wat happens when ur best friend is comming betwen u and ur partner

Published 10 years ago by: Enockia Seth
at 26-02-2010 11:42PM (10 years ago)

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i have this friend as in we've been best of friends for like 5 years
then then she introduced me to one of her friends who eventutally became ma  girlfriend
now the problem is that there was a quarrell between both fo them nd ma girlfriend want's me to stay clear of her
i don't thinnk i can do it cos of the bond between me and ma best friend.
please people out there tell me wat u think i should do  Undecided
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olay92 at 27-02-2010 01:01AM (10 years ago)
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help them settle their differences or chose 1
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Keffejude at 27-02-2010 01:12AM (10 years ago)
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...have a threesome
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Enockia at 27-02-2010 02:03AM (10 years ago)
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@ keffe yeye boy

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aussiegirl at 27-02-2010 04:53AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: olay92 on 27-02-2010 01:01AM
help them settle their differences or chose 1


dont matter wat u want.
if u want ur gf,then give up ur friend.
u can always find more friends,
if the case maybe.
but if its a problem,with ur gf not wishing u to have contact
there has to be a good reason.
theres two sides to every story.
maybe its jealousy arriving between ur friend and gf.
either way,could u imagine life without ur gf,
and the happiness u feel,when together
or do u want to settle for just a friend.
a friend cant give u wat a gf can
thats the difference.
hope all helps.
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Starlette at 27-02-2010 06:42AM (10 years ago)
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Yeah try settling dem. N if u've tried settling their dem n still 2 no avail, tear 1 off that is, if u luv ur girl n u wish 2 marry her, leave ur bestfriend. mayb she's just jealous.

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Chyno at 27-02-2010 07:03AM (10 years ago)
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If settling dem proves abortiv den, u ll hv 2 choose btwn d 2.
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nonsog at 27-02-2010 07:47AM (10 years ago)
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If you see yourself marrying your girlfriend then do as she says, otherwise stay out of the fight. Tell her you dont want to be involved. Dont get involved in any he says she says, it will only backfire. Speak to your friend and tell her the same. See if you can stay on neutral topics when you talk. Make sure no one says anything evil about the other to you. Hopefully your friend is mature enough to understand the situation.
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docreala at 27-02-2010 07:40PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: olay92 on 27-02-2010 01:01AM
help them settle their differences or chose 1

u heard it.
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Umar13 at 28-02-2010 10:57AM (9 years ago)
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Settle them or go for ur girlfriend.leave ur friend cos she wil come back later,its only a matter of time
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myragonza at 28-02-2010 01:27PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Enockia on 26-02-2010 11:42PM
i have this friend as in we've been best of friends for like 5 years
then then she introduced me to one of her friends who eventutally became ma  girlfriend
now the problem is that there was a quarrell between both fo them nd ma girlfriend want's me to stay clear of her
i don't thinnk i can do it cos of the bond between me and ma best friend.
please people out there tell me wat u think i should do  Undecided Undecided Undecided


i think u shouldn't involve urself in their own cat fight...furthermore,its not guranteed that u will spend the rest of ur life with this gf....so why lose a good friend in the process....

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happinee at 28-02-2010 01:57PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 28-02-2010 01:27PM
Quote from: Enockia on 26-02-2010 11:42PM
i have this friend as in we've been best of friends for like 5 years
then then she introduced me to one of her friends who eventutally became ma  girlfriend
now the problem is that there was a quarrell between both fo them nd ma girlfriend want's me to stay clear of her
i don't thinnk i can do it cos of the bond between me and ma best friend.
please people out there tell me wat u think i should do  Undecided Undecided Undecided


i think u shouldn't involve urself in their own cat fight...furthermore,its not guranteed that u will spend the rest of ur life with this gf....so why lose a good friend in the process....

well said.
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Enockia at 2-03-2010 08:07PM (9 years ago)
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well i think u've all talked well thanks

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luvvy at 2-03-2010 08:12PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Enockia on 26-02-2010 11:42PM
i have this friend as in we've been best of friends for like 5 years
then then she introduced me to one of her friends who eventutally became ma  girlfriend
now the problem is that there was a quarrell between both fo them nd ma girlfriend want's me to stay clear of her
i don't thinnk i can do it cos of the bond between me and ma best friend.
please people out there tell me wat u think i should do  Undecided Undecided Undecided

wat happens when ur best friend is comming betwen u and ur partner?

u will lock the door so dat they won't be able to enter
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Enockia at 2-03-2010 09:06PM (9 years ago)
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then ni'll loe two of them she

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ebony_cutie at 2-03-2010 09:13PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Enockia on 26-02-2010 11:42PM
i have this friend as in we've been best of friends for like 5 years
then then she introduced me to one of her friends who eventutally became ma  girlfriend
now the problem is that there was a quarrell between both fo them nd ma girlfriend want's me to stay clear of her
i don't thinnk i can do it cos of the bond between me and ma best friend.
please people out there tell me wat u think i should do  Undecided Undecided Undecided

Well, is best u stay clear of it and let them settle it themselves, not wise to come in cos u might end up losing your bestfriend.
They are both adults and can sit and settle issues
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Enockia at 2-03-2010 11:17PM (9 years ago)
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true talk

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mazi at 3-03-2010 12:30AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 28-02-2010 01:27PM
Quote from: Enockia on 26-02-2010 11:42PM
i have this friend as in we've been best of friends for like 5 years
then then she introduced me to one of her friends who eventutally became ma  girlfriend
now the problem is that there was a quarrell between both fo them nd ma girlfriend want's me to stay clear of her
i don't thinnk i can do it cos of the bond between me and ma best friend.
please people out there tell me wat u think i should do  Undecided Undecided Undecided


i think u shouldn't involve urself in their own cat fight...furthermore,its not guranteed that u will spend the rest of ur life with this gf....so why lose a good friend in the process....
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