Can a long distance relationship be spiced up? If yes, how? (Page 2)

Date: 07-08-2009 10:16 am (15 years ago) | Author: Gloria
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- diplomatik at 7-08-2009 03:26 PM (15 years ago)
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and u too
diplo .....bein diplomatik..cos indeed she is diplomatik...anywas dip it low diplo..waddup

i dey ooo...u just dey pass me up and down...like u no see me Angry...how u dey..long time... Cheesy  Cool
i couldnt hav diplo..its jus dat yu hav bin hvin fun lately..so i tot i shld jus let u b ..first

hmmm...what kind of excuse is that..huh?....anyways...what have u been up to.... Cheesy

Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:26 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- erikaakpan at 7-08-2009 03:29 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  7-08-2009 03:22 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  7-08-2009 01:17 PM
Creativity is key and also keep the faith. Yes, it's rough being apart, but harping on the negative can take a toll on the relationship. Instead of moaning that you never see each other, talk about the interesting things you've been doing and ask what he's up to.

Absence really does make the heart grow fonder!

Absence for how long? Too long (which is relative from person to person) and the relationship will surely come crashing like a comet out of the skies.

Most cases relationshps that didnt have an very good foundation will fail with distance over time. Even those with good foundations suffer damage and need lots of effort to repair if both parties are sensible enough to.

you are right but u have to think of it from the optimist side onche....i kno most people say it doesnt work, but im thinking of it from a positive view. distance can be a major issue but, there are still ways to work around it.....thats why u need to make sure u and your partner have good communication and are on the same page......

p. s. if distance is a problem....i have no problem "moving" to naija  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pepigambit at 7-08-2009 03:30 PM (15 years ago)
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i hav bin really up .... Wink...anyways i hva bin gud........lately...and hope u havnt bin down...... ;)lately
Quote from: diplomatik on  7-08-2009 03:26 PM
Quote from: pepigambit on  7-08-2009 03:24 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on  7-08-2009 03:20 PM
Quote from: pepigambit on  7-08-2009 03:19 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on  7-08-2009 03:11 PM
Quote from: pepigambit on  7-08-2009 03:10 PM
and u too
diplo .....bein diplomatik..cos indeed she is diplomatik...anywas dip it low diplo..waddup

i dey ooo...u just dey pass me up and down...like u no see me Angry...how u dey..long time... Cheesy  Cool
i couldnt hav diplo..its jus dat yu hav bin hvin fun lately..so i tot i shld jus let u b ..first

hmmm...what kind of excuse is that..huh?....anyways...what have u been up to.... Cheesy
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 7-08-2009 03:32 PM (15 years ago)
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lol...na..i'm kool... Cool

Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:32 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- eddybabs at 7-08-2009 03:33 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Gloriawhite on  7-08-2009 10:16 AM
Most times longterm relatnship doesn't end up well.  Why & What can b done to make it work
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get a working permit... that will make it work out...
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:33 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mushabc at 7-08-2009 04:06 PM (15 years ago)
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ask me again
Posted: at 7-08-2009 04:06 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pepigambit at 7-08-2009 04:21 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: SexyJuly on  7-08-2009 03:25 PM
Peeping.
pepi?
Posted: at 7-08-2009 04:21 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 7-08-2009 04:23 PM (15 years ago)
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Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
I DONNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Posted: at 7-08-2009 04:23 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 7-08-2009 04:24 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on  7-08-2009 03:29 PM
Quote from: onchedu on  7-08-2009 03:22 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  7-08-2009 01:17 PM
Creativity is key and also keep the faith. Yes, it's rough being apart, but harping on the negative can take a toll on the relationship. Instead of moaning that you never see each other, talk about the interesting things you've been doing and ask what he's up to.

Absence really does make the heart grow fonder!

Absence for how long? Too long (which is relative from person to person) and the relationship will surely come crashing like a comet out of the skies.

Most cases relationshps that didnt have an very good foundation will fail with distance over time. Even those with good foundations suffer damage and need lots of effort to repair if both parties are sensible enough to.

you are right but u have to think of it from the optimist side onche....i kno most people say it doesnt work, but im thinking of it from a positive view. distance can be a major issue but, there are still ways to work around it.....thats why u need to make sure u and your partner have good communication and are on the same page......

p. s. if distance is a problem....i have no problem "moving" to naija  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Grin Grin Grin

Oya Start moving o

Grin Grin Grin lol!

Ur right sha. I agree with u, but I no dey do distance and no be me I dey fear for.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 04:24 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 7-08-2009 04:32 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  7-08-2009 04:24 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  7-08-2009 03:29 PM
Quote from: onchedu on  7-08-2009 03:22 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  7-08-2009 01:17 PM
Creativity is key and also keep the faith. Yes, it's rough being apart, but harping on the negative can take a toll on the relationship. Instead of moaning that you never see each other, talk about the interesting things you've been doing and ask what he's up to.

Absence really does make the heart grow fonder!

