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Quote from: Buddyflex on 3-07-2008 05:33 PM The best, safest and biblically right place for sex is in marriage. That’s due to the level of commitment, understanding, appreciation and sacrifice expected between a couple, other wise you are on your own, its all about you and what you want to get out of the sex like fame, money, skills etc, some even use it to hook other people. Quote from: Buddyflex on 3-07-2008 05:33 PM The best, safest and biblically right place for sex is in marriage. That’s due to the level of commitment, understanding, appreciation and sacrifice expected between a couple, other wise you are on your own, its all about you and what you want to get out of the sex like fame, money, skills etc, some even use it to hook other people. Thats true(biblically)... But even with marriage can have its negativity as well. There are ppl out there who gets married just for the purpose of sex...to say they're married and not doing anything wrong. Whether married or in a relationship with someone. The important thing is that it is done with emotions and feelings and with one person u truly love and care about..what about those that are married but having affairs outside of the marriage?...obviously its all about the thrills and game with them. Maybe their husbands/wife ain't doing some things right..and instead of talking to them about it..they'd rather go elsewhere to get the enjoyment and experience things they're not getting at home. @toebee.. ![]() ![]() ![]() @diran...yea thats true..but getting them balanced psychologically may not work because they'll still go out and do what they want. thats why i kept saying to to teach them about protection. We are all individuals and think with our own minds no matter what anyone does or says. Kids today likes to do the opposites of what is said..say no and they'll do it. So if you're trying to get them right about sex...they will only go out and try it..A meaningful and monogamous relationship doesn't only exist among the elders...some young kids have the levels of maturity to engage and knows about seriousness of relationships. (i'm not talking about underage kids)..true enough playas are out there and will fool them. But if they have the right information about sex..then they won't make the wrong mistake. Just like your topic said...it is the most talked about and will remain..some will listen and some will not. But the most importantly is having the knowledge.
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(@ toebee)Thank you 4 calling me a pastor though am not even close to being one, better to be called that than a sex perv. And you my friend, i think have no original thot pattern on this issue. As one of my teachers would say " LEAD, FOLLOW, OR JUST GET OFF THE WAY". Reply![]() (@nigerianvixen26) You surely are on your way to being the next famous doc 'cos it shows with ur thots that you've got a bright head on your shoulders. Your views are quite true but even in teaching protection, self control is very important, which in every situation that you've raised is the major thing that can help; good relationship, great marriage and generally a great life.
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it's cos dem no get any other things to talk bout. Reply
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Quote from: toebee on 3-07-2008 05:16 PM whosoever that is on this community and says he/she doesnt like sex....should be banished shikena...i can't shout!! banished to where
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Quote from: diran1475 on 2-07-2008 08:06 PM ![]() Just wondering you know.
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Quote from: Cdiva on 3-07-2008 07:35 AM most young ppl love sex you love sex lol!
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Quote from: onyin on 4-07-2008 12:52 PM Quote from: diran1475 on 2-07-2008 08:06 PM ![]() Just wondering you know. And what can you teach me lil' girl? Just shhh..!!! when profs. are in session and go teach your kindergarten kids ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Quote from: diran1475 on 2-07-2008 08:06 PM ![]() Just wondering you know.
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Quote from: fjoeaug on 4-07-2008 07:06 PM Quote from: diran1475 on 2-07-2008 08:06 PM ![]() Just wondering you know. But are we getting the right info from our peers?
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I rili dont know... but isnt it obvious... the whole world is filled wit it, its like marketed so its not ppl's fault. But it cld b vexn shaa. Reply![]()
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Quote from: diran1475 on 4-07-2008 01:27 PM Quote from: onyin on 4-07-2008 12:52 PM Quote from: diran1475 on 2-07-2008 08:06 PM ![]() Just wondering you know. And what can you teach me lil' girl? Just shhh..!!! when profs. are in session and go teach your kindergarten kids ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Quote from: onyin on 5-07-2008 03:40 PM Quote from: diran1475 on 4-07-2008 01:27 PM Quote from: onyin on 4-07-2008 12:52 PM Quote from: diran1475 on 2-07-2008 08:06 PM ![]() Just wondering you know. And what can you teach me lil' girl? Just shhh..!!! when profs. are in session and go teach your kindergarten kids ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 'cos i know its a joke read btw the emoticons. Sorry to add;saw ur post on playerz, just want u to know that if you've ever been hurt by one its o.k, keep ur head up cos the right one is on the way.
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thx.lol Reply
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lol..this topic done turned into something else..hehe Reply![]() ![]()
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lol. Reply
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Cuz its fun talking abt it......don't tell me u ain't enjoying it? Reply
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dont mind him,he loves it.lol Reply
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Everyone does..but b very careful though. Reply
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hello people, the reason i blv people are talking about sex is that we are in the age group too. i wonder about it too when all we think about these days is sex.but i found out that i ve come to that stage in life to really something in oder.that is where sex comes in Reply
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