church of All Nations for deliverance and salvation please
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nwogaraku at 08:25 PM, 30/06/2013 (6 years ago)
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''Poster!... Hello my sister, as you believe you cannot stop that mess you are into by yourself unless someone advice you to put an end into your lust life!. my faithful advice for you now is to grand atleast a half cup of Cotonue pepper, mix it well with atlese 50ml of kerosin, then rub it gently into your Virgina!. This patroitic idea of mine can be applicable for 3days just for a better result!.
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winace at 08:52 PM, 30/06/2013 (6 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmmm she need to be taken to rehab or somethg. Wat!!!
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winace at 08:55 PM, 30/06/2013 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: nwogaraku on 08:25 PM, 30/06/2013
''Poster!... Hello my sister, as you believe you cannot stop that mess you are into by yourself unless someone advice you to put an end into your lust life!. my faithful advice for you now is to grand atleast a half cup of Cotonue pepper, mix it well with atlese 50ml of kerosin, then rub it gently into your Virgina!. This patroitic idea of mine can be applicable for 3days just for a better result!.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
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jossy4reall at 09:40 PM, 30/06/2013 (6 years ago)
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nothing 4 u frm ma side

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Horpsy at 12:11 AM, 1/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Eeeyah,may God deliver u o.
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ivygal at 04:03 PM, 3/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Hmmmm...dangerous game poster! Dnt u think so? U might think u r covering ur tracks well bt one day is 4 d owner of d house.u remember d reason u got married cos u were getting old.dnt do sth u will regret to ur grave.caution urself cos if dis gets out u r doom! U will lose ur marriage,ur kids,d husband u said u v come to luv n respect ur family,frds n neighbors v 4 u. Think twice.
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ivygal at 04:05 PM, 3/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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I am nt judging u ooo,bt does it mean ur husband doesn't satisfy u or u feel lyk cheating on ur husband?.
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sophiebaby at 04:57 PM, 3/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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chai

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xena15 at 04:52 PM, 4/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Mtchewwww.
Continue.
U no nid advise.
Try listening to ur conscience for starters

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kebella at 10:13 PM, 5/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: nwogaraku on 08:25 PM, 30/06/2013
''Poster!... Hello my sister, as you believe you cannot stop that mess you are into by yourself unless someone advice you to put an end into your lust life!. my faithful advice for you now is to grand atleast a half cup of Cotonue pepper, mix it well with atlese 50ml of kerosin, then rub it gently into your Virgina!. This patroitic idea of mine can be applicable for 3days just for a better result!.
that was ouch!!  Lips Sealed Grin Grin Grin Grin

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etibaba at 09:29 PM, 7/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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U obviously dont want to stop.

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Shegzan at 06:19 AM, 9/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Oops!!

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Jude4Mario at 01:23 PM, 26/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Until we begin to visualize and conceptualize every bit of unrighteousness as an acid which should be avoided either for its destructive impact on the surface of human body or the torture and subsequent death it will cause if taken inside the human system then we will be able to flee from every form of unrighteousness and immorality especially pornography, masturbation, adultery, fornication, sugar-daddy/mummy, abortion, contraceptive use/sell/production/promotion, Lesbianism, homosexuality, bestiality (having sex with animals), drunkenness, indecent dressing, lust, lies, unforgiving spirit, anger, hatred, deceit, questionable silence in the face of evil which continue to hunt the peace of our world as well as heat up the punishment we will face sometime and somewhere bearing in mind that no sinner will go unpunished (Prov.11:21). Not just fulfilling the external request of every altar-call and attending sacrament of penance/reconciliation without honest resolutions and decisions on how to stop insulting the spirit of Grace dwelling within the soul.
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Toks-E at 07:00 PM, 26/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Oleku tell me something wey you no fit do?

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nzewyte at 05:02 PM, 28/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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Open confession to ur hobby....

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nzewyte at 05:03 PM, 28/07/2013 (6 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

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Hassymore at 10:26 AM, 19/01/2015 (4 years ago)
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sister my advice to you now is to be saying every second dat God is watching me for what I am doing now and is a sin n be asking for mercy every second of d day
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