Absence for how long? Too long (which is relative from person to person) and the relationship will surely come crashing like a comet out of the skies.

Most cases relationshps that didnt have an very good foundation will fail with distance over time. Even those with good foundations suffer damage and need lots of effort to repair if both parties are sensible enough to.

you are right but u have to think of it from the optimist side onche....i kno most people say it doesnt work, but im thinking of it from a positive view. distance can be a major issue but, there are still ways to work around it.....thats why u need to make sure u and your partner have good communication and are on the same page......

p. s. if distance is a problem....i have no problem "moving" to naija  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Grin Grin Grin

Oya Start moving o

Grin Grin Grin lol!

Ur right sha. I agree with u, but I no dey do distance and no be me I dey fear for.

lol ONCHEDU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u kno i will cum come ooo!!!!! dnt tempt me!!!!

Posted: at 7-08-2009 04:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 7-08-2009 05:04 PM (15 years ago)
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Tempt? Nah.. not my intention. Just try hard to not get tempted ayt? Are U feeling tempted already? Bring Ur husband along ayt. Grin
Posted: at 7-08-2009 05:04 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 7-08-2009 05:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Gloriawhite on  7-08-2009 10:16 AM
Most times longterm relatnship doesn't end up well.  Why & What can b done to make it work
not a technical fault to be fixed....purely human emotions at work...
Posted: at 7-08-2009 05:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 7-08-2009 05:09 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  7-08-2009 05:04 PM
Tempt? Nah.. not my intention. Just try hard to not get tempted ayt? Are U feeling tempted already? Bring Ur husband along ayt. Grin

hahahaha ONCHE! i might bring him so we all can meet for the introduction Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 7-08-2009 05:09 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SexyJuly at 7-08-2009 05:12 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: pepigambit on  7-08-2009 04:21 PM
Quote from: SexyJuly on  7-08-2009 03:25 PM
Peeping.
pepi?


Are u calling me pepsi? Angry
Posted: at 7-08-2009 05:12 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 7-08-2009 05:13 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  7-08-2009 05:04 PM
Tempt? Nah.. not my intention. Just try hard to not get tempted ayt? Are U feeling tempted already? Bring Ur husband along ayt. Grin
wot do u plan to do...? Shocked
Posted: at 7-08-2009 05:13 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 7-08-2009 05:19 PM (15 years ago)
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Snatch him of course!
Posted: at 7-08-2009 05:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- uffiade at 30-08-2009 01:01 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Gloriawhite on  7-08-2009 10:16 AM
Most times longterm relatnship doesn't end up well.  Why & What can b done to make it work
no, sorry i wanted to write NO. a relationship only works n blossoms when both r close n personal, the very moment  a gap as big as an inch separates the two or at worst when they avnt even met, its all fantasies n illusions. the best relationship is seeing your partner at all times n getting to live with each others weaknesses or shortcomings.
Posted: at 30-08-2009 01:01 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- akjasper at 30-08-2009 02:31 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Gloriawhite on  7-08-2009 10:16 AM
Most times longterm relatnship doesn't end up well.  Why & What can b done to make it work

In most cases long distance r/s never work out well.....
Bt been faithful and trustin each other might make it work ..
as 4 me i dnt support long watever period!
Posted: at 30-08-2009 02:31 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 31-08-2009 08:28 AM (15 years ago)
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i think is really a problem, from what Erika said that if their communications flows there may not be much problem, but ones one of them hardly or feels reluctant abt their communications that's where the big problem starts, making it difficult to trust, feeling of unsecure, uncare for, n follow by loosing of interest. this way is hard....: but if both r in d same realm it may work out
Posted: at 31-08-2009 08:28 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- uffiade at 18-01-2010 12:53 AM (15 years ago)
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VERY WELL YES, IT HAPPENED TO ME AND IT WORKED CORRECTLY BUT IT WAS ALL BASED ON DIVINE INTERVENTION.
WE MET THROUGH A VERY GOOD FRIEND OF MINE AND HERS ON THE PHONE, GOT TO KNOW EACH OTHER AS TIME WENT BY. WE SHARED EVERY MOMENT ON THE PHONE LIKE OLD FRIENDS, THINGS WE TALKED ABOUT WERE SO SIMILAR THAT WE THOUGHT LIFE COULD NOT BE SWEETER THAN THIS AND WE BELIEVED IN EACH OTHER, THERE WAS NOT A SINGLE MOMENT OF DOUBT. WE PRAYED FOR EACH OTHER AND SHE WENT VERY CLOSE TO MY PARENTS. AFTER 6 MONTHS, WE MET AND THE REST WAS CHEMISTRY, BIOLOGY, PHILOSOPHY, PSYCHOLOGY, AND BLISS.
IT HAPPENED TO US BECAUSE WE BELIEVED IN BETTER, ITS NOT ALL ABOUT SEEING IS BELIEVING BUT BELIEVE IN THE UNSEEN. THOSE WHO WAIT, RECIEVE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE.
Posted: at 18-01-2010 12:53 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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