Marriage with little resources! (Page 4)

Date: 12-09-2009 7:43 am (14 years ago) | Author: kunle Questa
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- SexyJuly at 14-09-2009 04:38 PM (14 years ago)
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He's just trying to intimidate us here.
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- erikaakpan at 14-09-2009 04:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: questa on 12-09-2009 07:43 AM
I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:

Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!

lots of ppl go into marriage with little resources......if they work together, the both of them can have something big...u can just go into a marriage and think everything is gonna br peachy and cream. u have to start where u are, use wat u got, and do the best u can

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- around_d_corner at 14-09-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 14-09-2009 04:41 PM
Quote from: questa on 12-09-2009 07:43 AM
I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:

Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!

lots of ppl go into marriage with little resources......if they work together, the both of them can have something big...u can just go into a marriage and think everything is gonna br peachy and cream. u have to start where u are, use wat u got, and do the best u can
hey  sup where ve u been......
Posted: at 14-09-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 14-09-2009 04:50 PM (14 years ago)
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ive been around. Grin
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- erikaakpan at 14-09-2009 04:54 PM (14 years ago)
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hey ADC ive had a busy weekend.....but i back o! u missed me? Cheesy

Posted: at 14-09-2009 04:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SexyJuly at 14-09-2009 04:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Yep! missed u!! Grin
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- around_d_corner at 14-09-2009 04:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 14-09-2009 04:54 PM
hey ADC ive had a busy weekend.....but i back o! u missed me? Cheesy
sure i did badlyyyyyyyyyy....but thank God sj was in to gimme a little lite.... anyway thank God u are backk...
Posted: at 14-09-2009 04:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 14-09-2009 05:00 PM (14 years ago)
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i missed u too SJ

Posted: at 14-09-2009 05:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SexyJuly at 14-09-2009 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 14-09-2009 05:00 PM
i missed u too SJ


Exactly what i wanted to hear. Now im happyyyyyyyyyyyy! Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 14-09-2009 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ezecyyyy at 14-09-2009 07:05 PM (14 years ago)
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two is better than one with or without,it is not a must that all men must be rich or have enough,maybe the full resource u need may come from your wife, so instead of u to loose the two brother hold one and start looking 4 the order, even life begins @ 60
Posted: at 14-09-2009 07:05 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Slicksilvers at 14-09-2009 07:54 PM (14 years ago)
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lol
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- touchingminds at 14-09-2009 08:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Marriage with little resources!

I have watched in amazement on how families carry on the daily cares of the family without a glimpse of triumph of hope over experience.We all have had a good shear of what harm  little resources could do in a family.Marriage is not all about love but a combination of unified processes  that makes life worth living.

Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are and the timing of one"s dreams.There two ways to this topic.........you can choose to marry with the hope of better tomorow or you can  keep challenging your situation until you are capable of going to marraige confidently.

All i can say is that it depends on personality and If you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you. You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call "failure" is not the falling down, but the staying down.
Posted: at 14-09-2009 08:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 14-09-2009 11:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:46 PM
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Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:41 PM
Quote from: questa on 14-09-2009 10:21 AM
I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they?

Not me!

how sure are u



Talking about myself here not someone else, Remember?!

Yeah, yu're talkin Financially here, but l suspect yu're demanding in other aspects... It shows

Posted: at 14-09-2009 11:28 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 15-09-2009 12:39 AM (14 years ago)
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just passing
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- Mbavhalelo at 15-09-2009 07:23 AM (14 years ago)
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Haai you dont need a brain only...
Posted: at 15-09-2009 07:23 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- questa at 15-09-2009 08:16 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Mbavhalelo on 15-09-2009 07:23 AM
Haai you dont need a brain only...
What else bud?
Posted: at 15-09-2009 08:16 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- A-Maity at 15-09-2009 03:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Talking about marriage and resources ..there r many things involved.. not having much cash has levels.. at least, the guy should hav an appartment, know he want to get another responsibility on himself, therefore know the level of his pocket and he knows he has a manageable income stream, if not ..na garri u go drink after wedding xcept God bless u.
Posted: at 15-09-2009 03:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- SexyJuly at 15-09-2009 03:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 14-09-2009 11:28 PM
Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:46 PM
Quote from: simele on 14-09-2009 02:43 PM
Quote from: SexyJuly on 14-09-2009 02:41 PM
Quote from: questa on 14-09-2009 10:21 AM
I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they?

Not me!

how sure are u



Talking about myself here not someone else, Remember?!

Yeah, yu're talkin Financially here, but l suspect yu're demanding in other aspects... It shows



  Shocked Shocked  Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 15-09-2009 03:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 16-09-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago)
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Marrying with a little resource...

Posted: at 16-09-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shaniya at 16-09-2009 01:48 PM (14 years ago)
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as they said, it is good for both(guy & the lady) to start sometin 2geda frm d beginning.but cum 2 tink of it,if ure not able 2 cater 4 ur family ''children'' dey will end up doin wat is not rite.as ibobobelvis said our parent made d same mistake and we d children are payin for it seriously.so my dear fink twice b4 u make ur decision.i believe u knw wat is best for u.
Posted: at 16-09-2009 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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