So many lovers have fallen into the arms of each other not truly knowing what they are doing or what's pushing them. While one of them is thinking that they are in a relationship, the other can't remember asking for or consenting to one.
How can two people be in a relationship yet they are not aware of how it started? It is only weeds that grow that way ; they grow where they were not planted.
Don't start a relationship where CONVICTION is questionable. Lady, anyone that is interested in you should be able to explain clearly how convinced he is that you are a better complement of him. He should also be patient enough to give you some time to be convinced about an answer for him—whether YES Or NO! Any relationship that puts you under pressure to say YES to it should be placed on a red alert.
Friend, be sensitive to know when friendships are producing deeper emotional feelings and attractions than normal and raise it up for discussion. In such a case, ask your friend what's going on. Don't assume that it's still the friendship you knew. Many people have crossed the line just like that and the other person was not aware. While one person thought that they were still friends, the other was already working with the vision of a love relationship.
Relationships are clearly initiated with an expression of interest and intention for acceptance or rejection. It is not a hide and seek game. It is not not a game of feelings. It's not a game of two nice people. It's a serious matter.
FOUNDATION PRINCIPLES:
- Relationships shouldn't grow like weeds. Nobody grooms a weed.
- Many people that want a love relationship don't actually need it.
- When you are not certain of what you want out of a person, you'll not know how to maximize the privilege of connection.
- Refuse to assume that a relationship had started when it was not initiated.
- Certainty triggers commitment. Don't expect a level of commitment from an uncertain relationship.
©LOVE SPECIALS
Source : http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/when-unserious-people-fall-in-love.html
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