Why is it so hard to be upfront and honest when starting a new relationship?

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at 03:22 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)

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The world is changing, so I must take the time to be reflective. Why is it so hard for people to be upfront and honest these days?
I just don't get people these days, be upfront don't be around the bush. Anything done in the dark will definitely come to the light eventually.Be a man and a woman about it.My goodness gracious....

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teeco at 03:24 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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HOPEA23 at 03:41 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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ok..so how can we help you?

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teeco at 04:04 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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Good Pastor HOPEA is here

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Empress_Ameera at 06:35 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 03:41 PM, 31/05/2010
ok..so how can we help you?

I don't necessarily need help, I believe as a people we all need help especially as we navigate life when engaging other people. I remain a faithful,humble and most of all prayerful woman. I have the ability to see through the negative and untruthful motives, so thus far I have been good. I just don't like being wasteful as it relates to my time when engaging those that choose to be dishonest and not upfront..

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moneyinbrakemi at 06:41 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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I think they just want to established something in the heart of
their new found love; be it true or false without thinking about the end product...

I can't waste all pf my time establishing wrong motive or information in the heart of my lover
I will just go straight to the point;cos i would not want to live a life of falsehood
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Empress_Ameera at 06:41 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 03:24 PM, 31/05/2010
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I wouldn't believe a pastor of their tongues were notarized.....

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moneyinbrakemi at 07:39 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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Haha___so you talk this much?
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onchedu at 07:45 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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Only so when trust has not been established. Withholding info and lying however, are two different things.
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moneyinbrakemi at 08:48 PM, 31/05/2010 (9 years ago)
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Sure they are b4 na__abi dem don change
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bestgift at 08:17 AM, 2/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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Ask guys
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yomightgold at 08:38 AM, 2/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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Women cherish lies more than truth...
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Miss_precious at 11:08 AM, 2/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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 Sad Sad

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bhl72 at 11:23 AM, 2/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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I don't necessarily need help, I believe as a people we all need help especially as we navigate life when engaging other people. I remain a faithful,humble and most of all prayerful woman. I have the ability to see through the negative and untruthful motives, so thus far I have been good. I just don't like being wasteful as it relates to my time when engaging those that choose to be dishonest and not upfront..

then just keep away from this game... for sure, babes like lies (not liars) and it works!
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Kennee at 10:18 PM, 2/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Empress_Ameera on 03:22 PM, 31/05/2010
The world is changing, so I must take the time to be reflective. Why is it so hard for people to be upfront and honest these days?
I just don't get people these days, be upfront don't be around the bush. Anything done in the dark will definitely come to the light eventually.Be a man and a woman about it.My goodness gracious....

Ok

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esonu at 08:56 AM, 3/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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am out

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solojaro at 09:13 AM, 3/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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The girls/Ladies believe and cherish lies.
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Empress_Ameera at 01:38 AM, 4/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: yomightgold on 08:38 AM,  2/06/2010
Women cherish lies more than truth...

I suppose someone may prefer a lie over the truth, however I am not one of them. I feel that you shouldn't have to lie about anything as a grown person, either the person is going to deal with it, or their not. Move on to the next person. What one person won't accept there are 10 willing to accept.

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shaoyang at 01:50 AM, 4/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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it depends the kind of relationship you want from the other person
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misshelly at 02:53 PM, 4/06/2010 (9 years ago)
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some coward men preffer to take the easy way which is lying, just to get what they want and they forget that women are the fast and best learners in the world.

When they get what they have invested in women, they put the fault on womanhold, but i preffer the hard truth than the sweet lie as a person
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