Her mother is BIG trouble

Date: 17-12-2009 10:05 am (15 years ago) | Author: shola adewale
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I have this girl that i love very much and i would love to have as my wife, but the problem now is her mother. Her mother is a materialistic in her thinking, she believes as a son in-law to be i should be giving her money or buying her things, she hasnt really said this directly but she has been saying it stylishly. I really love this girl but i dont want to go into wedLOCK, i still have a little time because i am a graduate, i have a job and she is still in school but i dont want to waste that little time, my people i am confused. Sad Undecided Undecided Angry Sad

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- oyez at 17-12-2009 11:19 AM (15 years ago)
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do u want her mother out of ur way? I know one baba like that, he can help..but it comes with a price

Posted: at 17-12-2009 11:19 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- theodora12 at 17-12-2009 12:11 PM (15 years ago)
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Oyez so U be jaz man.
Posted: at 17-12-2009 12:11 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- dirtykid at 17-12-2009 12:31 PM (15 years ago)
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haha... Oyez the thing never reach like that ooo Wink

Posted: at 17-12-2009 12:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- shurlermozx at 17-12-2009 03:03 PM (15 years ago)
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@Oyez i didnt say i want to marry the girl by force, i can not marry by consideration, everything should be atleast 90% ok.
Posted: at 17-12-2009 03:03 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- mazi at 17-12-2009 03:07 PM (15 years ago)
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dnt tell me she is in secondary school, plz
Posted: at 17-12-2009 03:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 17-12-2009 03:09 PM (15 years ago)
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Thats what it looks like.. probably JSS level

Posted: at 17-12-2009 03:09 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 17-12-2009 04:13 PM (15 years ago)
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go kill ha motha then.....
Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:13 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 17-12-2009 04:20 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: shurlermozx on 17-12-2009 10:05 AM
I have this girl that i love very much and i would love to have as my wife, but the problem now is her mother. Her mother is a materialistic in her thinking, she believes as a son in-law to be i should be giving her money or buying her things, she hasnt really said this directly but she has been saying it stylishly. I really love this girl but i dont want to go into wedLOCK, i still have a little time because i am a graduate, i have a job and she is still in school but i dont want to waste that little time, my people i am confused. Sad Undecided Undecided Angry Sad

well, its a double edge issue sha
but, u shld advice her dad to talk to the mum..if u guyz ar really serz on gettin married sha

Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:20 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 17-12-2009 04:25 PM (15 years ago)
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u aint goin to marry the mom. as a son-in-law, u will b givin her watever, but your marriage is your ist priority. u heard?
Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:25 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 17-12-2009 04:27 PM (15 years ago)
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anything that enter mothers stuff is a wrong show . so he beta try 4get.............
Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:27 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- OB3ICE at 17-12-2009 04:37 PM (15 years ago)
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You're not even prepared to get married at the moment, and you're bothered about the mum. Whenever you two are ready, she cant stop you. Be bothered about the girl, cos she might easily change.

Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- teeco at 17-12-2009 04:44 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: oyez on 17-12-2009 11:19 AM
do u want her mother out of ur way? I know one baba like that, he can help..but it comes with a price

 Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:44 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- macgreat at 17-12-2009 04:50 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: OB3ICE on 17-12-2009 04:37 PM
You're not even prepared to get married at the moment, and you're bothered about the mum. Whenever you two are ready, she cant stop you. Be bothered about the girl, cos she might easily change.


Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- brightossy at 17-12-2009 04:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Bribe d mum
Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:59 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- teeco at 17-12-2009 05:03 PM (15 years ago)
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Simple

Posted: at 17-12-2009 05:03 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shurlermozx at 17-12-2009 05:39 PM (15 years ago)
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you guys are nt helpin me o, different funny advice ar just popping.
@ob3ice in 1 year or 2 i would be ready, and she is ready as of now, but her mother is making it look as if she is doing me a big favour by letting me date her child, if i continue like this i am afraid it would get worse later, and its nt as if she is not ok financially.
Posted: at 17-12-2009 05:39 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- teeco at 17-12-2009 05:42 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: shurlermozx on 17-12-2009 05:39 PM
you guys are nt helpin me o, different funny advice ar just popping.
@ob3ice in 1 year or 2 i would be ready, and she is ready as of now, but her mother is making it look as if she is doing me a big favour by letting me date her child, if i continue like this i am afraid it would get worse later, and its nt as if she is not ok financially.

Bros the best thing is to show the Woman Money Grin

Posted: at 17-12-2009 05:42 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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