pls help me

It seems to me you have been away a long time. I imagine she got lonely without you there. Sometimes we all need someone to hold us and hug us, maybe you can understand you were lonely too. I think when you go back you should sit and talk face to face before you rush to any conclusion. It is always better to sit face to face and discuss things rather than just fly off the handle. Other people getting involved can also cause a serious disturbance in your relationship because some people do not want love to make it...they like to see people broken down...so my advice to you is - wait and see what goes on when you return home...if you don't get married at least you got to be with your family for a visit and enjoy their company...and if you do decide to get married despite what has happened then that too is a good thing...you win either way in my eyes... may you be blessed with insight and may all things work to your advantage. Amen.

Posted: at 3-05-2010 04:11 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Guy! Its a difficult task Bro!!
Anyway_if truly she loves you same way you love her...
Seek for her if she is the GOLD you seek.You just forgive and
try as much as possible to forget all that has happened and move on
with the wedding.Ask GoD for direction and I hope you have successful wedding BRO!!!

Posted: at 3-05-2010 09:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 3-05-2010 10:37 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

My guy..listen and listen carefully

forget about this gal,u just got away for only 2and some months or 2years,she just started misbehaving by messing around...I advise you to look for another gal in wherever u in now..abi are there not naija babes there?if there are date one.

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Posted: at 3-05-2010 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

dere is notin confusing here..poster just do anytin u lyk

Posted: at 3-05-2010 03:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Did you want her to rust before you came back?

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Posted: at 3-05-2010 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Can I be part of that agency for advice...At least you go give me some cut from the payment.
Hahaha

Posted: at 3-05-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

hahahaha..bad market

Posted: at 3-05-2010 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

lol, you wan join, will cost u only 100k 

Posted: at 3-05-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thanks to everybody that contribute, am indeed greatfull for all the advice but the truth is ilove her and my family already know her she is so close to them, i will find it hard to bring inn another girl to them. she has been crying calling me since i got the new and am having a surgery next week i dont know how to go about all the stress and i need to get prepparev for my surgery..

Posted: at 3-05-2010 06:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie