These days some women no longer agree that a man can have more than one wife but a woman can’t be with more than a man. The craze of civilization has caught up with many! Hear the story from the married woman:
I caught my husband cheating and instead of covering up, he straight up told me that he was tired of my body and everything else about me. He told me that yes, he loves me and always will, but that I was old, fat and basically worn out, lol. No lie!
The lol is not because I find it funny just unbelievable! I married him when I was 24 and now at 41 I am worn out? Worn out from giving him children and taking care of him for 17 years?
Well, I accepted that and with grace I asked him for a divorce but he’s insisting on staying married but says he can’t be faithful, that he would rather be sincere with me than lie…
Well, I’m thinking I should stay married like most women in Lagos who are tired of their marriages are doing but do same thing that my husband is doing; that is find a man who doesn’t find my 41 year old body so worn out and make him my lover. He can’t be having all the fun, can he? Please help or what do you think?
Common sense is indeed not common.
Posted: at 18-06-2014 11:16 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
Johnosky at 18-06-2014 01:16 PM (10 years ago) (f)
Mammy, don't retaliate! Cos at the end of the day u may become the loser. Remember that there's a high rate of HIV in our society today. Beware! Rather, pray to God to touch ur hubby's heart for u and try meet people of high religious standard to talk to him, if possible ur pastor. Thank u.
Posted: at 18-06-2014 01:16 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
viddycool at 18-06-2014 02:25 PM (10 years ago) (f)
That is family affair but a virtuous woman will take everything to God in prayer and also try to meet up the needs of her husband (PHYSICALLY) just because of the children. the devil is @work don't let him win the battle
Posted: at 18-06-2014 02:25 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
Like u having not being doing..wants to use this opportunity to make it open...if u have not being doing it ..u wouldn't have know that the rest women are doing it..stay in their marriage and flirting with other men..... Like what the above commentators have stated...commit your hubby in the hands of God oh....
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 20-06-2014 05:19 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
odprince at 20-06-2014 10:28 PM (10 years ago) (m)
i can't stop laughing..what was that in her lips?was it an earring?the woman who put earrings on her lips is already ashawo,why don't the husband reject her??no man will ever reject a responsible woman,it is only an irresponsible woman can be rejected..if what you claims are true,which can't be,then amend your ways and doings and commit everything to God in prayers...but the woman look irresponsibly on the pics
Posted: at 20-06-2014 10:28 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
johnaguinam at 20-06-2014 11:03 PM (10 years ago) (m)
if ur d one pictured above den u r a very beautiful woman n it will only take a foolish man not to realize dat..flirting will only make matters worse n a very bad impact on ur kids..tok to him if he still refuses go to court weda he likes it or not d marriage will b disolved
Posted: at 20-06-2014 11:03 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
chylind5 at 21-06-2014 09:02 AM (10 years ago) (f)
Divorce the stupid man asap. He will be enjoying himself outside while leaving you to your fate. Don't cheat on him, Mk sure you guys a formally divorced then get your self a lover who will love ❤ and respect you. He's a stupid man. Why won't he register you in a Jim center to get your body into shape. Rubbish!!!
Posted: at 21-06-2014 09:02 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac