Naijapals...Its Love A Choice ???

We were having this discussion the other night with a group of friends about whether or not falling in love is in fact a conscious choice we make....there were mixed opinions on this topic. I believe love IS a choice.….. For instance, someone whom holds both conscious and subconscious rejection of love cannot possibly fall in love, as love is not a tangible thing that forces itself upon you, but something that is self created when either the conscious or subconscious chooses to take affection in and manufacture it into a feeling called love.

I guess what I’m failing to grasp is when a relationship ends, and the love remains, is it our failure to control our conscious, or is it that love is stronger than any other sensation that it lingers with no control?

Take for instance our ability to control our sensation of hunger; anger and sadness are somewhat committed to be a conscious choice by which we have the entirety of control, however is love above these sensations? Or do we choose to believe that love is stronger than the mind?

Posted: at 18-06-2009 04:59 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Love is subconscious
why do u think people say is blind.
it literary controls you.

Posted: at 18-06-2009 05:05 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

Love is a choice cus u still have to make a decision when it comes to the nitty gritty.Do you like what u see? Have u got feelings for him/her.It's subconscious but our consciousness plays a great deal why don't we fall in love with dream girls or for instance or superstars? cus no matter how we love them or get infatuated it just can't come true.reality bites and sometimes love unreturned sucks. :'(

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Posted: at 18-06-2009 05:12 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

luvy luvy

Posted: at 18-06-2009 05:43 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Watching

Posted: at 18-06-2009 06:58 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if its meant to happen,thats possible....

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Posted: at 18-06-2009 07:08 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Odikwa egwu oooo

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Posted: at 18-06-2009 09:04 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero