............."Nagging is not the same as a corrective observation, it's critical and non-objective. It often comes of as cruel and inconsiderate"...............Is dat the definition?.@OC
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 18-05-2010 04:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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antile2004 at 18-05-2010 05:27 PM (14 years ago) (m) well, this issue may be a whole new case study. Sorry back to the nagging thing, i think it may mean insecurity or rather some women think say na de only wey to get what dey want, well i will give in fast to such women cause i want some peace. anthony ile Posted: at 18-05-2010 05:27 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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onchedu at 18-05-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) (m) ............."Nagging is not the same as a corrective observation, it's critical and non-objective. It often comes of as cruel and inconsiderate"...............Is dat the definition?.@OC
just a break down. More like an clarification of meaning than a definition. Posted: at 18-05-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Probably you guys see some ladies ways of putting up objection to certain things as NAGGING....not everyone is blunt you know and most of you guys dont appreciate blunt ladies.........if she appears decisive or blunt abt the whole thing, you guys call dat an act of subordination, or rather that she wants to take over your position as the LEADER of the house!........We cant get things done in your own way, so we go the subtle way....I am not in support of non-constructive corrections though!.......(also understand dat some men dont like to be told that they are wrong)...gosssssssssshhhhhhhhh, what am I saying self.......OC leave me alone oo......lol
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 18-05-2010 05:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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akjasper at 18-05-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) Women will always 'NAG' Cos they seems to always find fault in anything a man does ....though nt all women bt most of 'em ! Posted: at 18-05-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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mibenne at 18-05-2010 10:08 PM (14 years ago) (f) umh,nagging,lazy men make their women nag ,they need some one to kick their ass.lame and lazy bones get up and work.no vex oh,boys in the house. Posted: at 18-05-2010 10:08 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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onchedu at 19-05-2010 08:42 AM (14 years ago) (m) So it's a man's fault U can't control ur emotions. Is that what u are saying, Mibenne? Posted: at 19-05-2010 08:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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onchedu at 31-08-2010 08:21 PM (14 years ago) (m) Where this chic dey wey she no come answer? and what ever happend to Omatu? Posted: at 31-08-2010 08:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Women nag cos its in their system and only few can tackle and control it a bit Posted: at 31-08-2010 08:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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onchedu at 31-08-2010 08:51 PM (14 years ago) (m) I see. Posted: at 31-08-2010 08:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Bros na so i see am too from my little understanding and view of life Posted: at 31-08-2010 08:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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onchedu at 1-09-2010 06:35 PM (14 years ago) (m) Thanks. At least U make Ur own contribution. Posted: at 1-09-2010 06:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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gimac at 2-09-2010 05:23 PM (14 years ago) (m) because nagging is natural to woman Posted: at 2-09-2010 05:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 3-09-2010 09:17 AM (14 years ago) (f) Telling a man something once is like never telling him at all. If men did what they were supposed to do as reasonable, rational adults - we'd never even have to utter a word. Women nag because men give them reasons to. Men give women reasons to nag so that they have an excuse to complain about their women. Men also give them reasons to nag because in some sick twisted way, they find it humorous to annoy the hell out of their woman. Because men are liars and they can lie even thousands times! If you just did as you were told we wouldn't have to nag you. Posted: at 3-09-2010 09:17 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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awww treasure r u ready for som fireworks ? Posted: at 3-09-2010 09:28 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Now I'm not saying all women do nag, but most I've observed do and it's not just their husbands. They start to nag their kids too at some point and it's like everything they love they struggle to frustrate and push away from themselves.
Nagging is not the same as a corrective observation, it's critical and non-objective. It often comes of as cruel and inconsiderate.
I don't know if there's some biological, psychological or even emotional logic to why a woman would complain about everything and sometimes just not see good things to say nice things about. Is it the pressures of being a wife and a mother and strains from that that finally get to some of them and drive them to perpetual nagging? Is it a hormonal breakdown?
I'd like for those that have answers to share and those that can hypothesize are welcome to do so. I think if we knew we'd be more tolerant an accommodating of the women in our lives or those that will be in our lives. Reasons may vary but I believe we can arrive at a logical summary.
So, what makes women nag?
Web definitition of nag "To annoy by constant scolding, complaining, or urging." So technically if women r nags n the men in their life complains about it, well then they r also guilty of nagging Posted: at 3-09-2010 12:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Live and let live! Posted: at 3-09-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 3-09-2010 04:08 PM (14 years ago) (f) awww treasure r u ready for som fireworks ?  No my dear, but if they should be attentive to details why will any body nag them. Any way men Nag too. Posted: at 3-09-2010 04:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyin at 3-09-2010 04:23 PM (14 years ago) (f) Its due to depression and fustration.If you have a wife at home and she nags,take her on a holiday and make her rest more.Even if she's running around doing things,try to be a helping hand.We women are humans and not machine.Being stressed out is not good for the body at all.She needs you more than ever. Posted: at 3-09-2010 04:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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awww treasure r u ready for som fireworks ?  No my dear, but if they should be attentive to details why will any body nag them. Any way men Nag too. true talk luvv Posted: at 3-09-2010 05:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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