Have you been cheated in a relationship before?

Date: 06-09-2009 12:35 am (15 years ago) | Author: Kazeem Kadri
- at 6-09-2009 12:35 AM (15 years ago)
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Tell me more about it....Did you cry? went mad? sick? fight? or what? I have something to jist you all about my experience. I was cheated by a course mate in the skool. we started the relationship in a truthful way....not more than 2 months, i heard rumors that she is dating a lecturer....i dont believe in rumors that is one thing about me....But there was this day she walk up to me and said KAYZI i am forced to date a lecturer and if you dont quit me now...you might lose your education in this skool......You want to know how i feel? I am a man...very strong man with hard minds and feelings. I didnt cry...I wept tears.....I was sad for not too long but for a month......I was scared of talking to ladies in the campus.....Still i am very single and i need advice from you....can i still find another lady to love again?Huh?

Posted: at 6-09-2009 12:35 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- Kennee at 6-09-2009 12:37 AM (15 years ago)
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Women still Plenty for yu, no Shaking

Posted: at 6-09-2009 12:37 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- erikaakpan at 6-09-2009 12:49 AM (15 years ago)
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of course u can find another lady. dnt let this experience bring you down.

Posted: at 6-09-2009 12:49 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ktalent at 6-09-2009 10:33 AM (15 years ago)
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pfft...poster, other ppl have been thru worse.


Wen u're ready to move on, den move on. If not, den don't. If u want tha real thing, den take it slow.

Posted: at 6-09-2009 10:33 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- MrDon at 6-09-2009 12:43 PM (15 years ago)
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then u re not strong as u think, since litle can prevent u frm moving 4wad
Posted: at 6-09-2009 12:43 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 01:21 PM (15 years ago)
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Yes I have. I cried like everyone I cared for in life had died. I cried for months, fell sick got in a fight that wasnt called for; almost went mad (not really... More like I was stoned like in a phantom zone or something). Was a nasty experience ant thru it all al I wanted was to have her back (can U imagine). Well t'was the worst experence of my life I guess... At the end of the day (more like a year) I chose to move on taking it all as one more of life's lessons I probably had to have learnt to become a better person.
If my enemy was going thru what I went thru I'd call a truce to be a shoulder for him to cry on and when he gets over it we can fight again.
Posted: at 6-09-2009 01:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- brightossy at 6-09-2009 02:23 PM (15 years ago)
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@ poster just move on, heartbreak is inevitable.
Posted: at 6-09-2009 02:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 6-09-2009 02:38 PM (15 years ago)
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of course u can still find a lady
just don't get the ones that will be to insecure and start dating a lecturer
Posted: at 6-09-2009 02:38 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 02:40 PM (15 years ago)
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Yep! They are inevitable... Come in varrying degrees of hurt too. Don't worry U probably have or will break someone elses heart too. Not like it's a good thing but it makes U see Ur not any diff from her.
Posted: at 6-09-2009 02:40 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- brightossy at 6-09-2009 03:24 PM (15 years ago)
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@poster, u can stil find fmale lecturer and date 2 balance d equation.
Posted: at 6-09-2009 03:24 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- welli at 6-09-2009 03:25 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  6-09-2009 02:40 PM
Yep! They are inevitable... Come in varrying degrees of hurt too. Don't worry U probably have or will break someone elses heart too. Not like it's a good thing but it makes U see Ur not any diff from her.
As a realist, I couldn't just overlook the truth in this realistic statement. Cheesy
True!!

Posted: at 6-09-2009 03:25 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 6-09-2009 03:42 PM (15 years ago)
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WELLI LOL
Posted: at 6-09-2009 03:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 05:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on  6-09-2009 03:25 PM
Quote from: onchedu on  6-09-2009 02:40 PM
Yep! They are inevitable... Come in varrying degrees of hurt too. Don't worry U probably have or will break someone elses heart too. Not like it's a good thing but it makes U see Ur not any diff from her.
As a realist, I couldn't just overlook the truth in this realistic statement. Cheesy
True!!

Wink
Posted: at 6-09-2009 05:02 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 6-09-2009 08:12 PM (15 years ago)
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Bro, put lt all behind you and move forward. On and on we go! No looking back or stopping by to pick up something that we left behind. The past  remains the past. Good luck sha!!

Posted: at 6-09-2009 08:12 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- godferyluvs at 6-09-2009 08:19 PM (15 years ago)
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yes
Posted: at 6-09-2009 08:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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