Can you marry som1 you are not segxwally attracted to? (Page 5)

Date: 14-07-2010 10:26 am (14 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- sophiebaby at 15-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 15-07-2010 05:35 PM
for sure na... Sophie fit do without that thing?

for y? i dey mad
Posted: at 15-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 15-07-2010 07:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on 15-07-2010 02:09 PM
pissing and shitting

Go take Medicine, na Fever
Posted: at 15-07-2010 07:03 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 15-07-2010 07:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-07-2010 04:17 PM
no cuz then we dont phyuk

i cant make luv to somebody am not attracted to...

sex is important in a relationship, and a nice way

to show how much u care
hmmmmm ur boi friend dey for soup ooooooooooo.. una go dey do every 20mins
Posted: at 15-07-2010 07:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 15-07-2010 07:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 14-07-2010 10:26 AM
I feel it will not be fair to your partner (and yourself also) if you go into a marriage if there is no compatibility in this area. Personally, I feel it could lead to lack of respect, lack of intimacy, frustration, discontent and ultimately divorce.

Some men cheat because they no longer find their wives attractive with leads to a lack of interest in the bedroom also. Sometimes people claim to fall out of love but actually the attraction is what has gone away. Maybe it has to do with issues such as personal hygiene(Mouth or body odour) etc.

Those in arranged marriages or ladies who marry for money are very susceptible to this and can easily stray if the right temptation comes along(forget that anyone claimed virgin before they married). Some may even say the love for their partner goes beyond sex but what's it like to marry someone you love but can't love in the bedroom(this is not about teaching, I mean a total absence of attraction, spark and chemistry)? Some people who hurriedly married virgins should understand this.

Now there's a danger in marrying virgins because some of them never "ever" get to a point where they can be comfortable or desire sex unless for reproductive purposes, leaving the man(who decides not to cheat) in a mix. It works the other way too when a man or woman is too slow in catching up, it turns the other party off entirely.So for those who don't believe in sampling before marriage(not that I'm encouraging it), it's a bit of a pickle when you get married and open up a world of surprises.

So the question is, will you do it?

For love?
For money?
For security?
For your parents sake?
For celibacy sake(Virgins)?


Not likely as it is but can't say for sure. Why would I want to marry someone I don't find segxwally attractive in any way sef ehn? Anyway, segxwal attraction can be developed so ...
Posted: at 15-07-2010 07:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- teeze at 15-07-2010 08:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Nope... Its gonna b both physical and emotional torture.
Posted: at 15-07-2010 08:07 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sweetrae at 15-07-2010 08:19 PM (14 years ago)
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no!!!...
Posted: at 15-07-2010 08:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 15-07-2010 08:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 15-07-2010 07:05 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-07-2010 04:17 PM
no cuz then we dont phyuk

i cant make luv to somebody am not attracted to...

sex is important in a relationship, and a nice way

to show how much u care
hmmmmm ur boi friend dey for soup ooooooooooo.. una go dey do every 20mins
nothin bad in it if u both up for that  Smiley Smiley

Posted: at 15-07-2010 08:48 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 15-07-2010 10:49 PM (14 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed
Posted: at 15-07-2010 10:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- LEONE at 16-07-2010 03:57 AM (14 years ago)
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Nope.
Posted: at 16-07-2010 03:57 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SOLOMATINS at 16-07-2010 09:00 AM (14 years ago)
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pls don't ever try to accomodate such a person......i tried it in my last relationship it was a terrible experienced.I personally called it off when she couldn't catched up on time......I thought i could changed her but not knowing that i was putting myself into a dull relationship.........just 3months courtship.Pls!!!!!!!! don't try it
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:00 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- waco at 16-07-2010 09:23 AM (14 years ago)
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i can marry her on one condition!
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 09:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 16-07-2010 09:23 AM
i can marry her on one condition!
wht is tht ?
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:39 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- waco at 16-07-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago)
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do u really want to know?
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 09:44 AM (14 years ago)
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i wudnt ask if i dont wanna kno

tell me now
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:44 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- cyndi3 at 16-07-2010 09:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Can't, fullstop.
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- waco at 16-07-2010 09:48 AM (14 years ago)
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tell u now or?
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:48 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Dguy at 16-07-2010 09:49 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: cyndi3 on 16-07-2010 09:47 AM
Can't, fullstop.

gues sex is BIG  Grin
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cyndi3 at 16-07-2010 09:51 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 16-07-2010 09:49 AM
Quote from: cyndi3 on 16-07-2010 09:47 AM
Can't, fullstop.

gues sex is BIG  Grin
u said it Wink besides, u need to let the tension flow from ya Grin
Posted: at 16-07-2010 09:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- slimshaddy-8 at 16-07-2010 10:00 AM (14 years ago)
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segxwal atraction is part of the deal so the answer is no.
Posted: at 16-07-2010 10:00 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 16-07-2010 10:25 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 16-07-2010 09:48 AM
tell u now or?
now or tonight... cuz am comin over

tell ur other gals to back off  Grin
Posted: at 16-07-2010 10:25 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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