This young couples met in xiamen(china) in one university..they both student...the guy is muslim came from conservative muslim clan..the girl is catholic came from religious clan...they fall in love to each other. they even have sex...one day the girl become pregnant...they decided to get secret marraige...but the family of that girl found out that she is pregnant...her dad asking to meet the dad of the guy. she introduced him to her family and the catholic family accepted the guy without knowing the guy is muslim.
time comes the guy introduced her to his family but the family of the guy dont like her because of religion....
now the lovers facing problem about thier religion.........
if you were the guy / girl what will you do
do religion must stop this pure love ?
take note : they love each other so much and already married in civil wedding.
share your view my pals.
Posted: at 24-02-2010 12:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 24-02-2010 12:53 PM (15 years ago) (f)
just continue with the civil marriage...unless someone compromise to convert to one of the religon....
I don't know how people think sometimes. Is religion a family affair or a personal thing? We will each man stand before God alone. Ur family won't be there to defend or deny U or the choices U make in Ur walk with God or Ur refusal to walk with Him.
So the guy and the girl met themselves and lets assume they CHOOSE to and forget their religious beliefs & doctrines on relationships with people serving other gods and doing so they have come right back to the decision they could have taken in the first place, only this time things are complicated cos another life is involved and some bonding has taken place.
Why people choose to complicate things amuses me sometimes.
They've made their bed, let them lie on it.
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:01 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 24-02-2010 01:03 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 24-02-2010 01:01 PM
I don't know how people think sometimes. Is religion a family affair or a personal thing? We will each man stand before God alone. Ur family won't be there to defend or deny U or the choices U make in Ur walk with God or Ur refusal to walk with Him.
So the guy and the girl met themselves and lets assume they CHOOSE to and forget their religious beliefs & doctrines on relationships with people serving other gods and doing so they have come right back to the decision they could have taken in the first place, only this time things are complicated cos another life is involved and some bonding has taken place.
Why people choose to complicate things amuses me sometimes.
They've made their bed, let them lie on it.
precisely!!!coz if they know they gonna face this problem,they shouldn't hae continued till the gal got pregnant....
vivian07 at 24-02-2010 01:06 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 24-02-2010 01:01 PM
I don't know how people think sometimes. Is religion a family affair or a personal thing? We will each man stand before God alone. Ur family won't be there to defend or deny U or the choices U make in Ur walk with God or Ur refusal to walk with Him.
So the guy and the girl met themselves and lets assume they CHOOSE to and forget their religious beliefs & doctrines on relationships with people serving other gods and doing so they have come right back to the decision they could have taken in the first place, only this time things are complicated cos another life is involved and some bonding has taken place.
Why people choose to complicate things amuses me sometimes.
They've made their bed, let them lie on it.
as u said, each man will stand b4 God alone....i dont think religion shld determine who we marry or who we choose not to ... so wats the complications ?
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:06 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
ebony_cutie at 24-02-2010 01:09 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Too bad but they saw it coming anyway, what were they expecting from their families? well they have made their choice and have to go on anyway with the wedding if thats wot their really want
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:09 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 24-02-2010 01:09 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: vivian07 on 24-02-2010 01:06 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 24-02-2010 01:01 PM
I don't know how people think sometimes. Is religion a family affair or a personal thing? We will each man stand before God alone. Ur family won't be there to defend or deny U or the choices U make in Ur walk with God or Ur refusal to walk with Him.
So the guy and the girl met themselves and lets assume they CHOOSE to and forget their religious beliefs & doctrines on relationships with people serving other gods and doing so they have come right back to the decision they could have taken in the first place, only this time things are complicated cos another life is involved and some bonding has taken place.
Why people choose to complicate things amuses me sometimes.
They've made their bed, let them lie on it.
as u said, each man will stand b4 God alone....i dont think religion shld determine who we marry or who we choose not to ... so wats the complications ?
Starlette at 24-02-2010 01:17 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Sum pple just like wahala 4 demself. Wen dey no their religion won't permit it y did dey continue in it, or didn't dey no dat @ 1st. Now dey re both facing problems 4rm their parent. God help dem.
De shining star
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:17 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
vivian07 at 24-02-2010 01:44 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 01:09 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on 24-02-2010 01:06 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 24-02-2010 01:01 PM
I don't know how people think sometimes. Is religion a family affair or a personal thing? We will each man stand before God alone. Ur family won't be there to defend or deny U or the choices U make in Ur walk with God or Ur refusal to walk with Him.
So the guy and the girl met themselves and lets assume they CHOOSE to and forget their religious beliefs & doctrines on relationships with people serving other gods and doing so they have come right back to the decision they could have taken in the first place, only this time things are complicated cos another life is involved and some bonding has taken place.
Why people choose to complicate things amuses me sometimes.
They've made their bed, let them lie on it.
as u said, each man will stand b4 God alone....i dont think religion shld determine who we marry or who we choose not to ... so wats the complications ?
they can both choose the Oracle abi...?
i guess thats the best choice cos the both parties, are members.
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:44 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 24-02-2010 01:46 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: vivian07 on 24-02-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 01:09 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on 24-02-2010 01:06 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 24-02-2010 01:01 PM
I don't know how people think sometimes. Is religion a family affair or a personal thing? We will each man stand before God alone. Ur family won't be there to defend or deny U or the choices U make in Ur walk with God or Ur refusal to walk with Him.
So the guy and the girl met themselves and lets assume they CHOOSE to and forget their religious beliefs & doctrines on relationships with people serving other gods and doing so they have come right back to the decision they could have taken in the first place, only this time things are complicated cos another life is involved and some bonding has taken place.
Why people choose to complicate things amuses me sometimes.
They've made their bed, let them lie on it.
as u said, each man will stand b4 God alone....i dont think religion shld determine who we marry or who we choose not to ... so wats the complications ?
they can both choose the Oracle abi...?
i guess thats the best choice cos the both parties, are members.
both of the were to be blamed , firstly why must the girl lying to her parent about his religious ? and the boy,s parent too were such an ignorant , care should be taking othe wise they will ruin their life at an early stage
Posted: at 25-02-2010 09:41 AM (15 years ago) | Grande Master
Too bad but they saw it coming anyway, what were they expecting from their families? well they have made their choice and have to go on anyway with the wedding if thats wot their really want
Having made the good point of They saw it coming; now all I would suggest is that the couple should avoid all the stress from both parents by living their lives without the so called religious wedding.... they can even spend their live anywhere without their parents knowing where they are too!
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 25-02-2010 10:18 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
1...God warm people of isreal not marry in some clan because of their believe,and by faith every christian are isreal 2...two the gurl as christain had defile that law 3...three marry is for better and worest . 4...the should continue as hushand of wife,let not religion be barrier forsake of the children and happiness. ....the can not turn the hand of clock
Posted: at 25-02-2010 10:18 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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