She is my music teacher here in malaysia, for some reasons.. I would be left with no option than to just keep her name to myself as she is one of malaysia's top model and singer, well she's been my opera and classical vocal coach for two(2) months now, and most times we tend to punch on an exercise, I already did some training back in nigeria, so I pick quite alright without giving her much problems on things to amend, until two(2)wks ago when we were like having a duet together on the song by Chris Brown and Keri Hilson (Superhuman).. at the middle of the song, she stopped playing her keyboard and was like, "I never really liked blacks, but your recording company that had you on scholarship here paid me much to coach you Bode, but now, I think I realise blacks can be so unpredictable sometimes" I asked, what was that suppose to mean, She said, you would understand sooner how someone you dont expect cared so much about you. I said ok. about 3 days later, I got a text of "you are a prodigy, but think of whatever you think you are in your own very best sense, I think I'm in love with you for your genuineness" well.. I always wanna be loyal, I replied with, thank you, and she was like, thank you??? well, she's been like "I know you might think of my kind of my person and my status, but take me as I am as I took you for not the age series but the real you" how the phyuking little me go go into relationship such as this when I am not even sure of myself wanting to, my question is the lamest on earth but please forgive me pals, how can I just continue being myself??? I mean clues on how to remain being myself.
Posted: at 6-08-2010 12:36 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
thats very hard my bro...try let her understand u and ya feelings she is a human as well so she must feel u...be strong and go on on ya way no allow nothin to miss route u...
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 6-08-2010 01:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
From history,Teacher student relationship ends very bad,..If ur in developed country, the lady might even loose her job duing what she did,...She is ur teacher and u cant go fu..king ur teacher at night and then be her student by day...its not done!!!
Another thing...try en find out if she has dated a student b4, cause am just seeing a teacher lusting after her student here,...And remember you are on scholarship...dont dare do things that will mean leting ur sponsor down...This is an opportunity millions are looking for, dont go loose it cause of a woman,...she has gotten her own degree in life,..be smart and avoid temptations, i aint saying u should date a gur as a grown ass dudel..but hell naa..not ur teacher!!!
Posted: at 6-08-2010 05:03 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
She is my music teacher here in malaysia, for some reasons.. I would be left with no option than to just keep her name to myself as she is one of malaysia's top model and singer, well she's been my opera and classical vocal coach for two(2) months now, and most times we tend to punch on an exercise, I already did some training back in nigeria, so I pick quite alright without giving her much problems on things to amend, until two(2)wks ago when we were like having a duet together on the song by Chris Brown and Keri Hilson (Superhuman).. at the middle of the song, she stopped playing her keyboard and was like, "I never really liked blacks, but your recording company that had you on scholarship here paid me much to coach you Bode, but now, I think I realise blacks can be so unpredictable sometimes" I asked, what was that suppose to mean, She said, you would understand sooner how someone you dont expect cared so much about you. I said ok. about 3 days later, I got a text of "you are a prodigy, but think of whatever you think you are in your own very best sense, I think I'm in love with you for your genuineness" well.. I always wanna be loyal, I replied with, thank you, and she was like, thank you??? well, she's been like "I know you might think of my kind of my person and my status, but take me as I am as I took you for not the age series but the real you" how the phyuking little me go go into relationship such as this when I am not even sure of myself wanting to, my question is the lamest on earth but please forgive me pals, how can I just continue being myself??? I mean clues on how to remain being myself.
My Brotha, just Discuss with her what yu really Feel inside... Don't try to be Diplomatic about it. Be Sincere to her what yu wouldn't want and what yu would Want
Yes, yu will not wanno hurt her feelings, l know, but since yu have a Focus, pour yur heart out to her. Dis will help put things right
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 6-08-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
tell her ya mind. and dont worry about wat she said. love cannot fly out of the blue sky like that. it takes times. 6mth is not even enough to define love. tell her to give u sometimes, then after u r done with ya lessons. u can fly for free.
Posted: at 6-08-2010 08:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Guy, take a hike. No drugs but just air and good food. Away from her.
Don't know what u want out of life though. This much I can say, being in a pure relationship at a young age sure helps prevent guys from derailing from 'sane and societal encouraged' paths towards the paths of "Insanity". The parts of insanity includes, womanizing, alcoholism, braggadocio, drug abuse, depression and the likes.
So, seriously, she may be the best thing that has ever happened to you. And that is if she has deeply entrenched positive values. She could be God's gift to you in this mad, insane crazy world that we live in.
You need to weigh it. Like put all these in perspective cause only you can decide for you.
Young man, every man must find his own way.
Try this, Stephen Covey's "7Habits of Highly Effective People". Get her a copy to.
There is some chapter in the book that talks about drafting a personal mission statement. Trying to draft a personal mission statement helps you discover yourself. Know that our values change down the line as we age too. So be careful not to make choices that u will hate in the future. So when u draft a mission statement then u like factor in if she ties into it and how she ties into it.
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Take your time. If it is a fling she is looking for then, I think she shouldn't get it cause it will affect work and it may compromise your career in music. If it is marriage consider her. If she is the kind of girl who goes into a relationship hoping it works out, then this matter is something that you should take seriously.
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One more thing. Loose your respect for beauty. Do not let beauty affect your decisions. Solomon wrote that, "Beauty is a charm". Beauty is a very dangerous quality in a woman. It clouds her real self. Beauty is a mask. Do not fall in love with her beauty.
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I have to go. Me brother keeps calling me a philantropist these past few days. It seems I spend more time on people than myself. May be I should become a pastor or some Zig Ziglar kind of guy. That way other things won't suffer at the mercy of things that matter. Life wasn't promised.
Take care of yourself justly without apologies for and to beauty or emotions.
Posted: at 6-08-2010 09:22 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Thank you all for putting me through.. You are all more than appreciated... God go see through to una issues too oo.. You guys/girls are the best.. THANK YOU
Posted: at 6-08-2010 10:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
She is my music teacher here in malaysia, for some reasons.. I would be left with no option than to just keep her name to myself as she is one of malaysia's top model and singer, well she's been my opera and classical vocal coach for two(2) months now, and most times we tend to punch on an exercise, I already did some training back in nigeria, so I pick quite alright without giving her much problems on things to amend, until two(2)wks ago when we were like having a duet together on the song by Chris Brown and Keri Hilson (Superhuman).. at the middle of the song, she stopped playing her keyboard and was like, "I never really liked blacks, but your recording company that had you on scholarship here paid me much to coach you Bode, but now, I think I realise blacks can be so unpredictable sometimes" I asked, what was that suppose to mean, She said, you would understand sooner how someone you dont expect cared so much about you. I said ok. about 3 days later, I got a text of "you are a prodigy, but think of whatever you think you are in your own very best sense, I think I'm in love with you for your genuineness" well.. I always wanna be loyal, I replied with, thank you, and she was like, thank you??? well, she's been like "I know you might think of my kind of my person and my status, but take me as I am as I took you for not the age series but the real you" how the phyuking little me go go into relationship such as this when I am not even sure of myself wanting to, my question is the lamest on earth but please forgive me pals, how can I just continue being myself??? I mean clues on how to remain being myself.
My Brotha, just Discuss with her what yu really Feel inside... Don't try to be Diplomatic about it. Be Sincere to her what yu wouldn't want and what yu would Want
Yes, yu will not wanno hurt her feelings, l know, but since yu have a Focus, pour yur heart out to her. Dis will help put things right
Kenee my brother, na wetin been dey happen to me here in malay be that ooo.. but I will watch and be careful just as you advised.. how's my birthday sake doing?
Posted: at 6-08-2010 10:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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