Pain of a couple living in the family house.

This is the experience of a friend of mine who got married 3-4years ago, living in the family house which is been like hell for her.

Its a large family where her husband's sibblings (4men and 2 ladies), including cousins, aunts, uncles stay with their respective wives, in the same family house.

She never enjoys privacy. Her husband has not been working neither do the sibblings.(last boy and girl arent married yet).

They all depend on their father's wealth (money realised from land sale, house rent dues and agents & agreement) to survive.
The father made a statement which shows he has no will and is not ready to prepare any, & worst of it all, he does not really trust his children.
Life has been so frustrating for her.

Her husband's sister and 2 female cousins(each with 2 kids) have since left their marital homes and back to the family house causing troubles.

(sweeping, cooking, fuelling of Gen is done turn by turn in the house). Her friends are restricted from visiting except for neigbor friends.
she faith dwindles amd wonders what the future looks like for her family.

She realise that the day the father (almost 70yrs) dies, there is going to be catastrophe. None of them have anything of their own.
she is tired of family house life. What would you advise her to do?

In my opinion, large family house is not the best for young couples.
My friend is automatically entangled because she cant live the house.

Posted: at 11-12-2014 05:13 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

@ Sikilojaj, Truly speaking they are yoruba

Posted: at 11-12-2014 05:41 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Am speechless.

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Posted: at 19-12-2014 12:06 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

we know d tribe dem..lol

Posted: at 19-12-2014 01:04 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

none of my business

Posted: at 19-12-2014 01:51 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

wat if dem no get money to rent? Where else should de stay?

Posted: at 19-12-2014 02:12 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Look before you leap.....in other words, Why did she marry him when she didn't see prospects of him being a man for himself??

Posted: at 19-12-2014 03:13 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

U̶̲̥̅̊ are mentally sick for saying. That : U̶̲̥̅̊ this victim of baby factory : I don't blame U̶̲̥̅̊,  becos U̶̲̥̅̊ came from a wasted generations .  U̶̲̥̅̊ and generations will be forever be wasted !

Animal clothed with human skin :  U̶̲̥̅̊ are a  maggot: 

U̶̲̥̅̊ shall be like a snake that climb the rock without any traces :

U̶̲̥̅̊ this bastard fellow : A̶̲̥̅♏ very sure ur tinking faculties is nt working and die ⌣̊┈̥-̶̶̯̥͡·̵̭̌✽̤̈♥̤̣̈off⌣̊┈̥-̶̶̯̥͡·̵̭̌✽̈ ,⌣̊┈̥-̶̶̯͡ totally : 


Onye nzuzu
Nse si akparalala ;

Posted: at 19-12-2014 04:03 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 19-12-2014 05:17 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

If I were U, I will move out of the house. period. to with a man that waits for his fathers properties

Posted: at 19-12-2014 07:51 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming